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Lena Duvall · 03-01-2017, 10:30 PM

^^^ Dude, there will never be a time where I'm interested in risking my health for a mindless, obnoxious stranger. So NO! I'll not be messaging you.

Go elsewhere with that. There is a stickied thread in this very forum if that's your vibe.

gentlemantoo · 03-02-2017, 05:19 AM

Does humpty dance mean uncovered? I don't understand, his post did not mean unhealthy to me but I am still learning the language.

I speak truth, have I trashed anyone or anything? People talk on here with no thought sometimes, me too. If I trashed you or anyone or anything, please poin it out, I would like to pubically apologize. But if your comment is merely you being upset that I decide not to live in a fantasy world and it further upsets you that I speak my mind and it stirs inside you that maybe these women really are not in love with you, not even your real friends, well I do not apologize for that. That is your issue not mine.

I try to be as much of a gentleman as I can be. A true gentleman does not lie. A true gentleman also does not kiss and tell, hence no reviews from me. I saw the thread with ladies having most reviews and I think these are the women to avoid for me. Talk about fake passion!!! Try masterbating 5 times a day for a year and tell me how satisfying sexually it is after doing that. Or have sex 5 times a day. Gets old, gets boring, and becomes a chore even for a guy. So, I have to ask do you really think those women are enjoying the sex? Oh but she is enjoying it with you, right? Your special right? I have been with providers that have to lubricate their genitalia before getting started, she does not lubricate naturally anymore. That's how much of a chore it is for her.

I do and have paid for sex. A true gentleman does not do that either. So, I am selfish at times and disoney that guideline. So, I might write reviews but I doubt it. Reviews have little value except for bragging rights and I have no need to brag, I am very comfortable with who I am. It also appears you seem to think I need reviews for street credit. I have no need for any of that, credit with selfish people on a hooker board, has no interest for me. I will never meet most of you not ever be true friends why would I care?

Everyone have a good day, I will!

Gotyour6 · 03-02-2017, 07:12 AM

Well no shit.

We go based on looks.
You are no different than a car or a coffee table.

You sell your pussy and we buy it.

I doubt very many read your website.
We look at the pics and rates and decide if we want to fuck you.

If you don't want to be a whore, don't be a whore.

Lena Duvall · 03-02-2017, 08:13 AM

You clearly didn't read the subsequent posts. Which is fine. More importantly though, is the fact that sex workers don't sell their pussies. That notion is crude and erroneous.

I just checked and my pussy is still intact as it always is at the end of any session I've been on.

gentlemantoo · 03-02-2017, 08:45 AM

I agree to state it that way was crude. You sell sex. We are saying the same thing, Lena, you know what he meant although he stated it in a very cynical way. You sell sex. Nothing wrong there. I am just honest about it. You are not selling genuine time, an experience, your inner beauty, nor anything else that is spiritual and emotional. You sell sex, great it is all cleared up now, lol.

A woman does not know me in the 15 minutes we talk prior to engaging in the biblical sense. It is impossible to be emotionally attached for either person. Some guys lie to themselves and their brain says "oh wow! She orgasmed must meanw she is liking me!" That is all bullshit, but if you can sell that feeling to him, great! Good repeat business.

It was stated that at times you feel like just "three moist holes." That is what you sell or rent out. You are not emotionally attached to any of these men, because if you were you would stop charging them money for sex. I just call bullshit when I read it.

Guys are here to have sex, a good time. Gals are here to earn money. Nothing more nor less. See how clear it is?

Lena Duvall · 03-02-2017, 09:22 AM

What you need to stop doing is telling me how I do or do not feel and making assumptions about my emotional states!

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You are not emotionally attached to any of these men, because if you were you would stop charging them money for sex.

Escorts sell services and time. One thing that you've stated that I agree with is that sex workers exchange sexual labor for capital. True! But the notion that whoever desires compensation in exchange for their care is emotionally detached as a result and the only way to prove they really have any regard for whoever they are extending care to is to do it for free is complete and total garbage.

The existence of whole other professions dispute that fallacy. Nursing is just one that comes to mind. Do people place their loved ones in the hands of uncaring robotic humans who are unable to empathize and feel/express real emotions? Or is it that some nurses, despite the fact that they are paid for providing services, actually care about their patients? Though it was cheeky and very coded, what I was getting at in my first post was my confusion at the continued advocacy for sex workers to forgo their rates to prove how real their feelings are. And on an escort-client forum no less!

Fancylady · 03-02-2017, 09:25 AM

Your not only one put in hours marketing yourself to pick up business.Your just like rest of professionals trying to make living working in this business.

gentlemantoo · 03-02-2017, 10:23 AM

No need to be so dramatic. It is not one or the other. People here seem to read a small tidbit about emotions and they run wild with it. All people have feelings, escorts included. Some guys brag that the provider texted him the next day, must mean he is a stallion and well adored by her. Please, it was a text to a client nothing more nor less. Is it nice, sure. But not anything nicer than what the walmart greeter does.

Providers have emotions just not intimacy, adoration, nor love for their clients and I am discussing romantic or close feelings, close enough to him to desire him. You know exactly what I am talking about, but you play this word game of me saying providers are emotionless. Never said that and I treat all people with care but I do not have intimacy with all people. Why? Because like you I am human and some people I like, some I love, and some I just am pokite to, don't know them.

People may associate sex with intimacy, adoration, love, or passion. Here that is confusion, because it does not exist. A nurse can have feelings for a patient but it is not intimacy, it is human decency. If she showed up at my house to help change my bandages after surgery without pay, then we discuss intimacy. But only then, does she care for her sick child, you bet she does and without pay, true intimacy. She loves her child.

