A question for providers regarding vouching and providing references.

[shayla84]

Originally Posted by SexiLexi333

I take this very seriously and see myself as a Professional who accepts personal information on the trust system.
Very much like a Lawyer or Doctor(I get paid more hourly than they do)
If you trust these individuals with your information they are bound by oath to keep your secrets. I realize the need for men to stray out side their marriage contract and I am honored to be your temporary 'fill in' for addressing needs that an SO is not capable or willing to preform for you. You are paying me to fulfill that need discreetly and with no strings attached. I am not here to compete with your SO, just take the edge off when you need it.
I have a favorite saying that I like to say to a client after our first session together.
"Have you ever seen the Fight Club"? What is the first rule to Fight Club?
Don't talk about Fight Club!
I have a career outside the Hobby and I would be devastated if my Secret Life were revealed. I think that is the case with the men I entertain.
After all, isn't that what makes this Hobby so much fun?! The secrecy of it all.
When I contact another Provider for a reference that is the title of my request.
"Provider Reference"
I just want to know if the guy is good to see and make sure he is not Johnny Law!
If there are extenuating circumstances, I want to know that too! That is all! I don't need you to write a novel on this guys first kiss...boring! Let me find out the rest on my own!
When I give a Reference, I do the same...Yeah, he's cool...Nope, don't waste your time...and the most recent, call me, we gotta talk about that dude!
I am not a jealous Provider
I will get back as soon as humanly possible
I will lay it on the line and let the Provider make up her own mind if she wants to proceed with the appt or not. I am assuming we are all adults here and can make our own choices.
SL

very well said and very true.

[SexiLexi333]

Thank you Shayla

[ztonk]

Originally Posted by Electricfeelnow

Most people I can weed out quickly and easily because they don't provide the very reasonable and public info (eccie/p411 handle and references)

A reminder to the guys: NEVER provide your P411 ID by email, PM, or text. Only share it from the P411 site in the form of an appointment request or prescreening request.

And ladies... ensure that the guy sharing his ECCIE handle with you sends you a PM here to validate it is indeed him...

ztonk
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