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NastyCanasta · 08-01-2011, 06:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

If you go out after BCD time, isn't that missing the point of this thread?

OP was asking if other women offer meet & greet before BCD commitment so that the men know what they're getting into beforehand.

You're right, my bad.

PatronAnejo · 08-01-2011, 07:08 AM

I enjoy spending social time with KLovve because she is interesting and fun. I think Topshelf Tess and some of the others would be the same. They are GFE+++. Others I have not clicked with at all.

As far as meet and greet with a first time client, I think a lot of the girls would worry that it would not lead to a paid session.

And seeing some of the girls getting ripped in the threads for less than stellar performance, being late, not looking like their photos; I think would most providers would hesitate to offer meet and greets.

austinkboy · 08-01-2011, 01:04 PM

rockerrick...look what i found:
http://eroticservices.cityvibe.com/e...ew&post=800861

cheater · 08-01-2011, 02:14 PM

I love meet and greets. I wish more girls did it. I can see how some girls see it as a waste of time. But if the the girl sees it as a waste of time ,maybe I dont really want to see her. It shouldnt always be about the money.It should be fun also.

ztonk · 08-01-2011, 03:14 PM

For some ladies and guys, a "meet and greet" at a public venue would not be a safe or prudent idea.

z

knotty man · 08-01-2011, 03:23 PM

id prefer a "meat and greek". but thats just me

jimmers · 08-01-2011, 04:13 PM

What I would like is if after I schedule an appointment for a date with a provider is to have that provider offer a meet for coffee to just get rid of the initial jitters of both parties. I'm more of an infrequent type hobbyist (once a month type guy) and I would be much more apt to make an appointment if I thought I could meet the provider for 10-15 min before hand. No touching, just post meeting fantasy thoughts leading up to the actual date!

txAustin202 · 08-01-2011, 04:38 PM

The whole point of the meet and greet is so us guys can see what a provider looks like before deciding to drop a couple of hundred bucks on a session. You shouldn't have been expecting BCD time. I especially liked the gym meet and greet suggestion. If both parties are going to work out anyways, why not do it at the same gym, at the same time, and kill 2 birds with 1 stone? No wasted time there.

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Originally Posted by GenesisNicole

I have met a few gents this way, but most just wanted to meet and see what I look like in person. Still waiting for them to schedule for BCD fun.
So at this point, I have taken that option off my menu...

Too bad that a few spoil it for the bunch.

G. N

rockerrick · 08-01-2011, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by jimmers

What I would like is if after I schedule an appointment for a date with a provider is to have that provider offer a meet for coffee to just get rid of the initial jitters of both parties. I'm more of an infrequent type hobbyist (once a month type guy) and I would be much more apt to make an appointment if I thought I could meet the provider for 10-15 min before hand. No touching, just post meeting fantasy thoughts leading up to the actual date!

This is what I was thinking also.

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Originally Posted by austinkboy

rockerrick...look what i found:
http://eroticservices.cityvibe.com/e...ew&post=800861

unbelievable

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Originally Posted by txAustin202

The whole point of the meet and greet is so us guys can see what a provider looks like before deciding to drop a couple of hundred bucks on a session. You shouldn't have been expecting BCD time. I especially liked the gym meet and greet suggestion. If both parties are going to work out anyways, why not do it at the same gym, at the same time, and kill 2 birds with 1 stone? No wasted time there.

For me I wanted dinner or drinks,because I drive from Brenham. Also I wasn't wanting to judge provider as much as just connecting a little before sessions. I would do this with providers I know already just to catch up.

GenesisNicole · 08-01-2011, 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by txAustin202

The whole point of the meet and greet is so us guys can see what a provider looks like before deciding to drop a couple of hundred bucks on a session. You shouldn't have been expecting BCD time. I especially liked the gym meet and greet suggestion. If both parties are going to work out anyways, why not do it at the same gym, at the same time, and kill 2 birds with 1 stone? No wasted time there.

I guess I do expect it when during our meet and greet time the guy is telling me he can't wait to knock boots with me. But thanks for your input. *smile and wink*

G.N

sixxbach · 08-01-2011, 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by GenesisNicole

I guess I do expect it when during our meet and greet time the guy is telling me he can't wait to knock boots with me. But thanks for your input. *smile and wink*

G.N

I have to agree with Gen here. If you are going to do a meet and greet with a provider don't tell her you are going to see her. Just be straight up. If you are not interested, let her know at the end of the dinner or drinks. I have had 5 meet and greets with providers and had sessions right after 3 of those times. The non session ones were because the providers had no interest in seeing me BCD but did want to meet me in person. We actually had drinks and got sloppy drunk and had fun. It can be a positive experience if you are straight up with your intentions...

sixx

Nina Sparxx · 08-01-2011, 10:47 PM

I have lunch date rates. I have met a few gents this way to "see how it goes." I also offer club rates. It has always worked out well for both parties.

Majichands · 08-01-2011, 10:52 PM

Well if the Guy is single and I have no fear of cheaters big ass camera hitting me in the eye while I am eating my Soup. lol
No For real I am single in a New Town been here 5 months I would luv to go out to eat or Bowling or Darts anything fun before a masssge would be great as a provider already stated it is like a simulated date but no pressure of if your going to get to base 1 or two you know for sure your getting a hj with me..lol
Plus I am always up to be someones female to a swingers club.................lol
AGAIN PLEASE DO NOT WANT TO BE ON CHEATERS. That is a big fobia of mine that some dude is not covering his ass and all of a sudden I got them fucking cameras at my front door.

knotty man · 08-01-2011, 11:07 PM

majic, not tryin to be an ass .but, i see you dont do FS. my question is, exactly what do you plan on doing on these dates to the swingers clubs....spectate?
i mean do you plan on just givin hj's there while hes servicin other ladies. seems to me hj's are not in real high demand there when theres so many other ladies offerin fs and oral there. again ,not tryin to be an ass, just curious to what you think you may be offerin your "date"

bundy64 · 08-01-2011, 11:32 PM

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Originally Posted by sixxbach

I have to agree with Gen here. If you are going to do a meet and greet with a provider don't tell her you are going to see her. Just be straight up. If you are not interested, let her know at the end of the dinner or drinks. I have had 5 meet and greets with providers and had sessions right after 3 of those times. The non session ones were because the providers had no interest in seeing me BCD but did want to meet me in person. We actually had drinks and got sloppy drunk and had fun. It can be a positive experience if you are straight up with your intentions...

sixx

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