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Old 06-29-2015, 06:39 PM   #16
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Had a stalker in my real life years ago, before anyone really took "stalking" seriously as a threat.
Yes, I had dated him, yes we broke up and he just wanted to get back together, yes he was a loose cannon I wanted nothing to do with.
Showing up at home, where I took classes at and even where I like to hang out, threatening anyone who tried to date or even befriend me.....
Finally, after trying several times to just "move on" I moved
many miles away.

Got a message from him once after moving back to my hometown,
in these technologically advanced times I was able to send him a link to a video I once took at the firing range.

Never heard from him again for some reason..??

Stalking is something one should NEVER take lightly.
Especially in the hobby.

Should it happen to you, find a way to document it, then if need be you will have that record should you have to later report it.
There are even cyber stalking resources that don't care why you are being stalked. They just want to help you stop it before it escalates.

And most importantly, share with your fellow hobbyists when a lady oversteps the boundaries between provider and "stalker material" because when you shut her down she will turn to someone else.

There are plenty of resources available to store that info securely as long as you lock it all down.

But then
Ya'll already know that....... lol
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Old 06-29-2015, 07:11 PM   #17
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Thanks for telling your story sexymaid. Nice about the firing range vid being such a good deterrent. That's one to remember.
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Old 06-29-2015, 08:16 PM   #18
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heres another famous "stalking " thrAD

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1053138&highlight=

and I thought

I was bad at forming sentences........

she was almost un readable in the not so distant past......................... hhmmmm ,,
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Old 06-29-2015, 10:04 PM   #19
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heres another famous "stalking " thrAD

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1053138&highlight=

and I thought

I was bad at forming sentences........

she was almost un readable in the not so distant past......................... hhmmmm ,,
Why do you have such a freaking hard on for me?! Seriously.... It's getting kinda creepy now. although maybe it's appropriate for this thread
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Old 06-30-2015, 11:42 AM   #20
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Why do you have such a freaking hard on for me?! Seriously.... It's getting kinda creepy now. although maybe it's appropriate for this thread
jeebus...... make up your damn mind


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I never said that I expected people NOT to quote on it. In fact, I encourage it. Even if it's negative! If JB wants to keep throwing bashing comments my way, so be it. I'll say whatever I want in return, and most likely will have some bit of "snark" in it too.
I definitely won't be tucking my tail and crying over some BS comments.

I know

its only OK till its NOT ...


and also "stalking " is always one sided...lol

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Especially with your standards.

geesh...... was just mindin my own business here....






not to mention you've had TWO WEEKS to come up with some examples since I asked you to [QUOTE] some

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your going to have to quote one


"bashing" that is
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Old 07-01-2015, 12:45 PM   #21
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And as if stalking in itself isn't bad enough, I've seen where it isn't enough to harass the victim, they feel compelled to share damaging details about the victim with others. Whether those details are true or false is beside the point. Because they are rejected, they feel that revenge may be the only way to compensate to make themselves feel better maybe? Any thoughts?
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Old 07-01-2015, 12:56 PM   #22
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And as if stalking in itself isn't bad enough, I've seen where it isn't enough to harass the victim, they feel compelled to share damaging details about the victim with others. Whether those details are true or false is beside the point. Because they are rejected, they feel that revenge may be the only way to compensate to make themselves feel better maybe? Any thoughts?

Wonder where I have heard that before, or maybe seen it, idk can't remember which one it is
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Old 07-01-2015, 05:15 PM   #23
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I don't think I have ever been stalked, but I do see it in my future lol.. I'm a connecter, people get close to me and i tend to let people into my life too easily.... I am the total girlfriend exsperiance and in this hobby I see that may cause problems...
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Old 07-01-2015, 05:30 PM   #24
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Glad you haven't had to go through that, no one should have to.
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Old 07-01-2015, 05:37 PM   #25
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I don't think I have ever been stalked, but I do see it in my future lol.. I'm a connecter, people get close to me and i tend to let people into my life too easily.... I am the total girlfriend exsperiance and in this hobby I see that may cause problems...
.....lol
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Old 07-01-2015, 06:47 PM   #26
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Never had a stalker
Did have a provider block the hotel door so I couldn't get out actually happened twice both on hr visits did manage to make my way out on time back to work
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Old 07-01-2015, 06:49 PM   #27
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Never had a stalker
Did have a provider block the hotel door so I couldn't get out actually happened twice both on our visits did manage to make my way out on time back to work
It was so worth it though, huh baby? Somehow we made quite the impact on one another..
But as far as stalking I don't think this qualifies lol
Unless there is more that idk of yet
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Old 07-01-2015, 06:52 PM   #28
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It was so worth it though, huh baby?
Lol yes
I almost missed conf call lastime
U taught me how to learn the back roads to make time up
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No was cute no problem
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Old 07-01-2015, 06:55 PM   #30
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No was cute no problem
Xoxoxo baby
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