ADS WITH EXPLICIT LANGUAGE - Do they make you "click"?

[gregaustin]

Originally Posted by Camille Fox

Very good insight. It feels like, when creating an ad, there is a huge competition on who can be more discriptive on their ad line. And we, by far, are not like this between us, females. If you see us interacting with each other, we are hardly ever acting raunchy.

I guess maybe should focus less on trying to be/talk like a guy and just enjoy being feminine?

I guess maybe should focus less on trying to be/talk like a guy and just enjoy being feminine?

DINGDINGDINGDINGDINGDING...We have a winner!

Seriously, have you ever read the reviews that guys write? Guys don't do sensual enticing writing, they do bathroom wall kind of stuff.

Again, YMMV, but I would rather let my imagination fill in some of the blanks, and I don't mind if you're pics aren't too gynecological.

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by Cpalmson

For me, it depends on where the ad is placed. If it is on BP and there is crude language, and I mean crude language, I just assume it is a pimp putting up the ad for his girls.

If the ad is here o some place like P411, then I assume the girl is targeting a certain client base.

The good ads are the ones that can be raunchy and sophisticated at the same time with a nice little double entendre thrown in for good measure to truly target a specific client.

I must admit certain words and how they are used can draw me in. With all things being equal, an ad with an edge to it over a plainly worded ad.

As for what makes me click is an attractive lady who uses creatively sophisticated words to paint a picture of the decadent time I should expect when I'm with her. A lady who comes across as confident is very sexy to me.

Ya forgot to mention if she can also be negotiated with, on her rate. Why leave it out, when you're a big believer in advising others do it if they ever noted she offered one, no matter how we keep telling you guys, it's insulting?

Raunchy and sophisticated? Does that mean she can complete a sentence and say nasty things at the same time? I get the the feeling you wouldn't know sophisticated if ya tripped over it, as evidenced by, well....everything you say.

Hon, you enjoy touting the premise that you're a Super Moderator. Act like it! Keep in mind your behaviors, words, actions should be a cut above the rest. Don't be like the cop that thinks he can get away with being a thief, because he's got a badge and is above approach. Meaning, he does bad things and can get away with it, because everyone thinks he's supposedly good. Cause every time I see a post from you, it reminds of bad cops....ijs.

That being said, Moderating ain't the easiest thing. I appreciate their time and effort. However, just because they do it for free or voluntary, doesn't mean I or anyone should give them a pass. I've known and seen both kinda moderators. You're not on the side of the title that ya should be, as far as I can tell. Nothing fair or impartial about your participation, other than reminding the ladies we're all "just a little ass", and we can be negotiated with, because Super Moderator said we should and it was A-OK to do so.

I'd apologize for dressing ya down in public, hon. But, it ain't right to have ya carry on in such a manner and hold a title of responsibility, applying points for misbehavior and such, when yours is not as it should be. But hey, take it with a grain of salt and I hope ya don't feel insulted. Because, I am grateful for the gents in the hobby, even you. Cause you teach others how not to behave.

[thebuffmantraples]

Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

Ya forgot to mention if she can also be negotiated with, on her rate. Why leave it out, when you're a big believer in advising others do it if they ever noted she offered one, no matter how we keep telling you guys, it's insulting?

Raunchy and sophisticated? Does that mean she can complete a sentence and say nasty things at the same time? I get the the feeling you wouldn't know sophisticated if ya tripped over it, as evidenced by, well....everything you say.

Hon, you enjoy touting the premise that you're a Super Moderator. Act like it! Keep in mind your behaviors, words, actions should be a cut above the rest. Don't be like the cop that thinks he can get away with being a thief, because he's got a badge and is above approach. Meaning, he does bad things and can get away with it, because everyone thinks he's supposedly good. Cause every time I see a post from you, it reminds of bad cops....ijs.

That being said, Moderating ain't the easiest thing. I appreciate their time and effort. However, just because they do it for free or voluntary, doesn't mean I or anyone should give them a pass. I've known and seen both kinda moderators. You're not on the side of the title that ya should be, as far as I can tell. Nothing fair or impartial about your participation, other than reminding the ladies we're all "just a little ass", and we can be negotiated with, because Super Moderator said we should and it was A-OK to do so.

