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Laura Lynn · 10-31-2018, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by filbone

I guess I've been lucky. Over the years I've seen kendall4u, laura lynn, redheaded julie, sexykim and have had only mood enhancers. No mood killers ever.

Awe thank you.

For me:
#1 mood killer - I hate when the phone goes off and my friend gets up to check it. Of course, I completey understand why he may need to check it, but it sure is a mood killer.

#2 mood killer - no kiss or hug when someone walks in. Such a disappointment and sometimes it just sets a weird vibe for our date.

#3 mood killer - talking about other ladies or just hobby in general sometimes can kill the mood. I know hobby adventures can be very entertaining, but I sure would prefer to entertain you in other ways and save the war stories for recovery.

ValenTX · 10-31-2018, 01:51 PM

Biggest for me would be upselling and smell.

Next is not being ready on time and asking me to wait in car for extended time, especially in summer.

I shower at home prior to leaving house. I am fresh and ready. Several times though have ran in to ladies who are not ready and ask me to hang out in car. Sitting in a car in summer heat for even just 10 minutes is going to trigger some sweat and make me feel not clean. I just hate going in to a session feeling like that.

I want to treat you as special as I can. Help me make that possible by being there and ready before time for my arrival.

PeterBota · 10-31-2018, 02:47 PM

Stank Twat

Alastair88 · 10-31-2018, 04:47 PM

* Really nasty teeth freak me out.
* Talking about her husband will make me get up and leave.
* Talking about other clients ruins the illusion that we just met at a train station and couldn’t take our eyes off each other and had to go to her place.
* Porn talk makes me giggle in my head and actually keeps me from climaxing because it (like my third point) breaks me out of the fantasy.
* White girl ghetto voice. I’m lucky enough to not have experienced this, but I imagine it would make me go completely limp!

BabyDallass · 10-31-2018, 08:06 PM

*Dirty room or house that smells! All the bad smells turn me all the way off
*Being drunk (whiskey dick sucks)
*Cocky guys who brag on their material shit
*Someone who dosnt know how to DATY

Guest122922 · 10-31-2018, 09:22 PM

Guys that don't want to spend 10 or 15 mins to create a connection on the front end ..... especially new clients.

And...of course, BO, Bad Breath, Over the top Arrogance, and counting the donation out and THROWING it down on the dresser before leaving instead of bringing it in an envelope or politely placing it under an item where visible.

I rarely encounter this. Enough screening and raising the bar of those you encounter will keep the yuckies away.

luv2luv · 10-31-2018, 09:27 PM

"Don't touch me there" … "Did you cum yet?" … "Oh, I don't do that" … "Whadya wanna do, baby?" Lots more. Can't believe nobody mentioned anything that is said that destroys the mood.

SchnellerFahrer · 10-31-2018, 09:31 PM

It doesn't happen often, but these are real downers for me:

* No (or limited) IOP - it's weird when your partner doesn't seem like she's enjoying things.
* Her Phone constantly going off (and she's answering it)
* Talking about how great OTHER guys are.
* No Kissing or No DATY allowed. Doesn't happen often, but I've met a few ladies who don't enjoy DATY (weird?) and won't kiss you. Big turn off.
* Being rushed to finish on time because of next appt.

* afterward - no followup/being ghosted to a "had a great time/love to see you again" text. Stinks to have a great time, agree to see each other again, and then get ghosted without even a courtesy "thx" or token emoji.

kushella · 10-31-2018, 09:51 PM

- Stinky breath
- Dirty hands
- Trying to finger me
- Biting/nibbling of any kind
- Aggressive attitudes / roughness
- "I'm paying you to do a job so do as I say" guys
- Not listening when I say not to do something the first time
- "you deserve better" preachers
- Calling me at 2am and getting pissy cause I'm in pajamas
- Outcalls that expect you to show up in 15 mins
- Client grabbing their phone
- Bragging about the amount of girls they've seen

I have a lot haha

HotMercury · 10-31-2018, 11:44 PM

You know what's funny, I went to see a provider a couple of months ago for a session after work, I had ask if I could freshen up and she gave me the most shittiest attitude. Told me I should've been freshened up already;I was like "really", I just came back from work, there was no way to freshen up prior to coming there without going home. If I had to go home, no way would I have met her either.

BLM69 · 10-31-2018, 11:56 PM

What about the min have ass mouth action and asking if you're ready yet

ValenTX · 11-01-2018, 09:21 AM

luv2luv makes good points. I hate when a lady keeps asking either ...
Are you going to cum? Yes, believe it or not that is what I am there to do.
Did you cum? You will know it when I cum. If you have to ask obvious answer is no so turn up the heat

I get it you want me out the door so you can move on to next job. But part of the whole gig is the illusion and these things destroy that illusion and the mood. If you want me to take twice as long to cum keep asking me these questions cause they turn me off enough to double time it takes. On the other hand I can rarely last long when a lady makes the experience feel real.

DFW_Ladies_Man · 11-01-2018, 11:06 AM

I hate being told no on something that I have played out in my head already. I dont experience what luv2luv said that much anymore, but it happens with new ladies a lot. I been sticking with more experienced providers as of late and im never asked "what do i want to do" Sex should be seamless and occur naturally. Im paying for a gfe experience, not to be a sex instructor. I think it was the OP that mentioned kissing. Thats a must for me. I have always felt that if you kiss a woman the right way, she will give you anything you want. What better way to compensate for an average size dick than by being an awesome kisser and eat pussy like a pro. So when im told by a provider she doesn't allow those things i know its going to be a shitty session.

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Originally Posted by luv2luv

"Don't touch me there" … "Did you cum yet?" … "Oh, I don't do that" … "Whadya wanna do, baby?" Lots more. Can't believe nobody mentioned anything that is said that destroys the mood.

grean · 11-01-2018, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by ValenTX

luv2luv makes good points. I hate when a lady keeps asking either ...
Are you going to cum? Yes, believe it or not that is what I am there to do.
Did you cum? You will know it when I cum. If you have to ask obvious answer is no so turn up the heat

On the flip side, when the ladies are really into it and are about to cum themselves, and they moan,"oh god. please don't cum yet!" That's a turn on!

Or If you are asking/begging for our cum...that's a turn on too!

Doesn't matter if it's fake as long as at the time we don't know....

pmdelites · 11-01-2018, 11:32 AM

i agree w/ the comments on the "Did you cum yet?"-like questions from a provider. how about "oooh, i felt that cum!!!" or "here, let me take you all the way."

another pet peeves of mine is ...
"why dont you make yourself comfortable?"

how about YOU just start taking off the guys clothes at the appropriate time and MAKE HIM COMFORTABLE?
pampering or taking care of the guy should be (ok, might be, could be, hope it were) part of what a provider does for a guy. in my hobby book, having a provider disrobe me is stimulating and enticing. telling me to take my clothes off is less stimulating and enticing.