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wmnizer122 · 11-07-2012, 07:53 AM

Obviously, we all have different taste (pun intended). So it's difficult to judge the choices of others whose preferences are different. As I read reveiews, I notice a lot of guys seem to really enjoy daty/dato. BTW, so do I - but not in the hobby. I think it's a personal psychological block; an idiotsyncracy, if you will. It looks like I'm in the minority here on this one which makes me wonder if I'm really missing something. I think also that I secretly rebel against the idea of feeling the pressure of having the magic box shoved in my face. I think I should be paid for that especially if she get's off too. On the other hand, I definitley want the provider to enjoy the experience, but I don't really want to go that far. I'm just wondering because again I think maybe I'm missing out based on the descriptions/reviews around here. Any thoughts?

b@ileythepistol · 11-07-2012, 08:32 AM

Go with the flow if you feel the urge to dine and think it will make your experience all you payed for then go for it... If its not your thing and you just want to be pleased then don't. It doesn't personally offend me if a guy decideds he doesn't want to and I never ask. If you want to be pleased that's what I'm for.... Some guys just find that it turns them on turning on a women. Imo just do what turns you on i don't think any provider would be upset that you diddnt dine

handsman98 · 11-07-2012, 08:43 AM

baily I am thinking I might have to dine with you....

elitistjerk · 11-07-2012, 11:13 AM

I get turned on my self by turning on women.

OLindsay · 11-07-2012, 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by wmnizer122

Obviously, we all have different taste (pun intended). So it's difficult to judge the choices of others whose preferences are different. As I read reveiews, I notice a lot of guys seem to really enjoy daty/dato. BTW, so do I - but not in the hobby. I think it's a personal psychological block; an idiotsyncracy, if you will. It looks like I'm in the minority here on this one which makes me wonder if I'm really missing something. I think also that I secretly rebel against the idea of feeling the pressure of having the magic box shoved in my face. I think I should be paid for that especially if she get's off too. On the other hand, I definitley want the provider to enjoy the experience, but I don't really want to go that far. I'm just wondering because again I think maybe I'm missing out based on the descriptions/reviews around here. Any thoughts?

I love to be wined ,dined and 69ed.. its very pleasurable to myself, and my clients seem to love the over whelming juices that flow all over them and myself, however it's not a must... I love to please my clients more, but really enjoy the fact that my clients like to return the favor so its a pleasurable experience for the both of us.
XOXO,
Lindsay
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ElumEno · 11-07-2012, 12:09 PM

As you all know, we married men get into the hobby account there is something missing at home.
For me that is DATY, for some reason the wife just does not like it and says that it is 'Dirty'.

I myself love doing it, there is just something about the feeling of having a lady squirm around and grind on your tongue.
I can not say that I am good at it, but I am welling to be taught and the lessons so far have been well worth every penny.

I am about due for another Oral Exam...

wmnizer122 · 11-07-2012, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by ElamEno

As you all know, we married men get into the hobby account there is something missing at home.
For me that is DATY, for some reason the wife just does not like it and says that it is 'Dirty'.

I myself love doing it, there is just something about the feeling of having a lady squirm around and grind on your tongue.
I can not say that I am good at it, but I am welling to be taught and the lessons so far have been well worth every penny.

I am about due for another Oral Exam...

As a married hobbyist with kids that I kiss daily I think I have a complex about it. Plus daty/dato is on the menu at home. However if it wasn't available at home I imagine I'd be more inclined to dine out.

emosissy · 11-07-2012, 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by elitistjerk

I get turned on my self by turning on women.

I concur. The session is so much more enjoyable if I feel like the provider is enjoying herself too.

ElumEno · 11-07-2012, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by wmnizer122

As a married hobbyist with kids that I kiss daily I think I have a complex about it. Plus daty/dato is on the menu at home. However if it wasn't available at home I imagine I'd be more inclined to dine out.

If you don't feel comfortable doing something then you should NOT do it. that goes for both ladies and gents.

Unfortunately there always seems to be some asshats out there that want to push the boundaries.

b@ileythepistol · 11-07-2012, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by ElamEno

Unfortunately there always seems to be some asshats out there that want to push the boundaries.

Hey I love asshats lol but can't find where to buy them anywhere in kc lmao

ElumEno · 11-07-2012, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by b@ileythepistol

Hey I love asshats lol but can't find where to buy them anywhere in kc lmao

You find them online at ECCIE!

KCQuestor · 11-07-2012, 02:25 PM

i'va biggen · 11-07-2012, 02:29 PM

To dine when you are the 10th of the day? hummm not sure anymore...

handsman98 · 11-07-2012, 02:30 PM

Just keep on lickin...LOL

BigDeal · 11-07-2012, 02:31 PM

I personally love to dine and sastify more than recieve.
It really gets me going and i love the variation from woman to woman....flavor of the month so to speak.
I would only do that with trusted providers...and as long as I wasnt the 2nd appt of the day.
I prefer low volume providers.

I recently had an appt where 10 minutes of chat...40 minutes to dine in and make her toes curl and no time for me to get mine...walked away....pretty satisfied