LynnT~
I am new to eccie.I truly considered being a provider. In the end I realized it was not for me right now. I came on today to disable my account. I took one last look around and saw this thread. I AGREE with you 100%.
Discretion is mandatory in this business. NO QUESTION. If you read her post.....
she wrote.....
For some of you to better understand, the conversation went like this:
Fiance: So are you seeing anybody at the moment?
Me: Yes, I'm seeing (insert name here).
Fiance: Where is he from?
Me: ("Your Town")
Fiance: Really? What does he do.
Me: He works for this company.
Fiance: What does he look like?
....And then from there she knew exactly who I was talking about. I had no knowledge that this woman, was HIS finance! (What is the chance of that happening in Real life? 1/1000?). But his finance was a well known in the area for hair, and I happen to come to her to get my hair done.
It would be absolutely different if I knew that this woman WAS his finance firsthand (Then I would've kept my mouth closed shut).
Yes she was wrong...she broke the cardinal rule...Do not become attached to your clients. Can it happen yes we are human...we have emotion! She was getting her hair done and like any other girl she started talking about ( when asked) about a guy she thought she had a future with) WRONG? absolutely... I believe there was more to the story...was she naivete? Did he tell her maybe we could have a relation ship outside of this or maybe he even let her believe he wanted to SAVE her....like that's never happened before If he misled her in that way HE gets what he deserves also. Like you said...".If you put yourself into a situation to get F-ed well then don’t be surprised when it happens."
The true MAN will be the one that says......and I DO know a man that would defiantly say this...." Its as much my fault as hers...I was the dumb ass that put myself in this situation! I made the first phone call!"
Men are not partially to blame BS! You read on here how only a few select friends know that some of the men "hobby" Do they share details...probably..like.".She has this hot little birthmark shaped like a heart on her neck that gets bright red when she laughs or cums...." Really? the friend says....a female coworker has the same thing!!!! " Can mistakes happen to everyone? Hell yes!
These men are in an uproar because the light bulb went on when they realized how easy they could be outed....now they feel threatened and are taking it out on this girl and on this thread. AGAIN...was she wrong YES!!!!!
Was he also to blame YES!
One of the other things I could not believe was some of the Hobbyists and providers views on another thread concerning Herpes 1 and 2. I posted this because a lot of people responded in a way that pretty much said they knew nothing about STIs. I wrote:
This took one minute to find on Google. Thanks to Planned Parenthood.
First and most important....When you ask for an STD/STI test you have to ask the doctor for the herpes 1 and 2 test. They are NOT included in standard STD/STI testing. They are expensive!
Herpes is a very common infection. It is caused by two different but closely related viruses. The viruses are herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1) and herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2). Both are easy to catch. They remain in the body for life and can produce symptoms that come and go.
Both forms of herpes can infect the oral area, the genital area, or both. When the infection is on or near the mouth, it is called oral herpes. Oral herpes is caused most often by HSV-1. When a herpes infection is on or near the sex organs, it is called genital herpes. Genital herpes is caused most often by HSV-2. Up to 8 out of 10 American adults have oral herpes. And about 1 out of 4 American adults have genital herpes. Millions of people do not know they have herpes because they never had, or noticed, the herpes symptoms.
Herpes is spread by touching, kissing, and sexual contact, including vaginal, anal, and oral sex. It can be passed from one partner to another and from one part of the body to another. Brief skin-to-skin contact is all that's needed to pass the virus. From thigh to thigh is very common!!!! Because herpes may have no symptoms for years, sometimes it is very difficult to know who passed it to whom.
Although it is rare, genital herpes can also be spread from a pregnant woman to her baby during vaginal birth.
Herpes is most contagious when sores are open, moist, or leaking fluid — until the scabs heal and fall off. But herpes can also be spread when no symptoms are present — most people get genital herpes from people with no symptoms. And most people with oral herpes were infected as children.
The lining of the mouth, vagina, penis, anus, and eyes can become infected with herpes easily. Skin can be infected if it is cut,(razor burn) chafed, or burned, or has a rash or Bite your lip, bleeding gums and other sores.
Its really scary that people are not informed about this.
I didn’t intend to write so much. But I just wanted to tell you publicly that I admire you very much that you were fair , honest and said what needed to be said. It takes balls to say the truth. Some here defiantly don’t have any!. I admire your persona....what you do and how you do it! Dont respond to these morons! My only wish was that I got the chance to meet you!
Ughhhhhh....
