Been there, done that, Dd, one of my first encounters in hobbying was a decent encounter, I actually made an extra donation to hang out to just chill... everything was going well until her ex showed up pounding on the door with his fist... I was horrified and kinda pissed at the same time. I WAS "the dude" she had in there, he was right about that, on the other hand, I'm NOT a "nigger buck" and never will be. I don't go to their room... NEVER. I get a room in their hotel and invite them to MY room. In my experience, if she won't reciprocate, there is a possibility that other providers are in the same establishment that will... it works. It costs more, but it adds a layer of security. It works for me. I refuse to fight a dog in it's own backyard.