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Originally Posted by hogmanjones
I'm surprised the Mods haven't joined in yet. All this should be Coed or Sandbox. From the Sticky guidelines in the alert forum:
In case you overlook the definiton of what is an alert, here it is again: "Issues which could endanger the safety of a member or members of our community go here. Please reserve this space for legitimate alerts, and not general FYI material."
Please do not take Alerts off topic. Diluting the importance of an alert with off-topic comments will result in infractions. This is an important forum on the AR board. Please keep it informative, factual and concise.
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Don't worry, I'm sure they've seen it and are having a back alley discussion about who to pin some points on.
Now back to the topic of the "alert". Yep, plenty of time wasters on both sides. However, I only hear about the ladies who are considered time wasters if they NCNS you or you have a bad experience. Nice to see the ladies come out and put some of the " dicks" on notice.
I am sure at some point I've wasted a girls time, but to the best I recall I did pay for it in one way or another.
I've given money to the girls and never even had a visit on several occasions. Who gives a fuck. Apparently I don't. I've have several free visits by some girls and was never bothered by money. Who gives a fuck. Apparently they don't. I've set on a couch for two hours while a girl relived her history to me and still paid her. Time wasted? Absolutely not. She needed a shoulder that day a whole lot more than I needed to get laid.
If you make this hobby about money on every occasion then at some point you're going to be disappointed. If you make this hobby about getting pussy on every occasion then at some point you're going to be disappointed.
I have personal reasons why I hobby, and only a few really get me. While I value money like we all do, I value investing in people more. Sometimes you make a bad investment, sometimes you get a good return.
Now I know most won't agree with me and that's cool.....
And please keep posting about time wasters and gents keep posting about NCNS. That way we all get to see the bullshit the other side has to put up with.