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Originally Posted by Sexy3534
I love talking dirty but I'm never sure if they want to hear it how do you know?
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Tell him it turns you on, but you may have to teach him. Its romantic to assume he'll "figure it out"...but he won't! Everything good about Sex, I learned from women; EVERYTHING!
Dirty talk is a topic that doesn't get enough love. IMO it requires a few key things.
1. KNOWING what words and phrases you want to hear
2. communicate those words to your provider
3. communicate HOW you want them said; yelling, whispered, texted etc
4. find a provider who "gets it". The wrong ones will judge you and ruin the vibe.
5. Patience, providers pride themselves on finding your g-spot; they are ok with taking more than one appointment to get it right. It's worth it; it's called, being a "regular"!