question for providers why not post recent & actual pics?

[Onatop]

Yes people age - gain weight , lose weight , workout - become toned, then less toned, etc. I agree Dallas no facial photo's due to one's privacy - I would want myself. But what I really referring to is - that hair, weight, other physical features are not even close to what the provider looks like - shame it has to be this way. Makes it difficult for everyone.

[DallasRain]

thats so true babe! I have had the same hair color and basically the same hairstyle for over 5 years...But I just changed hairstyles so I guess it is time to update on some pics...lol

I may not be the prettiest/youngest/thinnest or most mind-blowing gal in the hobby.....but I am who I am and do quite well with it!
Be who you are and be proud of it ladies!
There is a market for everyone!!

[Dr. Vanity]

WHO'S THE IMPOSTER?? Point them out, point them out! Just kidding or am I?
I LOVE taking pictures , period. + I'm very authentic. Therefore all my pictures are recent because some things are BETTER WITH AGE

I will only assume those who don't post recent pictures are....
very insecure!
Lack the passion and doesn't take pleasing a client seriously ot
Just doesn't have time (which is a poor excuse IMO)

Either way, I hope the lady in mind finds it within herself to understand not every man wants a petite woman.. Or BBW.. OR blond hair or straight teeth. Indeed beauty is skin deep! physical characteristics attract... Skills and glamor can only go so far.. It's the woman with the right attitude is what a man really enjoys. Confidence is how you carry it.

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

I wish more women understood that the only way to truly kill your business is to use fake pictures, especially when the pics don't even bear a resemblance to what is waiting on the other side of the door.

If I've learned anything after 8 years in this business, it is that there is a Jill for every Jack. I've seen successful providers that fit every possible range of women - old, young, overweight, skinny as a rail, short women, tall women, women of every race. Looks absolutely matter, but every look has its fans.

Authenticity makes regulars, and regulars make the wonderful hobby world go 'round.

Onatop, I have to disagree with you on a few points. While I realize that women like myself who are truly independent, use real and accurate pics, may be a rarity, we are not that small in number. Research will help you find us. Backpage is nothing more than an advertising venue, and plenty of us quality ladies use it.

Lastly, you made an assumption that a married provider must be doing this occupation because her husband 'made her'. None of us can have any idea what kind of relationship the lady you mentioned has with her husband. For all we know, she was the one who suggested it to him. Or perhaps they are just both freaks in the sheets, and for them her occupation is a mutual turn on. We just don't know. Many providers have husbands or SO's, and not all of them provide because their SO expects or demands it.

[Onatop]

Mercy Miss G - I was not pointing fingers and I do no even know you - yes I agree with others who posted - you are who you are - should be like " what you see is what you get"

Every man and woman likes different body shapes, styles - some men do not like petite but BBW or otherwise. Me I just think a picture should be like a 1,000 words - not like when a client - provider meet the picture is worthless.

Reviews, ISO forums reveal a lot of imposters - fake pictures , etc.

Best To All

[Dr. Vanity]

[QUOTE=Onatop;1055498688]Mercy Miss G - I was not pointing fingers and I do no even know you - yes I agree with others who posted - you are who you are - should be like " what you see is what you get"


(confused face) I could have sworn I wrote "just kidding or am I?" as joking... U know, playfulness smh. Geesh

Well any who I gave my insight as requested. Take it or leave it.
*Shrugging my shoulder applying my lip gloss*

Great discussion tho

[Topgun007]

Originally Posted by bobbyupside

The right caliber of provider will have real and recent photos.

And most of those providers stay off BP.

Nice to see you on the board bobby I appreciate your input.