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Originally Posted by Naomi4u
My problem is with people that think they are better than others but yet they have their own demons. Does that sound like someone here?
One of my best friends here is in her 50s. I have the utmost respect for her. She doesn't play the superior provider game like the other "mature" providers here do. The best is when they tell me that they have been in the business longer than I have like that is something to be proud about. I don't care Nina. I am not trying to be a hooker when I'm 30 or 40 for that matter.
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Oh you are right that sounds like "somefew here".....you are right with that.
As to being older and "still" being a provider, i think some people get into the business later on. Some people stop the business, and catch up later. I think its smart to have a goal on the side. I can`t say for myself i don`t want to be a provider anymore with 40. I don`t think age matters so muhc., What matters is the attitude., I have never ever ever ever been dependent on that job. I think when i still have the looks and the brains and such i will also be still available for bookings at 40, why not? But i am smart enough to know that you only have a certain amount of timeframe to get stinky rich in that business.
Men prefer young women - even those who claim out of political correctness that they don`t. They don`t prefer them because they are smarter or better looking (hell i am 35 years old and i am way better looking than some in their 20ies - AND more intelligent) but because they are more naive and more "bendable" in their attitude.
An "older woman" will look thru bullshit a guy does more often.
I am not saying you are not mature, you are incredible put together for your age, but generally speaking young women are more easy to impress by men.
And i saw many of them taking any shit a client says as something that is true and not being said to every provider and using clients for their self esteem.
So - being 50 in the business is different form bein 21. that is true. But i would not say its bad being in the business with 50. I`d rather say its bad when you are dependent on it, because you certainly won`t generate as much income then with your 20ies anymore.
Kisses Nina