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Altbier · 03-09-2011, 04:19 PM

I hadn't really thought in terms of including the hobbyists who NCNS, but I have no problem with that. I certainly hear comments from providers about how many times they got NCNS'd in recent weeks. IMNSHO NCNS is rude and inexcusable no matter who the offender is.

I don't think there will be any problem if one's name (handle) shows up only once. But such a forum would go a long way toward making it clear who the repeat offenders are.

Anyone called out for an offense should have the opportunity to dispute it, but somehow we need to keep the "he said/she said" from getting out of hand, as it frequently does in the coed discussions.

Bibi Joy · 03-09-2011, 05:49 PM

Wow ok so Mokoa

will there be a rule #69 for this one!!

HOLD ON ILL GET THE ROPE!!!

Ok so if we have a forum for all the hobbiest that NC/NS and all the providers that NC/NS. Then I think we can finally be able to place reviews on hobbiest!! ONLY FAIR!!

My thoughts on this welllllll theres a thousand reasons why this happens. One time my preist showed up right before my client>>>NO KIDDING LOL

I think only when there is NOT a follow up phone call, text, PM or email should such a name be placed on the list.

Take care,

Bibi

Mokoa · 03-09-2011, 06:20 PM

NC/NS incidents committed by the guys as well as the ladies can be reported in the Coed forum. There is nothing in the Forum Guidelines restricting that. Just start a new thread. I am sure that all of us would appreciate and benefit from the information. I would also suggest that the acronym NCNS be placed in the thread title and in the post so they can be easily identified and searched.

Mossman · 03-09-2011, 07:01 PM

I used to tell my people the only excused absence was a death in the family and it better be their own. I know that's harsh but even with your priest or your mother sitting in your livingroom, I can't see why you can't excuse yourself to the restroom and text or call the other party. Stuff happens and we all know that, but with everyone having a cell these days, I can think one would have to be either dead or in a coma not to be able to respond in a timely manner. Therefore, NCNS is extremely rude and inexcusable. Bring on the list!

Bibi Joy · 03-09-2011, 07:11 PM

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I think only when there is NOT a follow up phone call, text, PM or email should such a name be placed on the list.

Absolutely bring it on baby!!!

MsPrittiKitti · 03-09-2011, 08:08 PM

i only said that bc idk how many times ive heard/read guys say something along the lines of...we "need" their money. so i assme they (some guys) may feel disrespected if they were publicly put on tis list.

i think its a good idea with a lot of kinks to be worked out.

Malachaii · 03-09-2011, 08:45 PM

I don't have a problem with it. besides there is a WORLD of difference between a true no call no show versus if a provider or john calls and gives a heads up at least 30 minutes prior to the appointment to cancel/reschedule.

They can both be reported but the differentiation needs to be made as one is thoughtless and the other is usually just bad luck.

And yes I did say john instead of hobbiest... building model trains is a hobby, this is fucking

MsPrittiKitti · 03-09-2011, 09:00 PM

lol @ this is fucking!!
loves it!!

Likinikki · 03-09-2011, 10:15 PM

I think this would be very useful...as long as everyone is honest about the alert. And, if comments are allowed, by the parties involved...I think there should be a limit. Let's say...only allowing the accused to make 1 comment giving their SOTS...and that would be it. Otherwise, the thread would turn into drama.

MsPrittiKitti · 03-09-2011, 10:31 PM

thats a good point nikki!
like only the 2 parties involved..allowed 1 comment.
not other ppl chiming in their .02¢

Chuck12 · 03-09-2011, 10:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Bibi Joy

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I think only when there is NOT a follow up phone call, text, PM or email should such a name be placed on the list.

Absolutely bring it on baby!!!

I am confused? Are you responding to your own post?

Likinikki · 03-09-2011, 11:25 PM

Mokoa...you have a point! The problem is...there's no rule in place to limit the comments by the parties involved...so, it enables lots of drama!

Mokoa · 03-10-2011, 01:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Likinikki

Mokoa...you have a point! The problem is...there's no rule in place to limit the comments by the parties involved...so, it enables lots of drama!

Usually the way that sort of thing is handled is once both parties have had their say, the thread would then be closed to prevent such escalation.

Guest072013 · 03-10-2011, 04:11 AM

It would have been nice for a separate forum just for nc/ns ... but agree that there should be some guidelines to it. ( NO CALL NO SHOW) for either party. then there would a place for someone to go and see history of a person. good for the provider and her screening and good for the hobbyists in setting dates.

everyone have an awesome thursday... licks and kisses

Drtry2 · 03-10-2011, 06:03 AM

Going against the grain on this one!

This is a HOBBY for some a Business for others, there are many things that come before a Hobby, such as Family and Work. Both the Hobbyist and Provider need to remember this.

NC/NS are a pain in the ass and not fair to anyone it happens too. But to to place a list out there for Hobbyists and Providers alike to post will not help this community. Providers already talk in the PW about guys that NC/NS, ask for BB, or have other concerning issues, Just like the men have their area we discuss this in.

All the list will do is create more drama and cause hate and discontent.

Both providers and hobbyists need to realize it has and always will be part of the hobby.