Prostate Massage

[Destiny Monroe]

Prostate Massage

The G-Spot or Sacred Spot of a man is his prostate gland. Tantric philosophy considers the G-Spot a man's emotional sex center. Massaging the man's prostate releases tremendous amounts of emotional and physical stress. Coupled with stimulation of
his penis or "lingam", massaging his prostate can be extremely pleasurable and healing to the man. Since the most direct way to massage the man's Sacred Spot is through his anus, it takes time to adjust to being penetrated in this way. It is not for every man. The benefits are many and the pleasure can be very intense. For tantric partners, lovers or those otherwise genuinely comfortable with one another, massaging the sacred spot can be a powerful experience. Not only in terms of ecstatic pleasure for the "receiver",
but in the sexual empowerment it bestows on the "giver".

The walnut sized prostate
gland is located directly underneath the bladder, not far from the internal root of the penis (see diagram). As can be seen, the gland is in close proximity to the rectal wall, allowing for easy access through the anus.
Why is prostate massage
pleasurable? There are number of
reasons:
Ejaculation reflex sensation
No matter which method is used it is not possible to touch the prostate directly. The nearest indirect access is through the rectal wall, which means that there is still a membrane in
the way. This is somewhat akin to the inhibiting sensitivity a glove. Despite this restriction the lobes of the prostrate are highly sensitive to pressure. An array of sensations may be produced by pressing, rubbing or by means of stroking the gland through the rectal wall. The most profound of these feelings is similar to that sublime sensation which is normally felt during ejaculation, as the prostate begins pumping semen.
Anal
sensitivity
Along with the genital areas, the anus is connected to and interwoven with millions of delicately sensitive nerve endings, which can yield most pleasurable sensations.

Hidden penis
Unknown to most, over one
third of the penis is buried inside the body. It is the base of the (hidden) penis which may be pressured in a similar manner as the prostate. The effect of stimulating all three can be awesome, if done in concert with genital stimulation. Still more overwhelming than the physiological effects is the
psychological aspect of prostate massage, due to the unaccustomed nature of penetration of the receiver.
Psychological high
As powerful as physiological stimulation might be, it pales when compared to the immeasurably greater psychological or mental high. The very notion of the male placing himself into such a vulnerable position, results in a powerful mental rush, for both receiver as well giver. The willingness of the naturally controlling male to allow himself to placed in an naccustomed submissive role, should be particularly cherished by the giver.
Preparation
As in any intimate activity, certain basic rules apply. The receiver should be meticulously clean. The giver should have available form fitting latex surgical gloves (not the loose fitting variety). It's desirable for a number of reasons to use gloves, of which the first and foremost benefit is to protect the delicate anal membranes from sharp fingernails and rough skin. Secondly, a well lubricated rubber surface will glide more easily than exposed skin. Lubrication should be water based, such as K-Y jelly.
Taking a hot bath or shower prior to the massage is a good way to relax. While bathing the receiver will find it leasurable to begin to fanaticize in anticipation of the experience to come.

Positions
Face to
face (for greater intimacy)
After completely undressing the receiver should assume a seated position; his back reclined and supported by large firm pillows (at about a 45 - 65 degree angle). His knees pulled in the direction of his chest and somewhat angled outward. The resulting position should be both comfortable for the receiver, as well as following the giver unobstructed view and unfettered access to the anusand genitals of the receiver. The giver may sit cross legged, or kneel in front of the receiver.
As a way to relax the receiver, the giver may begin by massaging the receivers lower extremities, particularly the abdomen. Initially, the receiver may choose to relax by closing his eyes, but as the massage progresses it is of great importance that the receiver and giver maintain eye contact.
It will be up to the giver to decide when the receiver is sufficiently relaxed and aroused. At this time the giver should unobtrusively slip on a glove and to begin lubricating the receivers anus. The lubrication process should be lengthy and ceremonial. Beginning with circular motions, stroking the
anal opening. The objective is to pleasure and relax the nervous rosebud.
The giver should "never" poke
the anus with the tip of the finger, but to gently and firmly apply pressure with the pad of the finger. Continuously add lubrication; there can never be too much lubrication! When the anus is ready it will allow the finger to enter. All that is needed is time and patience.
[See Anal
Massage for more instructional images]
Remarkably, when the moment comes the giver will notice that the finger will seem to be drawn into the anus. Once the finger has been allowed to enter it is best to be still allowing the anal sphinctersthe chance to become accustomed to the intrusion. It will not be a good idea for the giver to move their finger in and out of the anus. There should only be one eason for the giver to remove the finger, and this would be to add more lubrication.
The giver is now ready to seek out the prostate: this can easily accomplished by crooking the inserted finger upwards, and feeling for a "roundish" to oblong protrusion about
2 inches inside the rectum. Applying pressure to the prostate will provide a variety of sensations, the most desirable of which is the feeling of impending ejaculation. By applying more or less pressure to the gland, the giver will be able to control these sensations; even to the point of inhibiting the
receiver from ejaculating. The ability to control ejaculation through prostate massage, allows for nearly unending stimulation of the receiver's genitals. The penis may be massaged by the giver, or by receiver himself, to a point of near ejaculation. Only to be kept on the brink by varying pressure on the prostate.
During the arousal cyclethe giver may begin to rhythmically move the inserted fingerpartially in and out, so as to stimulate the rich and super sensitive nerve endings around the anus.
Eye contact is mostdesirable at the resolution phase of the experience, with the receiver and giver gazing into one another's eyes... various scenarios are now
possible:

