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ladylove12 · 09-10-2013, 09:53 PM

Sounds like your looking for a girlfriend. See no other men, work full time, and tend to your needs. That's a wife. If you give a woman a diamond ring for some pussy or 300 dollars, you're still a buying pussy. All a sugar baby is, is a provider that ducks for free sometimes. You guys don't want a sifT baby, you want a slave.

ladylove12 · 09-10-2013, 10:01 PM

And for you silly motherfuckers that think every provider is some dumb idiot because she doesn't wanna work at walgreens for 8 bucks an hr while in school, that's dumb. Women get into the profession for different reasons, some actually have goals and save their money do do other things. Some women use it as a stepping stone because everyone can't be rich and every woman doesn't have support.

ladylove12 · 09-10-2013, 10:15 PM

If you take her shopping, but her a car, pay her rent..., she is selling pussy. Ask yourself, if I stop giving her stuff, will she still duck me. You can wait months and months after beginning a relationship with her before you ask . The answer will be a great big NO. She's doing it for the money. Duh. What 20ur old spinner is gonna wanna lay up with some old 60 ur old man for the rent. Lol
Fuck that. If you want to cuddle and Fuck bareback and all that, and for free, or because you paid my rent, you should be looking for a girlfriend.

ladylove12 · 09-10-2013, 10:25 PM

Sugarbabies used to be called Kept women. A man would get her an apt and car and allowance and whenever he needed her she was available. That's how it goes. If you want her just for you don't you think she will get clingy. Feelings override business arrangements all the time. It's cool if you are single but, most sd's are married or have a significant other. You want her calling and texting while you're with your old lady.
Guys were even saying she needs to work full time? Then what the Fuck does she need you for? For furs and jewlery or what. That's still buying pussy.

ladylove12 · 09-10-2013, 10:35 PM

A sugardaddy should be someone you're attracted to that can help you out financially and with life issues you aren't experienced to handle. There should be a connection either sexually or emotionally. If there is no connection and you just see her when you want to Fuck, relax or to have someone to go on trips and shit with, then you have an escort.

Gotyour6 · 09-11-2013, 12:19 PM

You have no idea what you are talking about.

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A sugardaddy should be someone you're attracted to that can help you out financially and with life issues you aren't experienced to handle. There should be a connection either sexually or emotionally. If there is no connection and you just see her when you want to Fuck, relax or to have someone to go on trips and shit with, then you have an escort.

Your entire page post contradicts itself. You mention the above but then say no one is going to fuck a 60 year old man for free. Then she is not attracted to him and there is no connection.

You say that a sugar baby shouldn't have a job but should help with life issues the SB aren't experienced to handle. You mean like getting a full time job and learning how to handle things herself??

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If you take her shopping, but her a car, pay her rent..., she is selling pussy. Ask yourself, if I stop giving her stuff, will she still duck me. You can wait months and months after beginning a relationship with her before you ask

She is self sufficient now and I only help her because I want to, not out of need so to answer that we have been together for over a year and a half. She said when I give her money or gifts she feels like a whore and no longer wants anything. We go out to dinner and take trips together. I would do that with a GF, SB, wife, blah blah.

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And for you silly motherfuckers that think every provider is some dumb idiot because she doesn't wanna work at walgreens for 8 bucks an hr while in school, that's dumb. Women get into the profession for different reasons, some actually have goals and save their money do do other things. Some women use it as a stepping stone because everyone can't be rich and every woman doesn't have support.

No shit? and some become a sugar baby and reilize that they prefer older guys because they don't invite friends over to play X-box. We don't come over to just fuck and we all have a good time.

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Sounds like your looking for a girlfriend. See no other men, work full time, and tend to your needs. That's a wife. If you give a woman a diamond ring for some pussy or 300 dollars, you're still a buying pussy. All a sugar baby is, is a provider that ducks for free sometimes. You guys don't want a sifT baby, you want a slave.

Proof you have no clue what you are talking about.

this isnt a one fits all

ladylove12 · 09-11-2013, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Gotyour6

You have no idea what you are talking about.

Your entire page post contradicts itself. You mention the above but then say no one is going to fuck a 60 year old man for free. Then she is not attracted to him and there is no connection.

You say that a sugar baby shouldn't have a job but should help with life issues the SB aren't experienced to handle. You mean like getting a full time job and learning how to handle things herself??

She is self sufficient now and I only help her because I want to, not out of need so to answer that we have been together for over a year and a half. She said when I give her money or gifts she feels like a whore and no longer wants anything. We go out to dinner and take trips together. I would do that with a GF, SB, wife, blah blah.

No shit? and some become a sugar baby and reilize that they prefer older guys because they don't invite friends over to play X-box. We don't come over to just fuck and we all have a good time.

