Do you write a review if the session was bad?

[pickupkid]

I try not to write a negative review unless there are too many interuptions or the session is rushed.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I think a lot of guys who have "bad" sessions wind up chalking it up to YMMV or "chemistry." And they write a good review because those are "acceptable" norms. BS. If it is a "bad" session, the review should reflect that, yet the guys don't write that way. Plus, guys might think it is their skills that caused the "bad" session, or they don't don't want to write a bad review for fear of being turned down for future appointments from other ladies.


So, what you have is a bunch of "good" reviews of ladies out there that are misleading. For sure, if she doesn't have "chemistry" with you, she may not have chemistry with a lot of guys. Your review should reflect that.

If you felt the YMMV factor was extremely limited, your review should reflect that also. She may be doing that with every guy. In which case it really isn't YMMV, it's poor service.

My advice: don't give the lady any benefit of the doubt. If you weren't happy with the session, write a review that way and be done with it. Don't pull any punches. You're not doing your fellow hobbyists or the ladies any favors by white washing your reviews.

So what’s a bad session? Wouldn't that be based on the hobbyist expectations? I'm a non GFE hobbyist so if the lady shows up and little SL is happy so am I! I have read countless reviews where a hobbyist gets, LFK, HJ, BBBJ, CIM, FSMPC. Oh but DAMN there was no DFK? And she could have put more effort into her BBBJ. WTF? Do your research and maybe lower your expectations and things just seem to look a little brighter. Example: I read where SillyGirl won't see someone if they don't kiss. So no matter how hot see might be, why would I see her knowing there is going to be a problem? One thing is for sure. Guys don't write bad reviews out of fear of retaliation. Whether it be WK Syndrome, NBL or being outed. And who can blame them! Just sayin....

[Jackie S]

Hey S&L, would you prefer "cottage cheese" to "hail damage".

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Jackie S

Hey S&L, would you prefer "cottage cheese" to "hail damage".

[offshoredrilling]

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by Jackie S

Hey S&L, would you prefer "cottage cheese" to "hail damage".

gross!! How about "not as fit as Id imagined "

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

gross!! How about "not as fit as Id imagined "

Why not just tell the bald-faced lie and say: "I came so hard she gave me fits."

[anita]

Some guys just don't feel like writing Reviews, good or bad. I would still see a guy that gave some no's.

[sensualsanaa]

I thought the purpose of this lovely board was to share information. If the service was bad, you should let others know. I think it would be more beneficial for the ladies to be able to see the reviews so they'd know in what areas they need to improve.

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by sensualsanaa

I thought the purpose of this lovely board was to share information. If the service was bad, you should let others know. I think it would be more beneficial for the ladies to be able to see the reviews so they'd know in what areas they need to improve.

IDT very many ladies read reviews with that idea in mind. They look for body descriptions and anything negative regarding service. I think most ladies think they're at the top of their game already and any negative comment is a slap in the face and possibly an impairment of future business.

And then there are those ladies that frown upon reviews, or positively refuse to have any posted. How do you find out about them?

[Guest082513-02]

I dont think the ladies should read the reviews. Lord knows we see what happens when ones does find someone to give them the ROS.. suddenly the claws are out and then we have fake alerts.

I dont think one bad review would do anyone harm.. Hell I got one out of what? 51 reviews? I think they look at that one... as it being HIS issue.. not mine. And when it occurred... it never damaged my business, if anything it brought in more. The more it was bumped, the more guys looked at my profile... and then started reading other reviews, which caught their attention!

[farmtomarket]

Nope! No news is good news and the next girl is the best girl, carry on men.

[Jackie S]

"No news is good news"??

I do not think that letting everybody live in ignorant bliss is quite what the founders of the Escort Client Community Information Exchange had in mind.

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by Jackie S

"No news is good news"??

I do not think that letting everybody live in ignorant bliss is quite what the founders of the Escort Client Community Information Exchange had in mind.

Nor did they probably have fake reviews in mind. In this instance, no news is probably better than fake news.

Unless, of course, it's The Daily Show..."the most trusted name in fake news."

[plainjoe]

To maximize my funds, I do my research when looking for companionship. If during my research, I come across negative reviews, I may pass. A few negative reviews compared to a majority of positive reviews may require more research, because there are many other options. Depending upon the number of reviews and the numbers of positive/negative ratio, I may pursue. If I recognize the reviewers (or as in this forum, it lists the number of reviews submitted/posts) credibility is established and I would take my cues from them.

The only way that I would be able to determine to pursue or pass is if I find the positive (and negative) reviews. Thus, yes, I would write a bad review. Others have provided me with reviews, so I pass it forward by writing good and bad reviews. Again, because of research (and screening), for the most part, you should know what to expect, thus minimizing negative experiences.