I'd apologize for dressing ya down in public, hon. But, it ain't right to have ya carry on in such a manner and hold a title of responsibility, applying points for misbehavior and such, when yours is not as it should be. But hey, take it with a grain of salt and I hope ya don't feel insulted. Because, I am grateful for the gents in the hobby, even you. Cause you teach others how not to behave.

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

Ya forgot to mention if she can also be negotiated with, on her rate. Why leave it out, when you're a big believer in advising others do it if they ever noted she offered one, no matter how we keep telling you guys, it's insulting?

Raunchy and sophisticated? Does that mean she can complete a sentence and say nasty things at the same time? I get the the feeling you wouldn't know sophisticated if ya tripped over it, as evidenced by, well....everything you say.

Hon, you enjoy touting the premise that you're a Super Moderator. Act like it! Keep in mind your behaviors, words, actions should be a cut above the rest. Don't be like the cop that thinks he can get away with being a thief, because he's got a badge and is above approach. Meaning, he does bad things and can get away with it, because everyone thinks he's supposedly good. Cause every time I see a post from you, it reminds of bad cops....ijs.

That being said, Moderating ain't the easiest thing. I appreciate their time and effort. However, just because they do it for free or voluntary, doesn't mean I or anyone should give them a pass. I've known and seen both kinda moderators. You're not on the side of the title that ya should be, as far as I can tell. Nothing fair or impartial about your participation, other than reminding the ladies we're all "just a little ass", and we can be negotiated with, because Super Moderator said we should and it was A-OK to do so.

I'd apologize for dressing ya down in public, hon. But, it ain't right to have ya carry on in such a manner and hold a title of responsibility, applying points for misbehavior and such, when yours is not as it should be. But hey, take it with a grain of salt and I hope ya don't feel insulted. Because, I am grateful for the gents in the hobby, even you. Cause you teach others how not to behave.

I don't know either one of you but I believe the OP ASKED what our opinion was and he gave it. Also his was a man's point of view as he is the CUSTOMER. You reply as if he is Lucifer himself. To reply to that manner means you may be educated but unable to control yourself very much. That's an attractive way to attract customers. You know show anger. I assume you don't really give a fuck anyway. Not to bring you down in a public forum but you might let someone simply answer a question before you blow oats all over them next time.

Oh yea the question. I like a little hot sauce with my food. I know it's simple and uneducated but it does get my preference across.

[Old-T]

Being the very opinionated person I am I really cannot refrain from chiming in on this question.

The way a lady writes and what she says—in her ads, posts, web site, and e-mails—is by far the biggest determining factor in whether I try to meet her in person. Explicit language in an ad does not attract me at all. Most the time it causes me to skip right over the ad and look for someone else. I almost always like to start an evening with dinner, and long ago I learned that how a lady conducts herself in her ad has a significant correlation to how she conducts herself in other public venues. I am looking for class and flirtatious seduction (and one can be very classy in jeans and a t-shirt, it’s about how she carries herself and expresses herself). Some more erotic conversation is sometimes perfectly appropriate—AFTER we are behind closed doors.

There are plenty of physically pretty ladies out there. I'm quite greedy. I want a lot more than pretty.

[Cpalmson]

Originally Posted by burkalini

I don't know either one of you but I believe the OP ASKED what our opinion was and he gave it. Also his was a man's point of view as he is the CUSTOMER. You reply as if he is Lucifer himself. To reply to that manner means you may be educated but unable to control yourself very much. That's an attractive way to attract customers. You know show anger. I assume you don't really give a fuck anyway. Not to bring you down in a public forum but you might let someone simply answer a question before you blow oats all over them next time.

Oh yea the question. I like a little hot sauce with my food. I know it's simple and uneducated but it does get my preference across.

Burkalini, she is actually responding in this thread to a a reply I posted in another thread where I had the audacity to claim in certain situations it is okay to negotiate with a provider on price. How that has to deal with the fact I'm a moderator has me scratching my head. Anyway, I'm not taking the bait.

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Burkalini, she is actually responding in this thread to a a reply I posted in another thread where I had the audacity to claim in certain situations it is okay to negotiate with a provider on price. How that has to deal with the fact I'm a moderator has me scratching my head. Anyway, I'm not taking the bait.

Like I said I don't know either of you. I say give an opinion and I'm sure 10 will disagree but to blast off like she did is just uncalled for.