Proof you have no clue what you are talking about.

this isnt a one fits all

You're the one confused I think. We keep talking about the differences but you are not describing a sugar baby. You even said it" She is self sufficient now and I only help her because I want to, not out of need so to answer that we have been together for over a year and a half. She said when I give her money or gifts she feels like a whore and no longer wants anything. We go out to dinner and take trips together. I would do that with a GF, SB, wife, blah blah.*" That is a girlfriend. You even said you have a bf/gf thing going with her. When a sd meets a young sb, he is fooling himself if he thinks she is attracted to him for his looks at 55, 60 yrs old. You don't know each otter well enough for any emotional connection. He is thinking with his Dick and she is thinking with her pockets. And before the first time you are intimate with her, you will have shelled out something. Thus payment for sex thus prostitute. Now after some time spent together and a connection is built, then you may be able to get away with providing less, but in the beginning, PLEASE..

ladylove12 · 09-11-2013, 02:35 PM

If she has her own job and things and can take care of herself, then what does she need a sugar daddy for. Gifts? Lol
In my opinion(and I know it means nothing) she may just have a daddy complex or thru spending a lot of time together, she developed feelings. That has happened to hookers 2. Didnt you see pretty woman.

ladylove12 · 09-11-2013, 02:38 PM

And if you teaching her how to live, I guess she doesn't have parents? Like I said, daddy issues

Ts AmberRose · 09-11-2013, 02:43 PM

Would love to have a sugar daddy...

ladylove12 · 09-11-2013, 02:59 PM

I don't know girl, if I have to be at his beck and call all the time just so I can get him to but me stuff ? Shit we may as well just get a man. I thought I did until I came on here and saw what some guys want in a sb. Hell no. That's like having a cheating husband. Id rather suck dick (covered) til I reach my goal like most other smart successful women who started out escorting or stripping to get the money for their real career goals.

Gotyour6 · 09-12-2013, 04:31 AM

You are just proving my point that a hooker can not be a sugar baby.

I agree with you 100%
You should keep sucking dick and save up. That is what you want to do then by all means, that is what you want.

I have met with countless women, they would tell me their expectations and I would tell them mine. It was either a fit or it wasn't. I found a fit.

If you were looking for a sugar daddy and we had met then it wouldn't have fit. No big deal.

You keep putting down girls that are a sugar baby and argue with what a sugar daddy wants or expects. Its a moot point. It just means you are a hooker and not a sugar baby. Nothing at all wrong with it. I still see a hooker now and then when I get bored or the urge to be with someone.

So you thought you wanted to be a sugar baby till you found out what someone wants. I am talking about a true SD wants. It's ok. You can go on many sugar daddy websites and get what you are looking for. Someone that doesn't mind you banging a few guys in a hotel and he gets to bang you too but give you a little more than the other clients. If you meet a few people and talk I am sure one of them will say it is perfect.

You argue over what someone wants. I don't get it.

You have 100 SDs on here saying what they expect and you have 100 hookers saying they wont do all that and its bullshit. That is why you are doing what you do.

Yes, they may have daddy issues, yes, maybe grandpa came in their room at night. I don't care. Everyone has their story.

My point through this whole thread is a hooker cannot be a sugar baby. Does it happen? Of course it does. But very far and few. I know a business partner that has a former hooker as an SB. It does happen. Not often though.

Good luck

ladylove12 · 09-12-2013, 09:20 AM

Happens all the time with men that sent looking for a gf. You are whether you realize it or not. You want to be able to control her tho. Like a daddy. But like you said, if that's why she's in it, you don't care cause everybody has a story. When looking for a sugar baby from a pool of promiscuous women just shows confusion to me. All I hear from you is relationship. You don't get a sugar baby for a romantic relationship, they are for fun. Busy business men and married men get sugar babies for convenience. If you have to find a sugar baby for companionship, you have other problems. But you say tomato one way and I can say it another you know. Like you said, to each his own.

Gotyour6 · 09-12-2013, 10:09 AM

Again, proving my point.

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You don't get a sugar baby for a romantic relationship,

That is the stupidest thing you have said about this lol
You need a connection you said, there has to be attraction. Then you said its for fun.
You have no idea what YOU are even saying let alone what I am trying to say.

You are arguing over what I am looking for. If I am looking for a table and you are telling me you are book ends I want nothing to do with you.

Oh, you do get a sugar baby for a romantic relationship. Or... you get a hooker like yourself for a 1 hour bang.

I had a sugar baby that turned into a GF. I have never had a hooker that turned into a sugar baby.

Again, you are all over the place. you say one thing and then turn around and say another that goes against what you said in another post. You have no clue what you are talking about.

Guest050715-1 · 09-12-2013, 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by ladylove12

You don't get a sugar baby for a romantic relationship, they are for fun.

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Originally Posted by Gotyour6

That is the stupidest thing you have said about this lol

I agree with ladylove12, because......

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Originally Posted by ladylove12

Busy business men and married men get sugar babies for convenience. If you have to find a sugar baby for companionship, you have other problems.

It's obvious Gotyour6 you have a sweetheart. That's wonderful for the both of you, but I would in no way consider her a sb. In fact, given the feelings involved, it seems a bit demeaning to call her that.