Encounter: TS Sonia - Pick One and She's Done

[texassapper]

Originally Posted by howdy_booty

There's a big difference between an eating disorder and gender identity.

So educate us genius. How are the two not mental disorders centered on self image?

[texassapper]

Originally Posted by dfwtsfan

It seems crazy to allow slurs here for a class of people that are being reviewed here. Sometimes the only way you can help people see beyond their harmful and hateful actions, is by informing them of how much suffering the people they're harming are constantly going through....I noticed something really interesting about your comment, you didn't say anything about Eliot_Spitzer's slur in post # 2 being wrong or inappropriate, nothing at all about that.

"You paid $200 to suck some dudes cock?"

What's the slur in his sentence?

[dfwtsfan]

Originally Posted by Jacubus

So what you’re saying is you paid $200 to suck a guys dick.

Did you read the post on how TS's consider being referred to as a male is derogatory and highly offensive? Post # 4 gives a hint as to why. Many have gone through hell and back, and actually continue through hell daily, to become and to be known as a "female" with a cock. Many throughout the country take that a step further and have their gender changed from male to female on their drivers license, research that on Google. Each day cities and states all over the U.S. pass laws to protect that specific "class of people" (transgenders).

Slur: an insulting, offensive or degrading remark, often based on an identity group such as race, ethnicity, religion, ethnic, gender/gender identity or sexual orientation.

Epithet: an offensive word or name that is used as a way of abusing or insulting someone.

Saying I sucked a dudes, guys, or in any way a males dick, is a slur to that "class of people", and an epithet to me. I don't suck mens dicks, I suck TS dicks.

You should be ashamed of yourself. Hopefully providers do their research and read your posts before an appointment, see what kind of person you really are, the hate and malicious intent that's inside of you, and avoid you. Do you feel like a big man now?

[texassapper]

Originally Posted by dfwtsfan

Did you read the post on how TS's consider being referred to as a male is derogatory and highly offensive?

Oh, I'm sorry were you under the impression that somebody died and left you in charge of the dictionary?

Just because you are offended doesn't make the the word "dude" a slur.

Originally Posted by dfwtsfan

Many have gone through hell and back, and actually continue through hell daily, to become and to be known as a "female" with a cock. Many throughout the country take that a step further and have their gender changed from male to female on their drivers license, research that on Google. Each day cities and states all over the U.S. pass laws to protect that specific "class of people" (transgenders).

I'm sorry their choices have made their lives more difficult... but that doesn't change the fact that they remain males... hence the penis.

Again it's perfectly OK with me, their choices are just as valid as anyone elses... they deserve the same protections under the law that everyone else enjoys... but that DOESN'T in fact actually change the fact that they are biological males and hence the fact that the word "dude" is not a slur.

Originally Posted by dfwtsfan

Slur: an insulting, offensive or degrading remark, often based on an identity group such as race, ethnicity, religion, ethnic, gender/gender identity or sexual orientation.

Again... not a slur.


Again..just because you are offended doesn't change a single fact.

Originally Posted by dfwtsfan

Saying I sucked a dudes, guys, or in any way a males dick, is a slur to that "class of people", and an epithet to me. I don't suck mens dicks, I suck TS dicks.

I'm sorry you have such low self esteem that you're so easily offended. No shame in blowing another guy... perfectly normal sexual behavior.

But just be honest. It's a dude with tits not a chick with a dick.

Originally Posted by dfwtsfan

You should be ashamed of yourself. Hopefully providers do their research and read your posts before an appointment, see what kind of person you really are, the hate and malicious intent that's inside of you, and avoid you. Do you feel like a big man now?

Arguing with someone who's mental issues make it difficult for them to define "female" or "male" isn't really an achievement.

I'll say it again so it might penetrate. I thinks it's great you enjoy expressing your sexuality any way that you like. It was a good review... but don't ask everyone to share/adhere to your beliefs (whether you believe them delusional or not).

How about we force you to espouse Islamic beliefs that there is no God but God. Because a LOT of folks get upset if you disagree with that.

See how that works?

[howdy_booty]

Originally Posted by texassapper

So educate us genius. How are the two not mental disorders centered on self image?

Glad you asked.

Originally Posted by texassapper

When women have body dysmorphia and starve themselves we recognize that as a mental illness.

So you have actually described two separate disorders that the DSM-5 categorizes differently. Body dysmorphia is actually classified under obsessive-compulsive disorders because it is accompanied by obsessive thoughts about a perceived flaw in one's body. If we're using body weight as an example, a woman may be unable to stop thinking about herself as grossly overweight, whether she is or isn't. This would typically be accompanied by compulsive behaviors to lose weight which could include limiting diet, excessive exercise, or even cosmetic surgery. Crucially and what makes this an OCD is that these actions would not bring her any relief, they would never fix her perception in and of themselves.

If however she is merely starving herself, this is anorexia classified under eating disorders and usually identified as an intense fear of being overweight and intense shame if she doesn't feel thin enough. The act of consciously starving herself might actually give her some relief in this, even though she is actively harming herself. That is one of the factors that distinguishes this from an OCD, though the two have a high comorbidity.

Originally Posted by texassapper

But if a dude wants to believe he's a women, we call it stunning and brave.

