what are your feelings about cancelling appt???

[sensualsanaa]

I used to get NC/NS a lot more frequently when I first began to hobby. I've learned A LOT in the time since I began and I don't get them half as much now. Every now and then there's one guy who may cancel, but I also stopped taking such great risk with traveling. Cancellations, whether in advance or at the last minute can be a huge issue. Sorry this happened to you.

[petiteassman]

i can't imagine anyone canceling on you and even then i think most guys would find a way to make the grim reaper wait 1 hour.

Originally Posted by Shayla

I'm really surprised that many would cancel. I don't travel too much but I've never had anyone cancel on me. I think you should start taking deposits for pre-bookings especially if it's going to cost you money to travel.

[john353]

^^^ LOL!! Well said!

[Shayla]

Originally Posted by petiteassman

i can't imagine anyone canceling on you and even then i think most guys would find a way to make the grim reaper wait 1 hour.

LOL. That was clever..

[Fastcars1966]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Cancel? No problem! NCNS now thats a different animal! LOL

+1

[jyoshi917]

I had a situation where a provider cancelled on me because she had a urinary tract infection, but after seeing the doctor and getting anti biotics, she went back to work the very next day. Is UTI a very common thing ladies? And how long does it take for you to recover?

[FK]

One of the many causes of UTI can be the excessive use of lubes and/or condoms. I drink water every waking second of every single day so I don't have a problem with it anymore.

Back in the day, I use to wait tables and waitresses can be more prone to UTI's because they will hold it till they almost wet their pants trying to get away during a busy time to run to pee. Another reason I drink a lot of water now.

Never ever spread germs from the anus to the vagina or anywhere the hell else for that matter!

The antibiotics will begin to bring relief within 24-48 hours. She must have had bills due and couldn't wait to recuperate longer before going back to work.

[LAVixian]

[Quote]Providers what's your take on when clients cancel? How do you get back your time/money?[Quote]

I'm unable to travel out of state currently, but I believe Shayla offered a plausible idea: getting some deposit money from interested people (if their willing) too at least help with the traveling aspect in relation to last minute cancels.

As far as getting time/money back.... it's really not likely. Things, life happens. I've had to cancel, people have canceled with me, it's just part of this business. For me, stressing out about it is just too much hassle and drains me completely. Sometimes, you just gotta let it roll off your shoulders and say, "C'est la vie."

[anita]

Things happen. Cancelling ahead of the date time is totally fine. But letting you get on your way and then cancel at the last minute is not cool. An apology will make up for your time. And, who knows, maybe he will eventually try to see you again. Maybe he will find a way to make up for last time. I am thinking red roses. Lol. Keep your chin up :-).