Providers - What Size Do You Like??

[London Rayne]

The average guys also seem to be so much better at oral, so I will take that over a big thing I am running away from any day. Bigger guys even those right at 6 inches, can't get a deep pounding with me, so who wants to deal with that from someone they are paying? Please just stay away lol.

[Valerie]

I care not for the giant monster cocks!

I have a small frame and I don't find it very pleasurable, I like a nice average sized one...What it really boils down to it if the guy knows how to work it

[Eccie Addict]

There are exceptions....

Originally Posted by London Rayne

The average guys also seem to be so much better at oral,I beg to differ...so I will take that over a big thing I am running away from any day. Bigger guys even those right at 6 inches, can't get a deep pounding with me, so who wants to deal with that from someone they are paying? Please just stay away lol.

[RiverOfAlaska]

I like em short and thick. Even slightly longer than average ones can bang into my cervix and it fucking hurts. I have friends who talk about loving a good pounding from a big cock and I'm like "...ow?" There are plenty of well endowed guys who know how to just go partway in, but if you're bigger down there and want to hold my legs behind my head while you pound me it's just not going to happen.

[rachet3375]

Long & thin will get you in...but short & thick, now that's a prick!

I may not be able to bottom out, but I can sure wreck the sides

Oh one last thing, the thing I like most about gettin a bj with my "avg" member is for her to have the ability to have me in her mouth AND lick my balls at the same time. Awesome.

[Biggayal]

Originally Posted by rachet3375

Long & thin will get you in...but short & thick, now that's a prick!

I may not be able to bottom out, but I can sure wreck the sides

Oh one last thing, the thing I like most about gettin a bj with my "avg" member is for her to have the ability to have me in her mouth AND lick my balls at the same time. Awesome.

LOL... good post!

Now I wonder if we should start a "How to use what you got" thread?

I would be interested in some pointers being average myself.

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[Mature Companion]

When I hear folks say that. I chuckle.



If a man does not know how to use his cock and has to be taught how to use it please a woman. Then there's something seriously wrong.

How hard is it to know how to slide it in, thrusting slowly, then faster, then slightly pull back w/o pulling out. Looking down at it while it's in her pussy or ass and seeing how swollen and hard it is. How beautiful it looks. How wet it got her, as her juices are dripping down the shaft.
Listening to her moans as you slide it deeper..whether she's on her back, her side, her knees, laying on her stomach or sitting on top of you.....or bent over breasts against the chill glass window.
How hard is it really, for a man to know how to use his penis to please a woman?

Now if your talking a man not knowing how to kiss, or please her orally or learn how to explore and adore every inch of her body and bring her to orgasm in those various ways. Then yes, I can see how some men need to be taught.


I've yet to meet a man who didn't know how to use the penis he was born with. Thank goodness, I take what I want and they oblige with their cock. Knowing exactly what to do!

Originally Posted by Wicket

Being a gentleman of longer than normal size, I once had a lady tell me "There are plenty of gentlemen of size, but very few know how to use it."

[RiverOfAlaska]

Eh, I've noticed that differently shaped cocks feel better in different positions. When guys ask about my favorite position I'm like, " it depends, lemme see your cock.". So there is a small learning curve with new partners and I imagine men don't know what feels the best if they haven't had communicative partners.

[Mature Companion]

You bring up an excellent point which is spot on!

Doesn't matter if it's short/fat, a thin long torpedo dick or a thick long sausage. A right/left hooked dick, or a curved banana dick.

Every woman's pussy is sized differently (as indicated previously) and to keep from causing pain to a woman. She needs to enjoy the cock in a position that's best suited for her comfort, based on how your cock is shaped. Some men understand this. Some men don't.
Communication & understanding is key.

Originally Posted by RiverOfAlaska

Eh, I've noticed that differently shaped cocks feel better in different positions. When guys ask about my favorite position I'm like, " it depends, lemme see your cock.". So there is a small learning curve with new partners and I imagine men don't know what feels the best if they haven't had communicative partners.

[Biggayal]

Well it's not really a bad question. I am sure plenty of guys think that just thrusting it in and out as fast as you can is "getting the job done".

But certain positions from different sizes and shapes of cocks may hit the gspot better or provide more clitoral stimulation etc. (not to mention other methods of simultaneous stimulation, vibrators... etc)

I am sure there are plenty of guys out there who "think" they know what they are doing and could use some honest criticism that their SO does not want to provide due to risking hurt egos or feelings. Hell I bet even most providers are gun-shy about honest feedback due to fear of losing a repeat customer due to hurt ego etc.

[Valerie]

Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

When I hear folks say that. I chuckle.



If a man does not know how to use his cock and has to be taught how to use it please a woman. Then there's something seriously wrong.

How hard is it to know how to slide it in, thrusting slowly, then faster, then slightly pull back w/o pulling out. Looking down at it while it's in her pussy or ass and seeing how swollen and hard it is. How beautiful it looks. How wet it got her, as her juices are dripping down the shaft.
Listening to her moans as you slide it deeper..whether she's on her back, her side, her knees, laying on her stomach or sitting on top of you.....or bent over breasts against the chill glass window.
How hard is it really, for a man to know how to use his penis to please a woman?

Now if your talking a man not knowing how to kiss, or please her orally or learn how to explore and adore every inch of her body and bring her to orgasm in those various ways. Then yes, I can see how some men need to be taught.


I've yet to meet a man who didn't know how to use the penis he was born with. Thank goodness, I take what I want and they oblige with their cock. Knowing exactly what to do!

Well then you're a very lucky woman!...I'm talking about the guys who try and screw like a bloody jack rabbit-not good for me

Then there's the ones who are too inconsistent with their thrusting-does nothing for me either..

And of course there are the one's who can't even the correct hole!

[Mature Companion]

No it's not a bad question at all.


However, I feel, receiving feedback in the hobby on ones sexual skills. Should not be taken & used at home with the S/O.
That's a sure fire way of arousing suspicion with your spouse. If your not getting the feedback, criticism or sex at home that your getting in the hobby. Then you return home and continue with the norm. Never change. Unless it's something you & she do and communicate together.

Leave what you learn in the hobby via way of how to better use your *tool* to please a woman. In the hobby. Unless your single and have no one to answer to. Such as: *where did you learn that? Or why are you now so tender & passionate? etc etc*

Just my POV on it.

Originally Posted by Biggayal

Well it's not really a bad question. I am sure plenty of guys think that just thrusting it in and out as fast as you can is "getting the job done".

But certain positions from different sizes and shapes of cocks may hit the gspot better or provide more clitoral stimulation etc. (not to mention other methods of simultaneous stimulation, vibrators... etc)

I am sure there are plenty of guys out there who "think" they know what they are doing and could use some honest criticism that their SO does not want to provide due to risking hurt egos or feelings. Hell I bet even most providers are gun-shy about honest feedback due to fear of losing a repeat customer due to hurt ego etc.

[Biggayal]

Good point Wicked Milf. I can see where that may cause some issues... lol

Him: Hey baby, check this out!

Her: Wow! Where the hell did you learn that?

Him: Uhh.. umm...

Her:

[guest042111]

We need a poll on what kind of pussy a John prefers.

[Eccie Addict]

Originally Posted by SarahAndFriends

We need a poll on what kind of pussy a John prefers.

That is hilarious

One that can handle me is what I prefer....