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Ravynn · 07-19-2014, 05:33 PM

THANKS MS. BLOND FOR YOUR INPUT. I APPRECIATE THE SUGGESTION.

Ravynn · 07-19-2014, 05:38 PM

THANK YOU MS. BLOND. I APPRECIATE YOUR SUGGESTION.

Texanbychoice · 07-19-2014, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Ravynn

UUUM TO THE DEER IN HERE, I ALWAYS TEXT IN CAPS. THAT'S MY CHOICE TO DO SO...KNOWING IT SYMBOLIZES YELLING. HOWEVER I'M NOT. HAD YOU EVER READ ANY POSTS OF MINE, THEN YOU' HAVE ALSO KNOWN TO KEEP THE RUDENESS TO YOURSELF.
MS. WINTER...I'm NOT NEW TO THE HOBBY...5 YEARS PLUS. IF YOU READ MY REVIEWS, NOTHING ABOUT THEM IS UNSATISFACTORY. I HAVE HAD MANY REPEATED VISITORS FROM ECCIE...NOT ALL HAVE REVIEWS FOR ME. SOME OF MY REVIEWERS HAVE COME BACK. MY COMMON SENSE IS VERY MUCH PRESENT. BUT THANKS FOR YOUR INPUT.

Honestly John Deere is right. I had checked out your reviewz and thought about making a trip up to lubbock to see you as i have a hard time finding quality AA providers in odessa. But i consider the caps disrespectful to others and myself. John just pointed out what i happened to be thinking myself in much the samw way you pointed out your question.

but after the negative attitude to John and Winter, and quite frankly rudeness on your part to the hobbiest. I am definitely passing on coming up. Perhaps my loss with such great reviews. But the caps and replies here when folks are trying to be supportive is a total non starter hun.

Hope your business picks up.

john_deere · 07-19-2014, 06:28 PM

heh.

ravynn, you clearly (wrongly) think i'm attacking you and have decided to lash out with insults, but i ain't even mad. i don't even care, but still, take a breath and let me get real with you for a second....

i was teasing you about the caps thing because, whether you like it or not, the accepted thing all over the internet is that anybody who talks in all-caps is either angry or an idiot. you've been told this is an issue in a good-natured way on several occasions, but no one has actually insulted you. now, when you insist that you're gonna do it all in caps BECAUSE THAT'S JUST HOW YOU LIKE IT....well, it makes you seem unreasonable. that's not a good thing in a customer service business.

the lashing out, being defensive.....these don't look good either. is this the perception you want potential clients to have? if it is, then carry on, but things will only get slower.

Tetas · 07-19-2014, 07:12 PM

Yep...can't take the all CAPS and the ATTITUDE...
Good luck to you as you burn those bridges.

Ravynn · 07-19-2014, 08:04 PM

FIRST OF ALL TO JOHN DEERE, RIDAY, AND TEXANBYCHOICE, I THANKED WINTER FOR HER INPUT...NO INSULT TO HER. IF ANY OF YOU "GENTLEMEN" WOULD HAVE LOOKED AT THE CASING IN MY SHOWCASE AND IN ALL OF MY POSTS, YOU'D SEE NOTHING BUT CAPS. THIS IS JUST YOU GUY'S WAY OF TRYING TO ATTACK A LADY. YOU ALL SAY I HAVE AN ATTITUDE BECAUSE I DEFENDED MYSELF TO SOMEONE WHO WAS VERY RUDE TO ME THEN WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT YOU? JOHN DEERE REFERRED TO ME AS "SOME CHICK".....VERY OFFENSIVE. I HAD EVERY RIGHT TO DEFEND MYSELF. WINTER WAS TRYING TO BE HELPFUL. SO, I LET HER KNOW HOW SEASONED I AM IN THIS GAME WE ARE ALL PLAYING AND THANKED HER FOR HER INPUT. YOU GUYS FIND THAT RUDE??? IF SOMEONE DISRESPECTED YOU, YOU WOULDN'T THINK OF IT AS HAVING AN ATTITUDE. YOU'D CALL IT LETTING IT BE KNOWN YOU WERE OFFENDED. STOP ATTACKING ME ABOUT WHAT A FELLOW HOBBYIST INITIATED...PLEASE!!!!!!

Dorian Gray · 07-19-2014, 08:14 PM

Ravynn....