A. The
giver will allow the receiver to masturbate himself to achieve
ejaculating. All the while the giver will be verbally encouraging the
receiver to the moment of climax.
B. The
giver may masturbate the receiver's penis with one hand,
while massaging the receivers anal opening or prostate with the other. Both
giver and receiver should communicate intently, so as to allow
the greatest pleasure for the receiver.
C. The
receiver may desire for the giver to "milk" his prostate,
without direct stimulation to the penis. To achieve this the giver will
gently stroke each lobe, resulting in a gentle flow of semen and the emptying
of the prostate through the erect or flaccid
penis.
Facing
"away" from the giver (a magnificent view for the giver)
In this position the
receiver will be kneeling, knees apart, buttocks elevated, while the
elbows are resting on a firm surface, such as a cushioned floor matt. This
should be both a stable and comfortable position for the receiver.

The giver may
kneel or sit spread legged behind the receiver, having easy access and
a perfect view, of the receiver's anus. The giver will also be
in a position to reach between the receivers legs to allow stimulation of the
genitals.
From this point please
follow the same procedure as in the face to face
method.

[yugdlo]

Sounds very interesting Destiny.

[buzzworm86]

Originally Posted by Destiny Monroe

Prostate Massage

The G-Spot or Sacred Spot of a man is his prostate gland. Tantric philosophy considers the G-Spot a man's emotional sex center. Massaging the man's prostate releases tremendous amounts of emotional and physical stress. Coupled with stimulation of
his penis or "lingam", massaging his prostate can be extremely pleasurable and healing to the man. Since the most direct way to massage the man's Sacred Spot is through his anus, it takes time to adjust to being penetrated in this way. It is not for every man. The benefits are many and the pleasure can be very intense. For tantric partners, lovers or those otherwise genuinely comfortable with one another, massaging the sacred spot can be a powerful experience. Not only in terms of ecstatic pleasure for the "receiver",
but in the sexual empowerment it bestows on the "giver".

The walnut sized prostate
gland is located directly underneath the bladder, not far from the internal root of the penis (see diagram). As can be seen, the gland is in close proximity to the rectal wall, allowing for easy access through the anus.
Why is prostate massage
pleasurable? There are number of
reasons:
Ejaculation reflex sensation
No matter which method is used it is not possible to touch the prostate directly. The nearest indirect access is through the rectal wall, which means that there is still a membrane in
the way. This is somewhat akin to the inhibiting sensitivity a glove. Despite this restriction the lobes of the prostrate are highly sensitive to pressure. An array of sensations may be produced by pressing, rubbing or by means of stroking the gland through the rectal wall. The most profound of these feelings is similar to that sublime sensation which is normally felt during ejaculation, as the prostate begins pumping semen.
Anal
sensitivity
Along with the genital areas, the anus is connected to and interwoven with millions of delicately sensitive nerve endings, which can yield most pleasurable sensations.

Hidden penis
Unknown to most, over one
third of the penis is buried inside the body. It is the base of the (hidden) penis which may be pressured in a similar manner as the prostate. The effect of stimulating all three can be awesome, if done in concert with genital stimulation. Still more overwhelming than the physiological effects is the
psychological aspect of prostate massage, due to the unaccustomed nature of penetration of the receiver.
Psychological high
As powerful as physiological stimulation might be, it pales when compared to the immeasurably greater psychological or mental high. The very notion of the male placing himself into such a vulnerable position, results in a powerful mental rush, for both receiver as well giver. The willingness of the naturally controlling male to allow himself to placed in an naccustomed submissive role, should be particularly cherished by the giver.
Preparation
As in any intimate activity, certain basic rules apply. The receiver should be meticulously clean. The giver should have available form fitting latex surgical gloves (not the loose fitting variety). It's desirable for a number of reasons to use gloves, of which the first and foremost benefit is to protect the delicate anal membranes from sharp fingernails and rough skin. Secondly, a well lubricated rubber surface will glide more easily than exposed skin. Lubrication should be water based, such as K-Y jelly.
Taking a hot bath or shower prior to the massage is a good way to relax. While bathing the receiver will find it leasurable to begin to fanaticize in anticipation of the experience to come.

