Ok, Providers. I want your feedback on this.

[BamaBoy117]

I went looking for a new regular girl after I found out that my last one was married. (not judging, I just respect the marriage.) Another hobbyist in a forum pointed me toward A girl that does not advertise. I tried for a few days to make a date with her. Our schedules just did not mesh, she is a single mom and I work nonstop.

two nights ago I get a text from her a midnight saying that she had a bad day and wanted to know if I would come to her house and be a friendly ear. I said what the heck and did it. I brought a donation expecting , well you know.

Over a few glasses of wine, we had a long conversation to get to know one another. She asked me to stay the night, no funny business or donation, just cuddle with her until we fell asleep.When I said good bye in the AM she said goodbye with a 2 minute long DFK. I was in heaven.

last night I asked if we could do the same. the night went about the same until while cuddling we kissed. Well the kiss did not stop and the fireworks started. Both of us had a good time doing the deed and after the told me she wanted to become Friends with Benefits. Even going as far as wanting to plan nights out together and meet my family and spend time with her kids.

I asked if she meant that we were no longer provider and client, but more. and she said yes. looking back it could have been the wine talking. I was in heaven! Before i left I woke her up and asked about where donations fit into this new deal. She was still kind of sleepy but said, "keep it."

A few hours later I get a text asking about the donation. since activities did take place and I did not want to rock the boat, I promised to bring it after work. I am so dang confused about this whole situation. Any of you gals have any incite to this?

[BossHogg50]

Just pay her and tell her get to stepping lol it's easier that way...

[Redrock1]

Originally Posted by BossHogg50

Just pay her and tell her get to stepping lol it's easier that way...

Although blunt, this is the absolute voice of reason. Experience is a difficult instructor.
Believe me, I know.