[papadee]

Some have mentioned the crude language in BP ads. Could you post links of examples? I've never seen crude or descriptive language on BP. Nor nudity. I see it here though.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1275662
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1272706
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1273434
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1273868
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1275163 - nudity
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1271972 - nudity

[burkalini]

Hmmm

http://omaha.backpage.com/FemaleEsco...dy-2-f/6052597
http://omaha.backpage.com/FemaleEsco...um2day/6049045
http://omaha.backpage.com/FemaleEsco...aughty/6043790

These might be a little suggestive.

[papadee]

Originally Posted by burkalini

Hmmm

http://omaha.backpage.com/FemaleEsco...dy-2-f/6052597
http://omaha.backpage.com/FemaleEsco...um2day/6049045
http://omaha.backpage.com/FemaleEsco...aughty/6043790

These might be a little suggestive.

Yes suggestive, but not really descriptive.
#1 - F*** - That's pretty close
#2 - Suggestive
#3 - I did see lots of "boobs", "ass", "booty", and terms like that.

The reason I bring it up is because on this board & others, BP is always used as an example of crass, crude, nude, & lewd ads. But I haven't seen it.

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by papadee

Yes suggestive, but not really descriptive.
#1 - F*** - That's pretty close
#2 - Suggestive
#3 - I did see lots of "boobs", "ass", "booty", and terms like that.

The reason I bring it up is because on this board & others, BP is always used as an example of crass, crude, nude, & lewd ads. But I haven't seen it.

I guess fat camel is not descriptive. lol

[Camille Fox]

You are right. BP does not allow you to post anything explicit. Suggestive, yes, explicit, no way. They will delete pictures that show things. And the girls report each other. Here, we are allowed to go all out (except for flat out porn and genitalia), everything else is game.

What does that say? That once rules are lifted, providers will make as much use of explicit material as possible. The result is the buyer's perception. And that is what I am looking for. After all, image goes a long way in this business.

[Camille Fox]

Originally Posted by burkalini

I guess fat camel is not descriptive. lol

Maybe she's just an animal lover!!

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Burkalini, she is actually responding in this thread to a a reply I posted in another thread where I had the audacity to claim in certain situations it is okay to negotiate with a provider on price. How that has to deal with the fact I'm a moderator has me scratching my head. Anyway, I'm not taking the bait.

I apologize to anyone who isn't aware of our Super Mod's agenda. And, I believe I did address the topic. I was curious about his stance on language used concerning his idea of sophistication. I believe this thread is concerning explicit language? He alluded to Raunchy and sophisticated. Not sure how those go hand in hand, but some have perceptions that are highly unusual, so I was curious......

I admit using the thread to point out the head scratching info, which doesn't surprise me turns out to be so, to him. Maybe I should start a Mod thread concerning integrity as well, and men who can't keep their hands outta the ladies pockets and encourage others to stick their hands in as well.

I apologize to the OP if she felt her thread was hijacked and admit I took the opportunity to point some things out to a fella who is not unfamiliar to manipulation and agendas.

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by burkalini

I don't know either one of you but I believe the OP ASKED what our opinion was and he gave it. Also his was a man's point of view as he is the CUSTOMER. You reply as if he is Lucifer himself. To reply to that manner means you may be educated but unable to control yourself very much. That's an attractive way to attract customers. You know show anger. I assume you don't really give a fuck anyway. Not to bring you down in a public forum but you might let someone simply answer a question before you blow oats all over them next time.

Oh yea the question. I like a little hot sauce with my food. I know it's simple and uneducated but it does get my preference across.

Much as some feel about a ladies opinions and blast offs, just know the feeling is mutual. I have a target audience, and it wouldn't be the gents who have no compassion for a lady and her own business, just so ya know. Controlling oneself and sitting in the corner like a good little yes girl, while allowing another to spread false info concerning things which affect my business and every other lady's business, are two different things, but I appreciate your opinion. Am I not happy with someone who would do such things and who has somewhat of an influence on others, whether deservedly so or not? Yes dear, I certainly am unhappy. He deserves more than a verbal blast. But hey, that's just my opinion. If you can dislodge that hand trying to take money outta my pocket and encouraging others to stick their hand in it, please know, that is something I would find useful. But blasting back seems to be your preference, and that's perfectly fine with me.

Again, apologies to the OP

Explicit language is unbecoming from ladies, as well as, gents, whether it be advertising or any other form of communication. But hey, that's simply my opinion, and I have very good reasons for feeling that way, other than the obvious.