DATY is stupid for guys to do

[Jeff3333]

Man some of you guys just sound like animals, lol. No offense. Just using a whore to blow your load.

Maybe I’m all fucked up because I love DATY and it is really important to me that my partner have an orgasm as well. I am the pleaser type though so maybe that’s just my thing and most clients are just looking for a hole to nut in. I’m new-ish here so I haven’t figured everything out yet.

[Massagejunkyie69]

so I'll chime in here because I get off on making woman "O". While there are some providers I won't DATY (AMP girls come to mind), I look at it as "they should enjoy their work".

The fact is, all of us wish we had jobs that we 100% loved and enjoyed and while to a provider this "is a job" there's no reason why she couldn't enjoy it.

I mean think about it, if you're an accountant and every time you got your books to balance, you had a massive orgasm, or a police officer and you got a criminal off the street, resulting in a massive "O", then that would make our jobs a whole lot more fun! (and funny to think about LOL).

So the provider could just lay there and let you nut, or she could also get a"O" out of it and enjoy herself too, making her day go by faster, feeling pretty good (or in some instances, just wanting a nap). So when she got home and her SO asks "how was your day" she could say, I had a great day, I had several "O's today!

that would be fun.

Regardless of what guys might think or have a level of disrespect, the fact is, providers are people, she'll have feelings, thoughts, hopes, dreams, good days, bad days, etc. and face it, she's performing a public service - just imagine what life would be like if NO ONE was a provider. All these guys on this thread talking about pumping and dumping, would have no female orific to use.

So might as well try to make the 1/2 hr or hr that we're spending with these woman as pleasureable as possible for them. In turn, she'll enjoy her work, she'll enjoy seeing a client who is friendly, nice, looks out for her interests and maybe even gets an orgasm or two out of, which in turn will mean the guy will have a much better experience.

[aim2pleez]

Originally Posted by Massagejunkyie69

so I'll chime in here because I get off on making woman "O". While there are some providers I won't DATY (AMP girls come to mind), I look at it as "they should enjoy their work".

The fact is, all of us wish we had jobs that we 100% loved and enjoyed and while to a provider this "is a job" there's no reason why she couldn't enjoy it.

I mean think about it, if you're an accountant and every time you got your books to balance, you had a massive orgasm, or a police officer and you got a criminal off the street, resulting in a massive "O", then that would make our jobs a whole lot more fun! (and funny to think about LOL).

So the provider could just lay there and let you nut, or she could also get a"O" out of it and enjoy herself too, making her day go by faster, feeling pretty good (or in some instances, just wanting a nap). So when she got home and her SO asks "how was your day" she could say, I had a great day, I had several "O's today!

that would be fun.

Regardless of what guys might think or have a level of disrespect, the fact is, providers are people, she'll have feelings, thoughts, hopes, dreams, good days, bad days, etc. and face it, she's performing a public service - just imagine what life would be like if NO ONE was a provider. All these guys on this thread talking about pumping and dumping, would have no female orific to use.

So might as well try to make the 1/2 hr or hr that we're spending with these woman as pleasureable as possible for them. In turn, she'll enjoy her work, she'll enjoy seeing a client who is friendly, nice, looks out for her interests and maybe even gets an orgasm or two out of, which in turn will mean the guy will have a much better experience.

I absolutely agree...

When you see that the provider enjoys herself, it makes meetings more enjoyable and fun...if you're interested in that sort of thing. When you at least consider their likes or dislikes, they will move heaven and earth to see you...even if it means moving another "John" out of the way that likes to "pump and dump".

In summary, everyone has thier likes and dislikes when it comes to the hobby. And everyone has a choice on how they want to treat and be treated. For me...if I just wanted to pump and dump...I can do it for free in the privacy of my home.

I am not by any means degrading anyone's decision how they handle thier business. It's just my perspective...nothing more nothing less.

[winn dixie]

Providers dont have any loyalties. Its who has the most money and first come first served! Has nothing to do with sex. They get that every day all day long.

[Sleepy363]

Originally Posted by Bbbjlover1

I posted this in the coed forum because I think many women agree with this.

