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Guest100513-2 · 03-27-2011, 06:30 AM

The more interesting question would be what other handles incognito isis has registered on this site.

Wayward · 03-27-2011, 07:18 AM

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Originally Posted by pyramider

What is wrong with the provider leaving by running out the door like her hair was on fire? I thinck that is how most leave anyway . . .

And would someone please be Wayward's friend . . . the voices in his head sound lonely.

They are lonely, poor voices sometimes I won't even talk to them. Sure they talk to each other all the time, but it not the same as having a friend, thank you 3 sides for being so thoughtful.

Wayward · 03-27-2011, 07:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Wicket

I find this thread interesting mainly because of presumption that the gent is the one who wants to prolong the encounter. I actually saw this lady once. At the end of our allotted time, I got out of bed to get cleaned up to go when she said to me, "I'm telling you once. Stop watching the clock and get back in bed." Who was I to say no?

Speaking of needing a friend this poor little post got stuck at the bottom of a page and it's one of the better ones in this threAD. It needs to be quoted so the morning folks don't miss it. Of course it doesn't happen all the time and Wicket seems to know that too, but it doesn't exactly suck when it does. No one is even remotely suggesting that every one hour appointment is going to turn into an overnight. I'm postulating that if it never does or if anyone is going to set up a series of verbal roadblocks to make sure it doesn't that it kind of becomes sad.

charlestudor2005 · 03-27-2011, 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Wicket

I find this thread interesting mainly because of presumption that the gent is the one who wants to prolong the encounter. I actually saw this lady once. At the end of our allotted time, I got out of bed to get cleaned up to go when she said to me, "I'm telling you once. Stop watching the clock and get back in bed." Who was I to say no?

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Originally Posted by Wayward

Of course it doesn't happen all the time

I think WW's statement is an exaggeration. I think it happens closer to zero times than it does once in a lifetime.

Eccie Addict · 03-27-2011, 07:52 AM

CT I don't think it's an exaggeration at all. It is however something that if happens most if not all won't talk about it because then everyone will go to that provider hopinng it will happen.

texasjohn1965 · 03-27-2011, 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I think WW's statement is an exaggeration. I think it happens closer to zero times than it does once in a lifetime.

You can only speak for youself.

My percentage has been much higher, so I have no problem with WW statement.

Maybe it's a reflection of you......just sayin.

Wayward · 03-27-2011, 08:11 AM

Crap I could have just hit +1, damn it I've always wanted to do that.

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Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I think WW's statement is an exaggeration. I think it happens closer to zero times than it does once in a lifetime.

Charley never underestimate the kindness in a woman's heart, you seem so hell bent on doing that all the time. For you it might be a self fulfilling prophecy and how can I argue the accuracy of your life experience?

I do exaggerate all the time for comic effect but in this case not so much. Every pot has a top CT even you, for each of us Provider and Knobbyist there is that silver bullet and I've been shot a couple of times.

There is a reason oh so long ago that it almost seems another life, I turned to Blowpop and said "it doesn't suck to be us".

wildwooly1 · 03-27-2011, 08:16 AM

Just answer the question honestly...well if you would like me to stay ill have to charge you the normal fee or if you want to stay and visit just say thank you for asking i would love to stay and have dinner with you off the clock etc. etc.
that way everybody knows its either two people in a business deal or two people enjoying each others company and it can even be both...it could be that you go out and do something together and then come back and get back on the clock.
Just talk to each other with respect and be honest..we all know to begin with its a business deal but you can also make friends in this business.

hobbyist1 · 03-27-2011, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by monkmonk

The more interesting question would be what other handles incognito isis has registered on this site.

Excellent question, monkmonk. The more I think about it, the more it looks like someone who was banned.

Naomi4u · 03-27-2011, 12:11 PM

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Chica Chaser · 03-27-2011, 12:13 PM

Lets stay on track and stop the speculation

Guest031213-03 · 03-27-2011, 02:40 PM

If you have a website, you can post rates for public social dates that are lower than your regular rates. That may help you with the public date parts. Just refer them to your website so that they may see that you offer those types of things.

Ok, When I first started, I didn't make myself clear and didn't put my foot down when it came to saying "no" to my friends that wanted to spend extra time for free. I don't think it's always the guy being rude on purpose by asking what are your plans for afterwards or inviting you to stay. One really nice business man always asks me to go to dinner and I always tell him no thanks and that I really have to get home. I said yes to dinner last time and he was shocked and told me he really only asks to be nice and a gentlman and that he actually never expected me to agree to go. LOL So, he was just being a nice guy and using manners. We both had a great laugh over it. So, sometimes men can just be being a nice guy. Sometimes it's just small talk. Sometimes they really are trying to get free time. Sometimes the sessions are so much fun during the moments. It shouldn't be unheard of that the line could get blurred. Maybe he felt like you seem to enjoy yourself so much that you REALLY liked being with him. Acting is part of the job discription to a point I guess. I take it as a compliment that they want extra time with me. It means they enjoyed themselves with me. If you say no thanks and they still pester you about it, put your foot down a little harder. You don't have to make up excuses to not stay. Be polite and most of the guys realize it is what it is. They shouldn't be in the hobby if their feelings are getting hurt over things like this. If they write a bad review on you JUST because you won't give them FREE time, it's blackmail.

You should join this site with your provider name and get verified. There are alot of nice people here. Maybe the men here wouldn't hassle you or take advantage of your kindness the way your previous clients have seemed to be doing. Just a thought. You could also get alot of advice from the other ladies in the powder room also.

phatdaty · 03-27-2011, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Wayward

Speaking of needing a friend this poor little post got stuck at the bottom of a page and it's one of the better ones in this threAD. It needs to be quoted so the morning folks don't miss it. Of course it doesn't happen all the time and Wicket seems to know that too, but it doesn't exactly suck when it does. No one is even remotely suggesting that every one hour appointment is going to turn into an overnight. I'm postulating that if it never does or if anyone is going to set up a series of verbal roadblocks to make sure it doesn't that it kind of becomes sad.

That is a very good point. without knowing the context and tone of how it was said, how do we know the gent wasn't trying to get her out of his room so he could go to sleep, but being sort of reluctantly polite by saying:

"If you (yawn) want to (stretch) stay longer (rubbing eyes) you can."

onehitwonder · 03-27-2011, 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Wayward

They are lonely, poor voices sometimes I won't even talk to them. Sure they talk to each other all the time, but it not the same as having a friend, thank you 3 sides for being so thoughtful.

Oh, I don't know, Waydaddy. I would'nt kick you out of bed. Unless you were stealing all the covers.........

When I thinck of you in that way I get a funny lil feeling in my tummy.....sorta like guilt.....maybe we've been friends too long and the lust has past? Or maybe because it's taking too long for me to get to Houston? BTW June is rapidly approaching.........

Wayward · 03-27-2011, 05:33 PM

That is an excellent point phatdaty and I've been guilty of it too, but that isn't the move used when it isn't going well and I want them to leave. But I'm filing it away just in case.

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Originally Posted by onehitwonder

Oh, I don't know, Waydaddy. I would'nt kick you out of bed. Unless you were stealing all the covers.........

When I thinck of you in that way I get a funny lil feeling in my tummy.....sorta like guilt.....maybe we've been friends too long and the lust has past? Or maybe because it's taking to long for me to to Houston? BTW June is rapidly approaching.........

Onehitter I have never been a blanket thief so it won't be a problem. June is going to be funtastic and if you can be this phunny posting from a fone we can't wait to see you live and in person. dearhunter, NaN and Boardman will turn on the charm and I'll kind of fade into the background.