Rhetorical question

[Pepper_Springfield]

Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

It's sad & insulting that men always have find something wrong with women *here*. When in fact women are here to please you men.
And it's high time some respect & appreciation is shown to the ladies. Rather than picking the ladies apart for every little thing and making insults like the one you made.

Well said girlfriend!

[Whitedog]

I agree with pepper, well said, WM. I feel more comfortable seeing someone with reviews, than without. It gives the women the women the credibility of being the real deal, and us, an idea of what to expect.

[SofaKingFun]

Originally Posted by barneyrubble

I peruse the BP ads every now and then not because I am looking for someone to see but out of curiosity. If I see ladies sharing phone numbers or running different ads under different names there is no way I would take a chance with one of them.

The very first girl I saw, while on a trip to Dallas, I met thru CL. I suppose I was naive and I also guess I was lucky. She and I became good friends because after a few visits she realized I wasn't BSing her in any way. I was just a nice guy looking for some entertainment. And I ttreated her like a real person, with respect and courtesy. Sounds obvious, but I think there are alot of jerks around here who think women are property. We went to lunch, dinner, went to movies, even played golf together. All off the clock.

Now that I have been around a bit, I would be scared to death to try BP or CL. I might get lucky again, have that feeling of finding the proverbial diamond in the rough. But I would petrified that I was walking into a sting.

So, MsPrittiKitti, I think guys look there hoping for that added intrigue of finding someone know one else knows about--sort of like opening that big present on Christmas morning when you have no idea what's inside. Or for that matter, the guys who do the streetwalking scene hope to get lucky--TALK ABOUT HOLY SHIT SCARY!!!!!!!! But to each their own.
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Some of the girls here, while safe, seem to have so many reviews that the feeling that they have been rode hard and put up wet surrounds them. For many guys (ok--me), that's a turnoff. The unreviewed girls on BP, while scary probably give some of the guys the hope that not too many guys have seen them.

I don't know. Kinda rambling answer to both questions.

Yeah Barny, you probably should have stopped rambling right about where I placed those red asterisks 'cuz you pretty-much shit the bed with what you said immediately after.

Wow.

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[Pepper_Springfield]

Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

Yeah Barny, you probably should have stopped rambling right about where I placed those red asterisks 'cuz you pretty-much shit the bed with what you said immediately after.

Wow.

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OMG You are sooooo funny!!!!

[RickO'shayRabbitt]

Originally Posted by brittanylennox

That's really unfair. Think about what you just said. If a provider doesn't have any reviews, then she is unsafe to see. But, if she has reviews, too many guys have "done" her, and she therefore is nasty.

I can't win.

Read more closely. That's not what I said. I said "some" girls have so many reviews that it appears as if they see lots of guys every day. I didn't say it meant that they did. I also didn't say that it meant they were bad. I was just offering a possible rationale to the OP. I also said--speaking for myself only--that a lady with lots of reviews isn't exactly what I am interested in. My own personal tastes, of which I am allowed to have.

Perhaps I should have used a different words than lots, because that is not a defined amount. I probably also should have stated OVER A CERTAIN PERIOD OF TIME also. For that, my bad.

I did not mention anyone by name. Anyone offended took it upon themselves. My intention is never to hurt anyone's feelings, and if I did, I apologize. But for providing a honest hypothetical answer to someone asking an earnest question, I do not apologize for that.

[Sensia]

Originally Posted by barneyrubble

Some of the girls here, while safe, seem to have so many reviews that the feeling that they have been rode hard and put up wet surrounds them. For many guys (ok--me), that's a turnoff. The unreviewed girls on BP, while scary probably give some of the guys the hope that not too many guys have seen them.

I don't know. Kinda rambling answer to both questions.

Wow, very insulting. Oh forgot to ad this: you have no clue how many guys a gal is seeing through a BP ad, not to mention the danger you put yourself in each time you go to see a lady from BP. It will bite you in the butt, I promise you it will.

[Sensia]

Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

I'm amazed to hear you make claims such as this.
When in fact you've reviewed & even made comments about how you can't wait to to see her again. A lady who brags about the 100's of reviews she's received in the 1 year she's been around.
Yet your repeated comments on her reviews doesn't indicate that she's rode hard & put up wet and thus her 100+ reviews not a turn off for you!!
But for you to make such comments about the other ladies is insulting & sad. I've met you and I'm gravely disappointed. Your last comment is so laughable .
Men want one thing & yet expect another.
Show me a man who hasn't fucked a lot of women in his day and I'll show you a virgin. This is the 21st century. Hobby or not. Folks have been fucking plenty of others for years. Doesn't make them any less desirable!!!!!

