Risky Business

[classe300]

I'm a guy with a log-term S.O. and I have no intention of changing that. I DO like to partake in the hobby when I can [get away with it] A couple close calls have caused me to reconsider my hobby. I had just finished a session at her place and her phone rings. She panics trying to find it - "it's my boyfriend" - and finally locates and answers. YIKES! He's on his way over here. WHAT??? He doesn't know about the business at least not according to her...I mean what if he called from around the corner? That'll be my last visit with her. #2) I was in Buffalo on business and leaving the conference at 4 PM I go to the garage and my car is GONE. I almost set up a meet with a local and I got thinking...what if my car were stolen from her place? How would I explain to my S.O. I needed a ride from Amherst and NOT downtown. FML. Time to quit. Thoughts? Fears?

[I-drink-pinneapple-juice]

I think you gotta do what you feel comfortable with and that can be different for everybody. A risk one person is willing to take might be too much for someone else. I think a lot of guys on here have an SO and must have decided it's worth the risk. Does the joy/pleasure outweigh the risk/potential consequence? Only you can decide that for yourself. Good luck!!

[lilylivered]

Not married
No girl friend
Self employed
No problems

[icewatermansion]

Same as Lily for me.

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by classe300

Thoughts? Fears?

muricas finally gettin ...its balls back

...maybes ya shoulds toos

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by lilylivered

No
...life

fixed er fer ya!

[bigtree]

I can empathise with C300's dilemma. I, too have a wife and dont want to change that, but the hobby has always had allure. Recently i had a very dicey encounter...provider was clearly fried when i arrived, but i decided to go for it anyway. She was able to perform somewhat, but kept nodding off, literally once with my cock in her mouth. I gave up and left, but after thought what if she had died and i was the last person to see her ? That would have been a tough one to explain...luckily she's fine, but i dont think im going to see her again, and im also questioning if the risk is worth it.

[Dalagra]

I’ve never been with a provider who has fallen asleep on me. Holy shit, I don’t even know how I’d react to that.

I think if you can quit the hobby, you probably should. If you can’t, good luck with the risk.

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by Dalagra

I’ve never been with a provider who has fallen asleep on me. Holy shit, I don’t even know how I’d react to that.

wells ifs ya hads any ...pride ...ya wouldnts publicly announce somethin so humiliatin likes the jimmies postin ...bouts theres malfunctionin ...cocks

[lilylivered]

Originally Posted by Plastic Man

fixed er fer ya!

Well not quite that bad but.....

[bigtree]

Just to be clear, as PM as usual has displayed distorted perception...this has nothing to do with any personal malfunction, my parts were working quite well...it was the provider that was malfunctioning, and in a frightening way. Shes a really cool chick, i was really starting to worry about her after and the repercussions on myself. It made me also wonder how often it happens and we dont really acknowledge or realize it at the time. Is pussy really worth all this ?

[redwing_centerfield]

Pineapple is right - it's up to you. What are you willing to lose as a result of your hobbying:


Significant other?
Children?
Job?
Health?
Friends?
Money/Savings?
Freedom (while remote, jail is a possibility)?


These are all things you need to consider and answer for yourself. As a guy who got 100% completely busted by my S.O. in the past, I can tell you, the outcomes are not pretty. Far too much pain and agony to discuss here - yet here I am, with a new S.O. and still hobbying....


"What's it gonna be boy, yes or no?"


IMHO.


RW

[bigtree]

For myself, i appreciate the input on this. Ive been over and over it in my mind since the experience. Theres a lot to lose for just some pussy, ive been lucky over my years in the hobby, never had a negative experience, this was my first, so i consider myself lucky. Im relieved nothing really awful happened, but the more i think about it, im looking at this as a warning, one i will most likely heed. But as RW is attesting, its tough to quit.