8+ years in hobby and having decent game irl didn't prepare me for my dip into the SA waters last year.
In comparison to typical online hobbying:
- You are forced to be patient because these girls are really flakey. Half will just go silent for days or weeks and most will next you if something more financially promising is on horizon at the last minute (same way you would if you found someone hotter and more affordable). Its a lot of fucking work to find anything that is even close to a better value than an escort, and if you do find it, it won't last. It really makes it difficult to find a good fit.
- Don't make the mistake of thinking that SA chicks are in general classier and more "normal" companions than escorts. It's a completely different marketplace since there are not reviews. Many have way worse attitudes (next them). There are also some straight fucking weirdos that would never make it in the hobby, but are on that site - learned this the hard way - she looked great in pics, texted really normal, then showed up to what was one of my favorite restaurants looking ratchet as fuck with a major lack of social skills, very strange experience. Rule of thumb, meet up for the first time somewhere inexpensive and be willing and ready to give her a few bucks and send her on her way back in the parking lot if she misrepresents herself online.
- There are many many more scammers on SA. They will give you sob stories and bullshit that my times in SE Asia didn't even prepare me for. Some real actresses are on there. Protip: you have to understand the psychology on this when they ask for money before meeting for pics or vids or help with a bill or whatever. 95% of the time its a straight scam and she never intended on meeting, 5% of the time or so she might actually be willing to meet.... BUT if you give her anything before you meet, you are 1) setting a horrible precedent and 2) losing a ton of respect. To you it's a nice thing. But keep in mind she gets shut the fuck down by 99% of guys for pulling that shit so if you fall for it, she's going to take you for a sucker.
- they all want long term security. Fuck that. These things aren't meant to last. Do as you wish, but PPM is better for me personally. Pro tip: whether you live in town or not, I ALWAYS tell them I either live somewhere else or travel a fuck ton for work. That way you can always blame your busy mysterious schedule for not seeing them, and can pop in when you are in the mood.
- in general, younger girls are better. You don't want to fuck with girls that have been in the game too long. You ain't on that level yet, and even if you were, you wouldn't waste your time with them.
- I'm not married, but if you have a SO you are keeping it from, keep your real world ID to yourself. With well reviewed providers, I really don't mind bullshitting and mentioning what I do every once in a while after getting to know them. Ain't nobody falling in love and becoming problematic for me and they don't rely on me for shit, drama is unlikely. Same cannot be said for sugar babies.
Not an original thought, but read it here: Dates with civilian girls are the cheapest way to get laid, providers are more expensive than dates, sugar babies are more expensive than providers, gfs are more expensive than sugar babies, fiances are more expensive than gfs, wives are more expensive than fiances, divorce is the most expensive of all.
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