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					Originally Posted by Zhivago52  A bucket list item?  Perhaps.  Having sex in  the dark with someone I've not met or seen, and only know by reputation  and reviews.....  and then waking up with that person ....  sort of  interesting. | 
	
 
Sounds like a fun time 

 I kind of get off on the anonymity of this lifestyle, but that's taking it to the next level!
Most  of my appointments are overnights, so for me it goes with the territory  that some of those overnights are with men I've never met before.  Generally I put it forth as a dinner date with the intention of  extending overnight - that way, if we *don't* happen to hit it off (I  can count on a couple of fingers the times where that's happened, lol)  then we can part with no hard feelings. Of course, I'm generally quite  open with conversation up to our tryst, so we both have a pretty good  idea of who we're meeting and how much we'll enjoy them before we meet  face to face. 
Only once have I ever met someone sight unseen for  a week's escape... I was so nervous about it! The gentleman was highly  recommended to me by one of my friends overseas whom he visited  regularly, and she told me not to worry about him. I corresponded with  him for several weeks, and he was more than charming, so I put my  apprehension aside and flew out to meet him. I thoroughly enjoyed every  minute of it - at first there was the wonderful thrill of getting to  explore someone new, but by the end of the week I felt like I'd known  him forever! Definitely one of the high points in my time in this  lifestyle,
~Mme X~