Positions
Face to
face (for greater intimacy)
After completely undressing the receiver should assume a seated position; his back reclined and supported by large firm pillows (at about a 45 - 65 degree angle). His knees pulled in the direction of his chest and somewhat angled outward. The resulting position should be both comfortable for the receiver, as well as following the giver unobstructed view and unfettered access to the anusand genitals of the receiver. The giver may sit cross legged, or kneel in front of the receiver.
As a way to relax the receiver, the giver may begin by massaging the receivers lower extremities, particularly the abdomen. Initially, the receiver may choose to relax by closing his eyes, but as the massage progresses it is of great importance that the receiver and giver maintain eye contact.
It will be up to the giver to decide when the receiver is sufficiently relaxed and aroused. At this time the giver should unobtrusively slip on a glove and to begin lubricating the receivers anus. The lubrication process should be lengthy and ceremonial. Beginning with circular motions, stroking the
anal opening. The objective is to pleasure and relax the nervous rosebud.
The giver should "never" poke
the anus with the tip of the finger, but to gently and firmly apply pressure with the pad of the finger. Continuously add lubrication; there can never be too much lubrication! When the anus is ready it will allow the finger to enter. All that is needed is time and patience.
[See Anal
Massage for more instructional images]
Remarkably, when the moment comes the giver will notice that the finger will seem to be drawn into the anus. Once the finger has been allowed to enter it is best to be still allowing the anal sphinctersthe chance to become accustomed to the intrusion. It will not be a good idea for the giver to move their finger in and out of the anus. There should only be one eason for the giver to remove the finger, and this would be to add more lubrication.
The giver is now ready to seek out the prostate: this can easily accomplished by crooking the inserted finger upwards, and feeling for a "roundish" to oblong protrusion about
2 inches inside the rectum. Applying pressure to the prostate will provide a variety of sensations, the most desirable of which is the feeling of impending ejaculation. By applying more or less pressure to the gland, the giver will be able to control these sensations; even to the point of inhibiting the
receiver from ejaculating. The ability to control ejaculation through prostate massage, allows for nearly unending stimulation of the receiver's genitals. The penis may be massaged by the giver, or by receiver himself, to a point of near ejaculation. Only to be kept on the brink by varying pressure on the prostate.
During the arousal cyclethe giver may begin to rhythmically move the inserted fingerpartially in and out, so as to stimulate the rich and super sensitive nerve endings around the anus.
Eye contact is mostdesirable at the resolution phase of the experience, with the receiver and giver gazing into one another's eyes... various scenarios are now
possible:

A. The
giver will allow the receiver to masturbate himself to achieve
ejaculating. All the while the giver will be verbally encouraging the
receiver to the moment of climax.
B. The
giver may masturbate the receiver's penis with one hand,
while massaging the receivers anal opening or prostate with the other. Both
giver and receiver should communicate intently, so as to allow
the greatest pleasure for the receiver.
C. The
receiver may desire for the giver to "milk" his prostate,
without direct stimulation to the penis. To achieve this the giver will
gently stroke each lobe, resulting in a gentle flow of semen and the emptying
of the prostate through the erect or flaccid
penis.
Facing
"away" from the giver (a magnificent view for the giver)
In this position the
receiver will be kneeling, knees apart, buttocks elevated, while the
elbows are resting on a firm surface, such as a cushioned floor matt. This
should be both a stable and comfortable position for the receiver.

The giver may
kneel or sit spread legged behind the receiver, having easy access and
a perfect view, of the receiver's anus. The giver will also be
in a position to reach between the receivers legs to allow stimulation of the
genitals.
From this point please
follow the same procedure as in the face to face
method.

If you are needing a practice dummy to hone your skills, I volunteer!

[44formore]

OK Destiny. I've decided. I want you.

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by buzzworm86

If you are needing a practice dummy to hone your skills, I volunteer!

*sigh*

For future reference, it's totally unnecessary to quote Destiny's entire (very long) message just to say that.

Know when to hit "Reply" and when to hit "Quote". It makes life easier for the rest of us readers.

Cheers,

bcg

[buzzworm86]

Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

*sigh*

For future reference, it's totally unnecessary to quote Destiny's entire (very long) message just to say that.

Know when to hit "Reply" and when to hit "Quote". It makes life easier for the rest of us readers.

Cheers,

bcg

I'm sorry, in my original post the word "dummy was used."

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by buzzworm86

I'm sorry, in my original post the word "dummy was used."

Heheheheh... Don't be too hard on yourself. That's my job.

Cheers,

bcg

[buzzworm86]

Peace