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4funn · 02-13-2019, 01:33 PM

Theres not only a letter difference between FIT and FAT..

HUGE turn off when a girl doesnt give a damn about her physical appearance..

OldYeller · 02-13-2019, 06:43 PM

There's a lot of them I won't see. I don't hobby much and don't skimp, so I am very careful about who I see. After I focus on a girl, I read every review for the last two years. I search the Men's Lounge. Here's some of the things I'm looking for.

Any mention of quitting early or rushing or NCNS or dirtyness
Basically any mention of hassles of any type - money, theft, pimps...
Bad incall location
Wanting too much information or sharing any
Sketchy friends (already on my DNS list)
Abuse harder than 420 and Jack
Too late too often (except for SAGE ;-))

And in my case, another No-Go is No Greek ;-))))))))))))))

Slave Guinevere · 02-14-2019, 09:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by vanessaamour

I won't see hobbiest who have reviewed and or state they have seen providers who I know engage in extremely risky recreational activities.. I have had regular clients whom when we speak have discussed it ND only one saw one and reviewed her and the end result has been all of his future attempts there after were Shot down with the explanation I don't play about my health or life ... Other wise unless they have a multitude of issues on here I'm pretty open

+1

Desirae · 02-14-2019, 12:27 PM

That was a good call. 🙂hope you find a safe girl😘

Slave Guinevere · 02-19-2019, 07:41 AM

Yes...

There are people I will not see... Sometimes, we get a bad vibe from someone's online presence... Other times, I may get a text or am email that disturbs me...

This happened recently... A gentlemen politely inquired about seeing me and I respectfully declined because I DID NOT feel like we were a GOOD MATCH... I respect the fact that we are a luxury item and the last thing I want is for someone to see me and not have a GOOD TIME...

If I do not like you...via the written word....then it is unlikely that I will feel comfortable in an intimate setting...

Some men have trouble understanding that just because we are who we are that we HAVE TO SEE EVERYONE... First off, that is just a BAD BUSINESS PLAN... If you are able to identify the type of gentleman and the type of activities that brings you the most pleasure...than FOCUS on that MARKET... Forcing yourself to see people that do not fit with your personality can lead to disastrous results for both parties ..

For what it is worth...

Your affectionate slave,

Guinevere

LustyBustyGina38FF · 02-19-2019, 05:30 PM

And what SG said

I have and not from who they have seen or reviewed or how a ass they are on line

mostly from how they PM or talk to me phone or how they text me , TW will not get seen ..

JalapenoPopper · 02-20-2019, 09:42 PM

Won't see a hoe that i wouldn't date or fuck in the real world.... will only see spinner latinas or caucasians...

gc161 · 03-01-2019, 04:34 AM

Can I dato and fia? That's what I'm looking to do. If yes, then I consider availability, renown, and what she would ask for her time.

In the rare situation where I reach out based on looks alone; you either look like you're from a Noir film or Gothic.

I have to avoid NOAA by default because I'm AA. I'm also skeptical of ventures that show 0% ass in a showcase. I doubt their commitment to Sparkle Motion.

Big.Boy · 03-02-2019, 07:44 PM

Yes, and she will remain nameless. I was very close to this girl. She was my ATF for almost 3 years. I was a regular, going to see her weekly, or at least a couple of times a month as I travel occasionally due to my job. I helped her as moved from working at AMPs to going independent. She had no clue on how to be independent and I told her she needed to build a profile her and advertise (She didn't for the longest time, I see she now has a profile her but still doesn't advertise; I guess its easier for her to ask guys for reviews in order to get advertising). She had no clue on screening and for about a month she would be blowing up my phone texting me asking to research all y'all for screening. I also told her she needed to expand her menu and quit operating like at the amp (I see she has finally opened up, as I remember she got upset over a couple of early reviews that criticized her over this).

I was very close to this girl. I didn't mind helping her because she was sweet and I wanted to help her help make money for her family. But then she hurt me bad, on my birthday. I had her over my house the night before and I BBQd steak and lobster for us. Nice evening, and i compensated her well for her time, as I always did. The next morning she texted me and said "lets go to the riverwalk and see the christmas lights, we can have ice cream." OK, I said. What time do you want me to pick you up? She said she was going golfing and would be done at 5. I pick up some dinner for us and then call her at 6 pm saying I'm on my way. She says she's still golfing. 7pm "still golfing". 8pm "still golfing". I toss in the towel and call it a night very pissed. I see her a couple of days later and she says "sorry hun, you know I'm very crazy about golf". Seriously? I would expect that answer from a 5 year old at the playground at MCDonalds, not a 34 year old lady, and not the answer you would give to your most loyal, longest serving customer. Then she basically tells me lots of guys do favors for me, I don't need to do anything in return. Well I don't know what planet she came from, but I was taught by my parents to always be appreciative when someone does a favor for you, and return the favor to them by doing something nice for them. It's just good manners and good karma. I was really hurt by her attitude and her remarks. So when someone treats me like that, why should I go back to see them. Sex is as much mental as it is physical. If I don't have that mental connection with the person, their cannot be good sex. This incident just killed any chance of every seeing her again. Shame because I really enjoyed the times we had before.

