Ladies.... what's a real sugar daddy?

[Anthonylewis50]

A question for the ladies only....

What's a REAL sugar daddy for you? Not a splenda daddy, a real sugar daddy. What allowance do you expect? How do you expect to be treated?

[~Ze~]

My lease is paid in advance for the year.
All FMTY costs are covered.
Spending cash.
Shopping spree and spa while visiting.
One weekend per month.
Anything I need outside of the arrangement, all I have to do is ask.

Priority Status, Personal Status.

[TalliaThomas]

Well, first of all--- back in "the day", that term had a lot more meaning. SD/SB relationships were essentially exclusive, meaning that the girl only saw that gent and nobody else. So-- with that kind of situation in mind---


Living expenses-- covered Education--- covered. Occasional wants-- covered.


I'm a bit long in the tooth to be a "baby".. but exclusive arrangements for me run about 12K per month (negotiated, sometimes less depending on the individual). That gives me living expenses, a few wants, and the ability to save for when the arrangement ends and I jump back into things.

[Anthonylewis50]

Thank you two for sharing, I really do appreciate it.

And Tallia that's a really helpful distinction. Nowadays I would say people don't presume exclusivity. I've always been curious about what the exclusive world looked like.

[TalliaThomas]

Originally Posted by Anthonylewis50

Thank you two for sharing, I really do appreciate it.

And Tallia that's a really helpful distinction. Nowadays I would say people don't presume exclusivity. I've always been curious about what the exclusive world looked like.

Yes... exclusivity is long out the window. Back in the day-- sugars had ONE daddy. These days, ladies are on the sugaring sites because they just don't want to admit to being an escort.


Don't get me wrong-- there is nothing inherently "wrong" with how the sites work now-- its just not a true SD/SB relationship. If it were, the ladies would not need multiple "daddies".

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by ~Ze~

My lease is paid in advance for the year.
All FMTY costs are covered.
Spending cash.
Shopping spree and spa while visiting.
One weekend per month.
Anything I need outside of the arrangement, all I have to do is ask.

Priority Status, Personal Status.

No pussy in here is worth that much! Sounds like a hooker fantasy to me......

[Anthonylewis50]

BLM!? Oh shit! Where you been dog? Good to have you back, but this thread is just for the ladies. We have other threads to talk about what the guys would do. I'm trying to hear from the ladies on what their thoughts are. Welcome back BLM the track wasn't the same without you

[TalliaThomas]

Originally Posted by BLM69

No pussy in here is worth that much! Sounds like a hooker fantasy to me......

That wasn't a fantasy-- she was literally spelling out what her current "main guy" is doing for her.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Anthonylewis50

BLM!? Oh shit! Where you been dog? Good to have you back, but this thread is just for the ladies. We have other threads to talk about what the guys would do. I'm trying to hear from the ladies on what their thoughts are. Welcome back BLM the track wasn't the same without you

Been in jail, I'm kidding, been focusing on other things rather the same old things over here, having been seeing hookers

[BossyWillson]

Originally Posted by ~Ze~

My lease is paid in advance for the year.
All FMTY costs are covered.
Spending cash.
Shopping spree and spa while visiting.
One weekend per month.
Anything I need outside of the arrangement, all I have to do is ask.

Priority Status, Personal Status.

i can see where that would work for a busy client that works a lot.

[Anthonylewis50]

Originally Posted by TalliaThomas

Yes... exclusivity is long out the window. Back in the day-- sugars had ONE daddy. These days, ladies are on the sugaring sites because they just don't want to admit to being an escort.


Don't get me wrong-- there is nothing inherently "wrong" with how the sites work now-- its just not a true SD/SB relationship. If it were, the ladies would not need multiple "daddies".

I was thinking about this for a few days...and I definitely have one sugar baby who is on the line between escort and sugar baby. I think in 5 years she'll either be stripping or escorting.

But there are other ladies in my life who just have different needs. They are nurses or flight attendants. They don't need me to take care of everything, and are often too busy to date in a traditional way. It just...works for us.

But I appreciate you describing what "true Sd/sb means". I've had some ladies say thats what they are looking for but I'm not sure they understand the concept as well as you've put it. I just don't that that will ever be the right fit for me because I like too much variety, and I'd rather have variety than exclusivity and priority.