And to be frank. Having many reviews doesn't insinuate in the least that the lady/ladies are rode hard & put up wet. Would you say that about the woman in your life that you fucked & wanted sex from everyday??

It's sad & insulting that men always have find something wrong with women *here*. When in fact women are here to please you men.
And it's high time some respect & appreciation is shown to the ladies. Rather than picking the ladies apart for every little thing and making insults like the one you made.

Yea, you can never satisfy a man who has nothing but anger toward women. You can clearly see who those men are by their posts.

[Likinikki]

Originally Posted by barneyrubble
Some of the girls here, while safe, seem to have so many reviews that the feeling that they have been rode hard and put up wet surrounds them. For many guys (ok--me), that's a turnoff. The unreviewed girls on BP, while scary probably give some of the guys the hope that not too many guys have seen them.

Personally, I'm not offfended by what he said...it's how he feels and how he views things. And, who knows...there may be many men who have similar thoughts...it's not about who's right or who's wrong. It's an eye opener for me...so, in a distorted way, I have to thank Barney for giving us a clue as to why so many hobbyists go to BP...instead of a well-reviewed ECCIE indy. I've been scratching my head wondering what's going on...so, he may have a point.

With saying that...I don't mean to burst your bubble Barney, but I would bet the providers who advertise on BP/CL have revolving doors...much like agency girls. If they're advertising a low donation (40/50 BNG's 100-150/hr) they're banging like bunnies...and you may be hobbyist #10 for the day...just bringing you back to reality Barney.

[Guest031811]

[quote=barneyrubble;609715]I also said--speaking for myself only--that a lady with lots of reviews isn't exactly what I am interested in. My own personal tastes, of which I am allowed to have. [quote]

Why does it matter how many reviews a woman has had? Why should we judge a woman for enjoying sex and having multiple partners? If she is a fantastic provider, what does it matter?

Here is my logic:

Woman "A" has 600 reviews. ALL 600 say that she is a bombshell and that she is AMAZING in the sack. They comment that she obviously loves her job because she is so good at it.

Woman "B" only has 3 reviews. 1 of them says that "she doesn't look like her pictures", and the other 2 say that she is a lousy lay. They mention that this woman is TOFTT.


Who would you rather see?

[RickO'shayRabbitt]

This is, I'm sure a mistake, to respond. However, MsPrittiKitti asked why men go to backpage or craigslist in spite of all the well-publicized pitfalls associated with those sites.

I offered a possible hypothesis. Period. I didn't say I prefer those ladies; I didn't say I didn't see ladies who had been reviewed. It was conjecture on my part. It wasn't angry. I didn't call anyone out. I did, however, choose some of my words poorly. And I apologized once, and I will apologize for those words once more. But that's it.

[VeronicaMoore]

"...until the next time I whine about something on this board and say something insulting to the ladies, get called on it and then have to backpedal to make it seem like I'm just a poor misunderstood guy."

That's been the pattern, so far, anyway.

[Guest092514]

I have learned, as Barney has to some degree here, it is really hard to get your point across via just text. Different words mean different things to different people. I have offended more than one on eccie and never intended to. But I did. Learn from it is what I decided for myself and be more careful and say less even when I think I can contribute. This site has been extraordinarily beneficial for me and just reading threads like this can tell you volumes. About yourself and others. Thank God we live in America where we have this freedom of speech. And thank you all for your contributions on this and any thread! Eccie is priceless!

[Likinikki]

I've also heard that there are many providers that don't like to meet guys who have lots of OK's listed on P411...for whatever reason. So, what he's stating is just about the same...imho...it comes down to one's preference.

I think some of us (providers) have become extra sensitive to comments that appear to disrespect providers...because there have been so many instances of that happening.

Sandy made a good point...it is difficult to get an idea across in written form...because each of us have a different prospective. No harm done...happy hobbying everyone...life's way too short!

[anita]

They are using the phone perhaps because they use the same room.... Or they just started with low income and are trying to make it work helping each other.
And, I am just going to go ahead and ignore the comment Barneyrubble made since he apologized already so ladies let's move on.