Texanbychoice · 07-19-2014, 08:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Ravynn

FIRST OF ALL TO JOHN DEERE, RIDAY, AND TEXANBYCHOICE, I THANKED WINTER FOR HER INPUT...NO INSULT TO HER. IF ANY OF YOU "GENTLEMEN" WOULD HAVE LOOKED AT THE CASING IN MY SHOWCASE AND IN ALL OF MY POSTS, YOU'D SEE NOTHING BUT CAPS. THIS IS JUST YOU GUY'S WAY OF TRYING TO ATTACK A LADY. YOU ALL SAY I HAVE AN ATTITUDE BECAUSE I DEFENDED MYSELF TO SOMEONE WHO WAS VERY RUDE TO ME THEN WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT YOU? JOHN DEERE REFERRED TO ME AS "SOME CHICK".....VERY OFFENSIVE. I HAD EVERY RIGHT TO DEFEND MYSELF. WINTER WAS TRYING TO BE HELPFUL. SO, I LET HER KNOW HOW SEASONED I AM IN THIS GAME WE ARE ALL PLAYING AND THANKED HER FOR HER INPUT. YOU GUYS FIND THAT RUDE??? IF SOMEONE DISRESPECTED YOU, YOU WOULDN'T THINK OF IT AS HAVING AN ATTITUDE. YOU'D CALL IT LETTING IT BE KNOWN YOU WERE OFFENDED. STOP ATTACKING ME ABOUT WHAT A FELLOW HOBBYIST INITIATED...PLEASE!!!!!!

Miss Ravynn.

Everyone interprets things in their own way. I did not demean you, but i find your actions objectionable and told you so. As did others. And to me your response to winter was rude. She was trying to be helpful also. Take it for what you want. But several folks have simply expressed their opinion as to your communication style. All of which was started by caps. Which is universally known as yelling and or rudeness.

I do hope your future endeavors are fruitful.

john_deere · 07-19-2014, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Ravynn

THIS IS JUST YOU GUY'S WAY OF TRYING TO ATTACK A LADY. YOU ALL SAY I HAVE AN ATTITUDE BECAUSE I DEFENDED MYSELF TO SOMEONE WHO WAS VERY RUDE TO ME THEN WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT YOU? JOHN DEERE REFERRED TO ME AS "SOME CHICK".....VERY OFFENSIVE.

seriously.....it was a joke. lighten up. nobody is attacking you, least of all me. i'm just telling you the straight shit. if you're this reactionary to everything in your life, it's going to be a rough road.

also....that dorian gray....i like his style.

Texanbychoice · 07-19-2014, 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by john_deere

seriously.....it was a joke. lighten up. nobody is attacking you, least of all me. i'm just telling you the straight shit. if you're this reactionary to everything in your life, it's going to be a rough road.

also....that dorian gray....i like his style.

Perhaps im being thick. .... but i dont get the cat. But i am sure its funny.....i just dont get it...

crap

greaton · 07-19-2014, 09:17 PM

Ravynn:

Please stop yelling, you made your point, now you are just scaring possible clients away.

Ravynn · 07-19-2014, 10:10 PM

LOOK, I HAVE HAD ENOUGH! OK!!!!!! YOU GUYS ARE THE ONES CONSTANTLY POSTING. I HAVE CLEARLY ACKNOWLEDGED MORE THAN ONCE THAT THE ONES I SAID THANK YOU TO WERE BEING HELPFUL. IF YOU WOULD READ THE ORIGINAL QUOTE ABOUT ME STATING MS. WINTER WAS TRYING TO HELP, THEN YOU SHOULD PLEASE STOP SAYING I ATTACKED HER. WHY WOULD I? IT'S OBVIOUS SHE WAS TRYING TO HELP. YOU ALL...CAN YOU STOP WITH RIDING MY BACK.? I AM A NICE LADY AND WILL NOT LET ANYONE PAINT ME OUT TO BE THE OPPOSITE OUT OF DEFENSE. I'm DONE WITH IT. CAN YOU ALL BE DONE WITH IT, TOO?

john_deere · 07-19-2014, 10:19 PM

sigh.

well....

Texanbychoice · 07-19-2014, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by john_deere

sigh.

well....

Damn. I need to learn how to do that shit. Funny as hell.

Winter Monroe · 07-20-2014, 02:32 AM

Wow... I've been so busy I didn't even know I stirred the pot!!! Lol!!! I wasn't by any means trying to be mean. This game has everything to do with energy and attraction.... One piece of advice.... Girl you need the SECRET AUTHOR RHONDA BYRNE.... You might find the message helpful!!!! Happy Hunting!!! Kisses