I totally agree, as I can't imagine how hard it would be to hide an entire second life from someone close to you. The stress would probably be enough to send me away with the men in the little white coats!
I loved reading everyone's responses! I feel very fortunate that since I met my significant other here, he already knows what I do, so I never had to worry about having that awkward conversation with him. From a provider's standpoint, I personally don't find it hard to maintain a relationship as long as there is good communication and I make sure he always knows he's special.
I will say that I don't blame gentlemen who couldn't date an escort. I can imagine that it could be quite stressful at times.