What is your favorite part of being a provider ?

[albundy]

LOL!!!

HAHAHAHA!!! Too funny.

Gee!!! I wonder what is the number 1 thing that providers like about hooking? I wonder. LMFAO!!!








I am quite certain that there are other things they enjoy about "providing" as well.

BUT, they aren't going to dinner, travelling, and especially fucking us for free. As much as they may like other things, money OBVIOUSLY is the main thing they are after. But, I get that you can still actually enjoy your "job" too.

Let me be clear. I'm not criticizing. The very meaning of "hooker" means you are getting paid for it. Don't blame you girls for clocking some dollars.

[jl11]

Originally Posted by Boudin3112

I tell truth. No woman was sitting around the house thinking she desired to connect with more men and for that reason she became a prostitute. If you wanted to connect with more men join match.com. If you want to earn big dollars be a prostitute! There is no such thing as high class prostitutes, pay $500 an hour get the same thing as $200 an hour, sex! No class in fucking a man 15 minutes after you met him. No honor in calling a woman to get my rocks off either. I just live in truth. It is about sex for the men and cash for the women. Keep it real, darling. My response surely was not clueless, maybe classless, but not clueless. My response was spot on the facts. Is it classless to tell truth when no wants to hear it? When everyone is in deep denial, I don't think so. But appreciate your input and opinion.

Man you threw a blowdryer in the tub with that one, but it's the truth, except for the part about spending more or less and it's still sex. If I pay 500 for a hottie, it's not the same as paying for a nasty streetwalker with bad hygiene.

[albundy]

Originally Posted by jl11

Man you threw a blowdryer in the tub with that one, but it's the truth, except for the part about spending more or less and it's still sex. If I pay 500 for a hottie, it's not the same as paying for a nasty streetwalker with bad hygiene.

True, but you CAN get the same looks and service for half that if you do your research. I guarantee it.

For $500 , she better also be cooking a meal, cleaning my house, and detailing my car. I also expect fireworks to be shooting from her ass as I'm fucking her if her pussy is that much better than anyone else's.

Then MAYBE I can see $500 instead of $250.

[jl11]

Originally Posted by Lily Kat Wood

I prefer the multiple hour sessions where it's possible to reach double figures. But honestly, three times in an hour means you might just be a whole lot of fun. Too bad you don't value the rest of the experience that many of us ladies offer.

That's respectable though. That wouldn't make me feel as low to know that 5, 6, or 10 other dongs were ahead of me in line for the day.
So what is the rest of the experience that I'm missing out on?

[jl11]

Originally Posted by albundy

True, but you CAN get the same looks and service for half that if you do your research. I guarantee it.

For $500 , she better also be cooking a meal, cleaning my house, and detailing my car. I also expect fireworks to be shooting from her ass as I'm fucking her if her pussy is that much better than anyone else's.

Then MAYBE I can see $500 instead of $250.

Come on Al, now way. You mean to tell me that if you had 500 to spend to hobby, and the centerfold in Big Uns would do whatever you wanted for an hr for 500, that you'd rather pay the scuzzy toothless nasty woman on the corner? To each his own, but not every woman is a babe.

[albundy]

Originally Posted by jl11

Come on Al, no way. You mean to tell me that if you had 500 to spend to hobby, and the centerfold in Big Uns would do whatever you wanted for an hr for 500, that you'd rather pay the scuzzy toothless nasty woman on the corner? To each his own, but not every woman is a babe.

No, I am not saying that. I am saying that I would get two $250 an hour hookers instead. That way I can fuck twice instead of once for the same amount of cash.

Now, I guess if Nina Hartley or some other truly famous porn chick, that was still hot, was available...Maybe I would.

But knowing me, I'd still rather get 2 for the price of 1.

[Melissa Madyson]

I began in the hobby as a way to outsource my income. Over time it became a way to have the companionship I was lacking in my real life. The began my 8 year stint with my SO until it went sour. I then again came back to the hobby to find myself again and to make some extra cash to pay some bills since I was again single.

Now I just mostly offer massages, and when and if I decide to have relations with someone, I pick and choose with whom so I can at least get some mutual feelings out of the deal.