Lastly, this is called gender dysphoria, not dysmorphia, dysphoria, and it is called such because it does not carry the negative connotations of something being "wrong" or "flawed" that dysmorphia does. The person has a strong correlation between how they see themselves and the gender expression of another gender, stronger than the one they were born with. Crucially, and why it is no longer called a disorder, is because measures to ameliorate that disconnect actually reduce the negative symptoms the sufferer experiences.

I hope this has been helpful and I'm certainly willing to answer any questions you might have.

[2on1Lover]

I think Texas the sap man understands the paradox fairly well. Nice post Sapper.

[AndyDufresne]

Originally Posted by dfwtsfan

Did you read the post on how TS's consider being referred to as a male is derogatory and highly offensive? Post # 4 gives a hint as to why. Many have gone through hell and back, and actually continue through hell daily, to become and to be known as a "female" with a cock. Many throughout the country take that a step further and have their gender changed from male to female on their drivers license, research that on Google. Each day cities and states all over the U.S. pass laws to protect that specific "class of people" (transgenders).

Slur: an insulting, offensive or degrading remark, often based on an identity group such as race, ethnicity, religion, ethnic, gender/gender identity or sexual orientation.

Epithet: an offensive word or name that is used as a way of abusing or insulting someone.

Saying I sucked a dudes, guys, or in any way a males dick, is a slur to that "class of people", and an epithet to me. I don't suck mens dicks, I suck TS dicks.

You should be ashamed of yourself. Hopefully providers do their research and read your posts before an appointment, see what kind of person you really are, the hate and malicious intent that's inside of you, and avoid you. Do you feel like a big man now?

I have been reading this back and forth and wonder if you believe the following statement is offensive or false:

“You paid $200 to suck a cock?”

It seems like the offensive—to you and most in the TG community—is the use of the term is “dude’s”. I can respect that and as a matter of courtesy and respect will refer to a TS person as female if they identify as such, but I know I’m my mind that person has XY chromosomes that as of now can’t be changed. However, I think your lengthy commentary about how straight people should in your opinion think is excessive. Perhaps you can not be so sensitive to someone who is confused with the distinction between sex and gender and try to address the matter in a less “preachy” way on how you think we straight people should think.

All that said, I appreciate honest reviews and yours was that.

[Eliot_Spitzer]

Originally Posted by AndyDufresne

I have been reading this back and forth and wonder if you believe the following statement is offensive or false:

“You paid $200 to suck a cock?”

It seems like the offensive—to you and most in the TG community—is the use of the term is “dude’s”. I can respect that and as a matter of courtesy and respect will refer to a TS person as female if they identify as such, but I know I’m my mind that person has XY chromosomes that as of now can’t be changed. However, I think your lengthy commentary about how straight people should in your opinion think is excessive. Perhaps you can not be so sensitive to someone who is confused with the distinction between sex and gender and try to address the matter in a less “preachy” way on how you think we straight people should think.

All that said, I appreciate honest reviews and yours was that.

This dude is bent out of shape because he knows what I said is true.

[dfwtsfan]

Originally Posted by Eliot_Spitzer

This dude is bent out of shape because he knows what I said is true.

I’d agree with you but then we’d both be wrong.

[ReggieSinclair]

It is a sweet deal .. If someone paid me 200 and then did L2 on me and allowed me to jack hammer their tiny Weiner .. they could call me what ever they wanted dude guy fellow chick girl dame broad.. i dont care cause I got da money and the release..hahahaha

[dfwtsfan]

Thanks Reggie, too bad Eliot_Spitzer, texassapper and Jacubus aren't on the same page. The thing about Sonia that sold it all, and was left out of the review, but can be seen in her pics, is the difference in her versus a man, specifically her body. She had big MM's and nips that would pass for female. She had curves - look at the pics of her stomach, waist and ass. So that typically means she's watching her diet, working out some, and of course hormones probably helped her get that girly figure, and may be helping her maintain it. Also, she packaged all that in a girly outfit and with long hair and make-up. Nothing made it seem like a cock on a man, and thus the attraction to TS's versus the typical male face and body.

[daby366]

The world has gone nutz! Guys are getting offended on a website dedicated to reviewing escorts.

[daby366]

And yes, he paid a dude $200 dollars to suck his cock. I say that with no judgment, it is just technically correct.

[Jayhawk328]

Originally Posted by dfwtsfan

Or maybe, you walk around hoping the entire world will always view everything the way you do, and your mission in life is to change others to your viewpoint of things

I have zero issue with your review. It's not my cup of tea and guess what? That is okay!! WALDT!!

I found it interesting to read the above excerpt of your post, considering you spent 7 paragraphs explaining to Eliot Spitzer -

-why you are offended by his post
-why he shouldn't use the word "dude" to describe a TS
-how intolerant he is
-that his post was bullying, hateful, oppressive, etc.
-the trials and tribulations of the transgender community
-insulting his intelligence for believing there are only 2 genders (which is an assumption in the first place)

So how about instead of forcing your beliefs on others, just accept the fact that people are allowed (and do) think differently!! Not everyone has to think the same way you do and if they don't think the same as you, it doesn't make them a bad person. And before you go off and ask why I am defending his post, I am not. I just don't like when people try and tell others HOW to think, and I found the excerpt above that you posted a bit hypocritical. Plus, this is a hooker review board, so I'm not sure you picked the correct internet venue to get offended.

[AmericanHardwood]

Some of us men pay to get our cock sucked
Other pay to suck cock.
So the TS is a transgender
But the dude that’s paying to suck a cock is a dude right??
So no matter how you slice it.
The dude paying to suck a cock is gay