Excercising Common Sense & Discretion in The Hobby.

[Windinhishair]

Originally Posted by Tan Khan

The parties who shared such information are as responsible as the ones divulging it. Only give out the information you are comfortable with everyone here knowing. So far, I haven't felt the need to share even my dog's name with anyone in the hobby.

I would have to agree wholeheartedly. Hiding RW info can get kinda tricky when you're being screened with few current references.
I would still say it's better to go with P411 then to divulge RW info to a "Newbie friendly provider".

[Michael_Loomis]

Some people tend to treat this as their social life and make this their social circle. And what comes with social circles? Gossiping, rumors, and sharing info. Big Mistake to blur those lines. Personally I have zero monger friends and zero hooker friends.

I got into this because it's fun to have anonymous no strings attached sex. Why would anyone wanna attach strings/friendships and still pay for it? There's plenty of non P4P sex out there with all the strings you could ask for. I book 30 minute sessions, greet, fuck, leave.

The only thing I can think of for wanting to be "friends", is they are trying to weasel out discounts or freebies.

[RALPHEY BOY]

I assume if I see any girl off of here that she will blab about me to someone.. Being single, no wife or kids, I really could care less. I am not here to make friends!! here to have fun and fuk!

[The Player]

Ralphy Boy is right. The providers are the biggest gossipers on here and tell their tricks everything about themselves, their BFF provider buddies and other tricks. They even tell stuff based upon conversations about other tricks from their buddies.

Of course this is why there is an Inforshare and Men's Lounge on this Board too right?

[Toyz]

Not that long ago I had a "collector" warn (threaten is a better word) that things I was saying in pillow talk were getting back to him through "someone you don't know"...

LOL...

The funny thing is that I ABSOLUTELY knew who she was seeing & all the potential connections.

So much of the pillow talk was fiction (plants & some poison pen type stuff) for me to see if it got passed...and of course it did. I really had a lot of fun with that!!

[PSW1995]

I have only ran into this issue once about a client talking about a provider. This dumb drama that I knew about. I couldn't believe my ears. I was polite in saying that I don't care care to discuss what happens with other working ladies. Cause if yall want me to know something you will tell me. But it stops right here. I do not repeat anything.

When I was in NV about 5 years ago I had a regular who saw me and another lady in another house. Well he would try and talk to me about her.

Look, I don't care about the relations you have with other women. But I'll be damned if he thought I was going to entertain any of it. Be it good or bad. I told him so on a few occasions. Even to say... "Hey if you're crying and whinning to me about her, what the fuck are you saying about me?" Then proceeded to tell him that if he can't resepct my wishes that I do not want to talk about someone who I don't know (and a fellow working lady), then he can leave and I don't need to see him anymore.

That cleared that up real quick. It was a three weeks later and I stopped seeing him altogether. Shit was getting weird lol.

I love my job, I love making money and I am all about me. I don't do gossip or bs.
Even if I know you and don't like you it stays here. It's called respect and class.