I know it is just a momentary satisfaction, but if I play my cards right, we will both enjoy each others company enough to want to do it again sometime...

I love sex but only with someone I connect with on a personal level.

I call it as I see it...
M.M.

[Lily Kat Wood]

Originally Posted by jl11

That's respectable though. That wouldn't make me feel as low to know that 5, 6, or 10 other dongs were ahead of me in line for the day.
So what is the rest of the experience that I'm missing out on?

I am a low volume provider who sees only one client per day and usually only three or four per week. Most of my clients see me regularly. Anywhere from once a month to once a week. We go out for drinks or dinner off of the clock and talk about life. Sometimes it's about his work or his wife or the topics can be lighter and more playful. I text them back and forth about whatever whether they are planning to see me or not. Phone calls don't just have to be about an appointment with me. All within reason, of course. Many guys just want a friendly woman who isn't their wife who will listen and be interested in what they're saying. I enjoy my job. Of course it's a way to pay ladies' bills and sometimes much, much more. But many of us try to be more than just a set of holes.

[monkeyseeyou]

Melissa, I agree with your sentiments. I'm not one of those jaded guys and although I fully understand the monetary involvement in the relationship between provider and hobbyist it by far can be much more than just that. I've had more than my share of "ho hum" and then again, I've had some pretty spectacular sessions. No reason to be a douche bag here.

Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

I began in the hobby as a way to outsource my income. Over time it became a way to have the companionship I was lacking in my real life. The began my 8 year stint with my SO until it went sour. I then again came back to the hobby to find myself again and to make some extra cash to pay some bills since I was again single.

Now I just mostly offer massages, and when and if I decide to have relations with someone, I pick and choose with whom so I can at least get some mutual feelings out of the deal.

I know it is just a momentary satisfaction, but if I play my cards right, we will both enjoy each others company enough to want to do it again sometime...

I love sex but only with someone I connect with on a personal level.

I call it as I see it...
M.M.

[turbo-dog]

Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

I began in the hobby as a way to outsource my income.

Outsource?

[Scratchynuts]

This is going to go over like a turd in a punch bowl but I am very curious about this. I'd be willing to put a few big head hundreds on it that over 80% of the ladies selling pussy were raped, molested or suffered some type of abuse as a child or early in life. There's no way that I can prove that and the ladies will probably never confess to it.... I will never believe that money is the only thing that allows these ladies to open the door to a complete stranger and do whatever for the next xx amount of time. I'm as horny of a guy as you will ever meet, but I wouldn't be able to open the door to strange probably not attractive women white, black, green,fat, skinny, stinky you get the picture. There's something else to the story in my opinion.

[Melissa Madyson]

Originally Posted by turbo-dog

Outsource?

Perhaps outsource was not a good word to use, lol I should have used "supplement"... I am sorry about my English...

M.M.

[myren1900]

I have met several providers who are genuinely happy to spend additional time with me, either after the session just talking or just meet for lunch or dinner without any donation. Of course these are women I have seen several times and we know each other quite well. I think it is possible to be good friends with providers and still keep the sexual relationship at a professional level. They are friends, not girl friends.

Many of the providers I have met are really wonderful women who just have chosen a different independent lifestyle. They still value pleasant company of guys who treat them with the same respect as other women.

[Melissa Madyson]

Originally Posted by Scratchynuts

This is going to go over like a turd in a punch bowl but I am very curious about this. I'd be willing to put a few big head hundreds on it that over 80% of the ladies selling pussy were raped, molested or suffered some type of abuse as a child or early in life. There's no way that I can prove that and the ladies will probably never confess to it.... I will never believe that money is the only thing that allows these ladies to open the door to a complete stranger and do whatever for the next xx amount of time. I'm as horny of a guy as you will ever meet, but I wouldn't be able to open the door to strange probably not attractive women white, black, green,fat, skinny, stinky you get the picture. There's something else to the story in my opinion.

It is purely for my own selfish reasons. Money is what rocks my world, but also I just like company from time to time.

M.M.

[albundy]

Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

...but also I just like company from time to time.

This. I can relate to.