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Lana Warren · 12-26-2010, 11:36 AM

Reeltalk,
You put yourself out there and really it's good marketing for you! I'm sure you'll receive plenty of PMs from ladies who see AA men! If this problem ever arises for you again, start a thread in ISO, "Looking for ladies who see AA men!" That way, you're being proactive! Good luck with your search, dear!

Tony Patella · 12-26-2010, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Reeltalk

Thanks Tony and you're right. This card is overplayed but I guess after five consecutive attempts of having been turn away by five different providers over the phone (two hanging up after immediately hearing my voice, two giving me the runaround, one telling me flat out), then I was compelled to post for feedback on what's really going on here. However, I must say Tony that AA's receive far more of this rejection than any other non-preference you mentioned. That's why this is a reoccurring post/topic. And many times it's not to bitch and moan - but to expose it again in hopes that it does affect changes in the way we are perceived. It's easy for some (like yourself) to tire of these when you don't encounter this on a day to day basis - or after five straight attempts to contact providers who never indicated this until they're quickly hanging up on you.

Shoot Reeltalk, this morning I had some ass clown hobbyist suggest I was so damn ugly that a lady NC/NS'd me after seeing me through the peephole in her hotel room door! Talk about discrimination and rejection!!!

Lana Warren · 12-26-2010, 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Tony Patella

Shoot Reeltalk, this morning I had some ass clown hobbyist suggest I was so damn ugly that a lady NC/NS'd me after seeing me through the peephole in her hotel room door! Talk about discrimination and rejection!!!

I didn't answer the door because YOU forgot to bring the condoms!

Ooops, wrong thread!

JUST TEASIN'

delimex007 · 12-26-2010, 12:18 PM

Since when did freedom of choice become "racism" .Racism is a piss poor card used by incompetent/ignorant folks. Heck-the president of US is of an AA race. And don't tell me,he won b'cos only blacks voted for him. Jeez. And so ,all those blacks who voted for McCain or Palin [b'cos she's hot ] are racists then.

It's a person's choice who they want to see. Nothing racist there buddy. I prefer Caucasian / Latina gals.Doesn't mean I wont see AA/Asian girls -- just my preference. If a girl doesn't want to see you-- dont be a cry baby and come post here. Go,do some research on AA friendly providers and you are set. This cry baby attitude reeks of certain inferiority complexes in you. That's all.

And I would advise you to get the facts right before posting .
Your statement # 5 -- """5. Fear of HIV. Thank our wonderful national media for this one. Making us all believe that this is only or mostly a gay or black disease. Some providers may therefore believe there are more health risks associated with black clients."""

Well the stats show a different picture . Not that it matters and it certainly doesn't as using safe practices is the best option . This the link from CDC stating the incidence of HIV in US by race.
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/survei.../incidence.htm
Incidence per 100,000::
Blacks- 90
Hispanic-25
White-10
Alaskan Indian-15
Asian - 10

Jeez, this race thread is the most ridiculous. Beaten to death - absolutely. Search previous shut down threads. And any member can post on a thread. Not a moral right of a selected few providers or hobbyists. And for crying out loud again - the president of US is of the AA race.

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Guest071613-2 · 12-26-2010, 12:38 PM

I've had many AA clients, and have had nothing but great experiences with them. That being said.....

I won't see Middle Eastern/Arab guys and the numerous reasons for it are no one's business but my own...I don't owe anyone an explanation. However, I find it interesting that fewer people of any race, have a problem with women having a similar policy, as opposed to an NBA policy, but no one starts threads over that. Not seeing Arab men is far more acceptable, even by AA men, which I find interesting.

Just thought I would add something new to a topic that has been discussed way too many times already.

delimex007 · 12-26-2010, 01:00 PM

Dannie, it's only racist when you dont see AA men, not when you dont see Arab men. So it should be a NAA for you - No Arabs policy. LOL !!!
Really,these race theories are so idiotic and stupid !! Just see who you want and have a great time. Period. Wonder why such a simple thing is made so complex !!

fawn · 12-26-2010, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Lana Warren

Reeltalk,
You put yourself out there and really it's good marketing for you! I'm sure you'll receive plenty of PMs from ladies who see AA men! If this problem ever arises for you again, start a thread in ISO, "Looking for ladies who see AA men!" That way, you're being proactive! Good luck with your search, dear!

Realtalk, Lana just gave you a good suggestion, try posting your request
in ISO for the lady that will see AA....

You should never judge a book by its cover....

Don't judge anyone until you have walked a mile in their shoes....

GDLMAN · 12-26-2010, 01:12 PM

Did I say Black people have no rights here June?? How does the number of my posts have anything to do with this. It has been beaten to death.

Guest030112-4 · 12-26-2010, 01:19 PM

Then don't post lol.. very simple. You didn't have anything to contribute to the discussion.

GDLMAN · 12-26-2010, 01:45 PM

Your posts are so enlightening...thank you for your pearls of wisdom.

fawn · 12-26-2010, 02:05 PM

Please stay on the subject.....No hi jacking this thread......

delimex007 · 12-26-2010, 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by fawn

Please stay on the subject.....No hi jacking this thread......

Fawn , In my view all these NBA threads are ridiculous and deserve to be hijacked. Probably the hijacked topic can lead to a better discussion. just kidding !! LOL !!

delimex007 · 12-26-2010, 02:24 PM

And next time if anyone posts about the NBA policy - I will always post my CDC HIV incidence by race link !!

Sleepy363 · 12-26-2010, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by JuneCleavage

It's an important topic, I think. It was important enough that black people have rights, so why not discuss it? This is the discussion area...

It was an important topic the first 100 threads about it. Each one is the same, same argument, same responses. So yeah, it has been beat to death when there is really nothing new to add by anyone. Just do a search for one of those threads, copy the exact wording on any one of the responses and paste them into this thread and you'll see it's the same thing rehashed. It comes down to personal preference. No amount of complaining is ever going to change that.

TheBizzer · 12-26-2010, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by delimex007

And next time if anyone posts about the NBA policy - I will always post my CDC HIV incidence by race link !!

And what would be the point of that, exactly?