Now if a provider cared so much for her client where it was intimacy or true passion she would be with him, no charge. People are with each other because they desire each other. If not someone typically gets paid. A nurse does not randomly show up at a hospital to help without first getting hired. Because those she is helping are strangers and no intimacy exists. You understand me, no need to clarify any further.

Unless, you are stating that you care so much for horny men that you are being altruistic and doin g your part to ensure all men get some! Is that what you are doing? Mother Teresa would be proud! Giving sex to those in need, how sintly. See what I did there, took your comparison of nurses to providers and went all the way with it to Mother Tersa. Just teasing a little, but you get my point.

gentlemantoo · 03-02-2017, 10:33 AM

And no, you do not sell time. You sell sex. Time is how you measure how much sex is provided. I get more service if I pay more. Just like buying in bulk at Sam's. Escorts sell services, I agree. Sexual services to be specific. And that is good.

Does Sam's just care so much for people and their nutrition that they offer products in bulk? Should I be doing flips because Shell Oil is doing me this grand favor by making gasoline available to me. I tell you what, I am going to kiss the next Shell cashier thatis female because I appreciate so much what she is doing and I feel her closeness and intimacy.

For once be real people.

Road Lizard · 03-02-2017, 04:47 PM

Dude, you just don't get it at all.

I'm a salesman by trade and now I have my own company. There are clients that I've grown to think of as friends but I still charge them for my services. Some have dropped my service and we're still friends. I guess you can say there is an intimacy there as I get invited to supper, go to shows, even been given trips. It all started because I sold them something and then a friendship formed on its own. It happens in all walks of life, that includes providers.

I'm getting the idea that you can't get past how they support themselves and if that's true, you're looking down on them. That ain't a gentleman thing to do either.

James1588 · 03-02-2017, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

Does humpty dance mean uncovered? I don't understand, his post did not mean unhealthy to me but I am still learning the language.

I speak truth, have I trashed anyone or anything? People talk on here with no thought sometimes, me too. If I trashed you or anyone or anything, please poin it out, I would like to pubically apologize. But if your comment is merely you being upset that I decide not to live in a fantasy world and it further upsets you that I speak my mind and it stirs inside you that maybe these women really are not in love with you, not even your real friends, well I do not apologize for that. That is your issue not mine.

I try to be as much of a gentleman as I can be. A true gentleman does not lie. A true gentleman also does not kiss and tell, hence no reviews from me. I saw the thread with ladies having most reviews and I think these are the women to avoid for me. Talk about fake passion!!! Try masterbating 5 times a day for a year and tell me how satisfying sexually it is after doing that. Or have sex 5 times a day. Gets old, gets boring, and becomes a chore even for a guy. So, I have to ask do you really think those women are enjoying the sex? Oh but she is enjoying it with you, right? Your special right? I have been with providers that have to lubricate their genitalia before getting started, she does not lubricate naturally anymore. That's how much of a chore it is for her.

I do and have paid for sex. A true gentleman does not do that either. So, I am selfish at times and disoney that guideline. So, I might write reviews but I doubt it. Reviews have little value except for bragging rights and I have no need to brag, I am very comfortable with who I am. It also appears you seem to think I need reviews for street credit. I have no need for any of that, credit with selfish people on a hooker board, has no interest for me. I will never meet most of you not ever be true friends why would I care?

Everyone have a good day, I will!

I didn't mention your handle. But you seem to have had no trouble in recognizing yourself.

This may indicate something about yourself that you might profitably consider. Just a thought. Another thought: you probably don't know nearly as much about the lives of people that you encounter only on the internet as you might think you do.

Also, I'm 63. I have a wife who, fifteen years ago when such things still mattered, needed supplementary lubrication. In the world of professional companionship, I try to see women who are at least within a long stone's throw of my own age, and they also need lubricative assistance. That's a common thing with "women of a certain age," particularly those who have passed menopause. Just FYI.

Pho King · 03-02-2017, 06:47 PM

Gentlemantoo.....yes humpty dance means bareback with creampie. Most girls here will take a creampie if they like you or you give em more money. A lot have ads that say "no bbfs" but behind closed doors they are getting filled with cream.

Lena Duvall · 03-02-2017, 09:59 PM

Fancy, I'm with you on this one. No free sessions 2017!

Pho King · 03-03-2017, 06:49 AM

No free sessions? How about a creampie as a bonus?

JCM800 · 03-03-2017, 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

I'm absolutely distraught, keeling over, and writhing in agony at the thought that as a professional escort, I'm just a cute face, tits, ass, and three moist, warm holes. This is eccie.net (ECCIE meaning: Escort Client Community Information Exchange) and not eHarmony.com. It should be glaringly obvious to me that if I didn't know how to lay it on 'em, no guest would even consider coming to visit me. Still, I'm feeling so many ways.

I put hours and hours of thought into how I present myself. I've invested in professional photo sessions and paid advertising. I put aside weeks of my life to design a website with over 2,100 words, some of which even convey my non-sexy times related interests and passions. But admit it, if I didn't give good head, you wouldn't even give me the time of day!

Sometimes I think I've entered the twilight zone or something after reading some of the stuff posted on here, lol.

If you're using the ole Escort Client Community Information Exchange to advertise yourself as a hooker then I think that the 'cute face, tits, ass, and three moist, warm holes' would be the big selling point here. I mean it's your choice if you want to take the time to write a 2100 word essay or whatever but not sure anyone will actually read it though.

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Originally Posted by Gotyour6

We go based on looks.
You are no different than a car or a coffee table.

You sell your pussy and we buy it.

I doubt very many read your website.
We look at the pics and rates and decide if we want to fuck you.

If you don't want to be a whore, don't be a whore.

^^^ Exactly.