A question for all the ladies

[NormalBob]

Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

I don't mind A FEW (no more than 5)....5 is my magic number.

In the case of a provider, if she's getting email from a new guy wanting to meet her and there's no other weird history, I would hope a short note back to the guy saying you're not taking new clients at this time is the right way to go.

There are opportunities to move on if you know that's what needs to be done.

[BTW, I'm not implying you'll take five emails without a response back. I imagine there is a stalker class among the guys as well.]

[Chloe]

When I do an incall (lasting usually 2 days) I may not answer e-mail. I am focused on my appointments and I am a woman who exists in the moment. Also if I have a family issue that takes precedence over everything else I will be consumed with that over e-mail.

But rest assured your e-mail will be answered and I do not mind multiple e-mails! It shows that you are certainly very interested! There are e-mail limbos that last years due to clash of schedules and I always welcome the insistence I may open an off day incall for it. It's flattering and draws my attention Just not a ton! A few are enough!

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Originally Posted by NormalBob

In the case of a provider, if she's getting email from a new guy wanting to meet her and there's no other weird history, I would hope a short note back to the guy saying you're not taking new clients at this time is the right way to go.

There are opportunities to move on if you know that's what needs to be done.

[BTW, I'm not implying you'll take five emails without a response back. I imagine there is a stalker class among the guys as well.]

Did I read it wrong? lol

He meant how many do you send to the lady (and she doesn't respond) before it's too much? If that's what he meant then yeah no more than 2 lol

[Madame X]

I didn't see anyone ask how much time the OP was waiting between emails?

Sometimes I'm busy with real life, and I can't really take time out from my job to answer my fun mail. Sometimes I'm traveling with a man, and don't feel right spending hours of his time tending to all the tedium behind my next hookup when I could be having a great time with him right then and there.

I do answer all the emails I'm going to answer (I'm going to refrain from asking whether or not the OP is sending *coherent* emails, lol) as soon as I can. That could be within the hour, most often within 48 hours. I'd post any planned lapse of communication longer than 3 days on my site, but occasionally things do happen.

If you've sent 3 emails over two weeks and heard nothing back, something's not working, and it could be anything, so it's probably best to move on.

~Mme X~

[Doove]

Originally Posted by Madame X

I didn't see anyone ask how much time the OP was waiting between emails?...

...If you've sent 3 emails over two weeks and heard nothing back, something's not working, and it could be anything, so it's probably best to move on.

That's actually a pretty good point. If you don't get a response this time around after sending two or three emails, i don't see anything wrong with trying again in, say, three or four months.