On another note, I just came out from being banned for having a bit of a meltdown and behaving badly concerning this. Jack Daniels, stress from work and family issues, snd the internet are not a good combination. If you are ever in that kind of a situation, turn the computer off. I need to apologize to the lady in question for berating/humiliating her in public as well as the mods and all the readers here. My behavior was unacceptable and I sincerely apologize. I can assure you I will never stoop to that level ever again.

Some of you can probably decipher who I am discussing, and I know her white knights will come to the rescue concerning this, but the facts are the facts, and I have screenshots of all the texts that went on that evening and the period after. Also, it's my decision on what I think or feel regarding providers, and if you don't agree, tough s###, it's my life, my decision. If you have any issues, PM and do not air the dirty laundry out in public.

NavyManSA2004 · 03-02-2019, 10:38 PM

Guess I'll keep that answer to myself - to me this isn't an open forum question/answer....

JalapenoPopper · 03-03-2019, 02:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Big.Boy

Yes, and she will remain nameless. I was very close to this girl. She was my ATF for almost 3 years. I was a regular, going to see her weekly, or at least a couple of times a month as I travel occasionally due to my job. I helped her as moved from working at AMPs to going independent. She had no clue on how to be independent and I told her she needed to build a profile her and advertise (She didn't for the longest time, I see she now has a profile her but still doesn't advertise; I guess its easier for her to ask guys for reviews in order to get advertising). She had no clue on screening and for about a month she would be blowing up my phone texting me asking to research all y'all for screening. I also told her she needed to expand her menu and quit operating like at the amp (I see she has finally opened up, as I remember she got upset over a couple of early reviews that criticized her over this).

I was very close to this girl. I didn't mind helping her because she was sweet and I wanted to help her help make money for her family. But then she hurt me bad, on my birthday. I had her over my house the night before and I BBQd steak and lobster for us. Nice evening, and i compensated her well for her time, as I always did. The next morning she texted me and said "lets go to the riverwalk and see the christmas lights, we can have ice cream." OK, I said. What time do you want me to pick you up? She said she was going golfing and would be done at 5. I pick up some dinner for us and then call her at 6 pm saying I'm on my way. She says she's still golfing. 7pm "still golfing". 8pm "still golfing". I toss in the towel and call it a night very pissed. I see her a couple of days later and she says "sorry hun, you know I'm very crazy about golf". Seriously? I would expect that answer from a 5 year old at the playground at MCDonalds, not a 34 year old lady, and not the answer you would give to your most loyal, longest serving customer. Then she basically tells me lots of guys do favors for me, I don't need to do anything in return. Well I don't know what planet she came from, but I was taught by my parents to always be appreciative when someone does a favor for you, and return the favor to them by doing something nice for them. It's just good manners and good karma. I was really hurt by her attitude and her remarks. So when someone treats me like that, why should I go back to see them. Sex is as much mental as it is physical. If I don't have that mental connection with the person, their cannot be good sex. This incident just killed any chance of every seeing her again. Shame because I really enjoyed the times we had before.

lmao

HedonisticFool · 03-03-2019, 04:21 AM

^^^^ +1 ^^^^

dude...WTF!?!

you are an obsession...you’re my obsession

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...501&highlight=

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...430&highlight=

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...351&highlight=

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...732&highlight=

not nameless anymore. sounds like you’re still pretty broken up about feelings getting hurt. you mentioned to send pm’s and to not air out dirty laundry...you should follow your own advice. man up and move on...

Big.Boy · 03-03-2019, 08:33 AM

Fool, I have. I was just honestly answering the question at hand. no need to get shitty about it. I asked you to keep the dirty laundry out of the post as I attempted to be discreet as possible about it. If you have issues, PM me

Big.Boy · 03-03-2019, 08:35 AM

Also, my apologies to MtnLion1470 for calling him out. again, JD, stress, and the internet are a bad combo. I should have turned my computer off. You're a good man. I owe you a beer sometime

Big.Boy · 03-03-2019, 08:36 AM

And as for the provider, I have moved on. I wish her all the best. I know she is very popular and I'm happy for her success. Just sad the way shit happened. Moving on...