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topnotchmassage · 07-28-2011, 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by malwoody

I'm glad you have the nads to say what you said. The fact that personnal info was posted is very very uncool. Sooner or later if we are in the lifestyle long enough conflicts arise but outting someone because we don't like them or the way they conduct themselves goes against any and every accepted protocol. I cannot make myself understand why anyone would do such a thing.

I am STILL trying to figure out why outing people is being talked about in this thread...when I CLEARLY never threatened anything of the sort.

dirty dog · 07-28-2011, 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by malwoody

I'm glad you have the nads to say what you said. The fact that personnal info was posted is very very uncool. Sooner or later if we are in the lifestyle long enough conflicts arise but outting someone because we don't like them or the way they conduct themselves goes against any and every accepted protocol. I cannot make myself understand why anyone would do such a thing.

I am sure they were angry and I am sure they would think better of it in the long run, at least I hope so.

Oh and to the, oh lets call them KC1 ers, on a personal note I found your use of ebonics to be very insulting to me and my wife. I am going to hope that next time KC1 appears he is Irish, Polish, or any other ethnicity than African American. I am sure they will envoke a few fuck you's, kiss my ass, fuck off's etc. from the group but I would hope you keep it in mind in the future.

guest033012-2 · 07-28-2011, 09:58 PM

What would you out anybody for? You just provide legitimate massage, right?

topnotchmassage · 07-28-2011, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by dirty dog

Top, look I am not trying to bag on you, I am sure you probably received 100 pm about what a doushe bag someone is, and you changed your opinion, thats okay if thats what happened. I was just sending a message and used your thread to do it, dont take it personal.

well, TY for letting me know it is not personal.
I have no personal qualms with anyone here...but I heard some rather embarrassing rumors about myself today...and It is hard for me to confirm a defending post about someone who is, from my source, saying such things.
REALLY...I don't want this to be an argument.
I don't have any interest in drama.

topnotchmassage · 07-28-2011, 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by DickPeters

What would you out anybody for? You just provide legitimate massage, right?

Seriously...
IN CASE YOU DID NOT READ THE PREVIOUS POST BY ME...I HAVE NEVER THREATENED TO OUT ANYONE.
So, Why don't you ask the people posting about outing...not the person who wasn't.

MsElena · 07-28-2011, 10:07 PM

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Originally Posted by dirty dog

Elena you know I like you, and if you have a problem with someone deal with it, but I have to become concerned when private information is leaked as well as threats to out information to family. I did not say anyone was lying and as I have outlined I dont care what is done short of the outing of information. I am not taking anyone side other than my concern with outting information. Maybe its how I was raised, the life I lead I dont know, but to me that would be the ultimate breach.

DD....oh I know you like me and the feeling is mutual, trust me. I was just referring to the back channel comment. I wouldn't ask you to take sides nor would I expect you to.

When anyone's personal information is made public, its a big no no, even if I don't like the person.

malwoody · 07-28-2011, 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by topnotchmassage

I am STILL trying to figure out why outing people is being talked about in this thread...when I CLEARLY never threatened anything of the sort.

I was not referring to you.

MsElena · 07-28-2011, 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by topnotchmassage

I am STILL trying to figure out why outing people is being talked about in this thread...when I CLEARLY never threatened anything of the sort.

Because your thread was hijacked. It happens to all threads. Just ignore it now that you've said your peace.

dirty dog · 07-28-2011, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by malwoody

I was not referring to you.

Guys, Topnotch has not done anything wrong, she was just the unfortunate person who started a thread that I used to send a message to others. The last thing I want to is hurt her reputation in anyway. That was not my intent and I cannot stress loudly enough that she has not done anything wrong.

I do appologize to topnotch and the board for hijacking this thread, we will now return it to your local station.

topnotchmassage · 07-28-2011, 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by MsElena

Because your thread was hijacked. It happens to all threads. Just ignore it now that you've said your peace.

It got hijacked...Funny hehe

guest033012-2 · 07-28-2011, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by topnotchmassage

Seriously...
IN CASE YOU DID NOT READ THE PREVIOUS POST BY ME...I HAVE NEVER THREATENED TO OUT ANYONE.
So, Why don't you ask the people posting about outing...not the person who wasn't.

Honey, all I wondered is what you could possibly out somebody for. Getting a massage? You've made it clear that you aren't a provider. There's nothing to out.

topnotchmassage · 07-28-2011, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by dirty dog

Guys, Topnotch has not done anything wrong, she was just the unfortunate person who started a thread that I used to send a message to others. The last thing I want to is hurt her reputation in anyway. That was not my intent and I cannot stress loudly enough that she has not done anything wrong.

Thank you for that. I have no problem with you...I honestly am not the type to have probs with anyone as long as I can avoid it.
Have a good night

topnotchmassage · 07-28-2011, 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by DickPeters

Honey, all I wondered is what you could possibly out somebody for. Getting a massage? You've made it clear that you aren't a provider. There's nothing to out.

Technically, in the state where I live...giving a TOPLESS massage is not legal...There is actually a law about the amount of feet required between a topless female charging for a service and the gent...
I could get in trouble just as easily as the other girls on this site...if I was not careful enough to not get busted...but shhhhh That is a secret

texasjohn1965 · 07-29-2011, 11:30 AM

Being low drama means NOT replying to every post in a thread.

Hopefully you are smarter than a bag of hammers, and understand that is meant as a helpful observation......

guest061212-1 · 07-29-2011, 11:53 AM