Rabbit, I understand you wanting us to put this behind us. I understand because I'm tired of going through this also. I've cum to respect you quite a bit, and find no issues in ending this entire bs post here. But, please, I do have something to say. Let's begin with the facts...
12-15-16
https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1918639
This thread started by Naughty Little Native, literally cums outta nowhere. Upset that I had ended our friendship then blogged about it (Never once using her name or giving specific details), she retaliated by bringing the entire load of bs right here to eccie. Actually, SHE POSTED IT UNDER ALERTS (moved to correct co ed discussions later), but it was obvious she intended to cause me harm personally and professionally as she randomly cited lies and partial truths to make me look bad. Being that my momma raised me better, I did not return the hate she so publicly displayed in that thread. To my astonishment, she actually shared the link to the post from my blog, and then even shared her own link of hysterical profanity. The meaning of it all alludes me to this day.
What was clear though was that both of us were asked to cease and desist the thread that so dogged me out. I suppose defending myself against lies makes me just as culpable as the person spreading them. Uh....For Real??? Whatever.
Embarrassed that everyone had to witness such an absolutely ridiculous event between two grown females, I posted an apology
https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1919693
to all eccie members who may have wished they had never even read those threads.
But, of course, she can't help herself, and posts to my apology thread that shes quitting eccie because no one supports her. My blog has all the followers and hers doesn't. (I'm guessing the link she previously posted probably even boosted my site. Doesn't mean everyone on here reads it, but...again... WTF. She obviously only reads her own words. Because, while several fellas chanted "nln nln" or "nln is the best", I had absolutely no support at all. My personal opinion, that's not a victim. That's a martyr. Good thing I get my self confidence from myself.
Cease and desist, huh?
12/16/16
Titled "OK", this post by NAUGHTY LITTLE NATIVE was just a reminder that she was the victim of a drama filled female (i.e. me), neglecting to consider that she was the original poster that started this whole bunch of bs. We werent friends long enough for a break up this silly.
Anyway, Enough was enough. Not once did I put her down or try to ruin her reputation on here in any way. That's just not my style. Hurting people does not give me pleasure of any kind.
Now, by this time, I had already notified two of our three mods and pointed out the official eccie guidelines that she just continued to break by lying on me, accusing me of doggin out clients (my friends), harrassing me with hateful sentiments spoken aloud, and demeaning my character with her profanity and evil name calling.
https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1918879
My benign thread, "Apology for the disruption in fun" was just as clear as it could be. I literally reprinted the guidelines over, so that everyone would be privy to what was not allowed on here. Never should you be harrassed or abused or slander used against you on this site. We are a community with the means to help each other. I couldn't figure out how just ending a friendship (mind you, I NEVER CALLED THAT CHICK ANY F-ING NAMES PEOPLE), could become so convuluted and disturbing.
My reason for pointing out those broken guidelines... Neither mod, at the time, thought my reputation, or what was left of it, important enough to stop what was very clearly repeated rule violations by NLN.
But, of course, she couldn't let it go. She turned my short thread into a long drawn out session of Laney Lixx Sux.
Thank Goodness for WakeUp, all the way out there in Texas. Yes, people. I fella from fuckin TEXAS had to get involved and point out the exact rule violations before anyone did anything to defuse this situation. Oh... except for tell us to "make up". "Cease and desist". Stop this now."
My point here, whether it's appreciated or not, is that the rules are meant to keep us safe. They are for our mental well being as well. There was nothing as crushing as knowing so many eccie friends and not one of them standing up for what was obviuosly abuse from a veteran provider here.
Hate me if you like. As long as this behavior is smoothed over with "ya'll just get along" when you have the ability to see what is actually transpiring, and yet, do nothing, as a provider, I'd have to say it certainly does influence my level of comfort.
Ahhhh... But whatever. It's just Laney again. Always out for herself. Never thinking of others or showing appreciation.
I assumed ya'll were in need of a few more good providers. At this rate, any new ones would be likely to run. A few months ago, I wouldn't have blamed them.
Anyway, just thought EVERYONE should know... Just because some people cuss louder, doesn't mean their words ring truer.
I mean no harm. Exactly that. NO HARM FOR ANYONE.
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