Most guys don't actually like DATY any more than you women like sucking dick.

You meet a girl on tinder or wherever then hell yeah, do it for her, get her a great orgasm.

You do it for a girl you are paying for...she is only letting you do that because you are paying her money. No matter how good of a job you think you are doing or how much you think she likes it. She doesn't want you to do it unless you are giving her money.

I'm all for paying money to have her suck my dick and to fuck her. Those things are her services me. It just seems dumb to do something like DATY when she doesn't want it. If you have a fetish for it then I guess, but I think many guys doing reviews do it because they "think" she likes it, but she doesn't. She only is letting you do it for your sake because you are paying her.

Wrong.



Speak for yourself. I love eating pussy. I don't care whether you do or not.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

get some DATY with a stranger / or a good long time friend who enjoys watch her getting off ...

[Let's Go!]

I enjoy going down on a woman, her moans, her wiggle, her squirm, her hands on the back of my head. Really gets my motor going much more than getting a blow job.



I think I am weird, but I know what works for me.


Good kissing is also a big turn on for me, as well as DATO, but I do that for the reaction.


My latest ex, just could not stay still when I stuck my tongue up her ass. And the farther


I went the more she squirmed.


I like giving, and I think it increases my standing with the woman that I am doing it to.


Whether she's a wife, or a girlfriend, or a sex worker.


I can't prove it, and I could very well be wrong, but I think I am right.

[BLM69]

Who don't want to eat some young tasty prime beef? That's one of my favorite activities, it has to be extra clean or I'll let her know it stinks

[hd]

I've always been a DATY guy and since I'm a senior now, I know my tongue will always be up for the fun if other things aren't.

[roaringfork]

Busting a nut makes me so sleepy and hungry that the recovery process is a matter of days if not weeks (a trip to Dallas would typically involve my spending about as much on the spaghetti as I did on the sex). With the right lady I'd actually be fine with omitting my own orgasm (and the subsequent trip to Olive Garden), and just walking away after a nice meal of pussy and ass, washed down with the fine wine of girl-cum.

[Big Ed]

I instinctually love the smell and taste of pussy. It just does something for me at a viceral level. To me it's sort of proof someone's a hetero guy if they love pussy I mean it's like a woman who loves to suck dick. However I can see the vantage point of it being a feminine act on a male's part too. I suppose my mistake was marrying a woman it doesn't like to suck dick. A big red flag in hindsight. I'm sure if I was a woman I'd never want to marry a man unwilling to go down on me. Having said that I can see the perspective of not giving oral in a casual engagement.

It's definitely a sort of tender act or it least can be. I also love the timing of the tongue in the o during orgasm when that happens. I guess for me I'd want to engender just a little tiny bit of genuine affection from a woman however unrealistic this might be.

I think that a human will release some oxytocin with sensual touch if their brain is working normally. The specifics really very how this is interpreted by the person. In a way there's really no such thing as purely casual non intimate sex unless someone is dissociated somehow because human hormonal responses are pretty much set in stone based on instinct. Still for one person I guess receiving oral might be more like shaking someone's hand or petting a dog and for the other it might be some mystical magical romantic fairy tale. I guess another way of putting it you could take the funnest activity in the world and when it becomes your job and you have to get up and do it every day it's becomes a little less fun.

[benx972]

Something about letting go of my animalistic instincts and devouring a lady makes it satisfying. I’m not sure why the OP has such a solid opinion thinking he knows what all men are thinking but I enjoy my daty. As long as it’s clean, tastes, and smells good, I can be down on her for hours. If you don’t daty, then youd never enjoy threesomes. I hope you grow and learn someday that with they right girl, daty can be amazing. No offense to anyone who hates it but it’s definitely an acquired taste like beer.

[txexetoo]

Originally Posted by Bbbjlover1

I posted this in the coed forum because I think many women agree with this.

Most guys don't actually like DATY any more than you women like sucking dick.

You meet a girl on tinder or wherever then hell yeah, do it for her, get her a great orgasm.

You do it for a girl you are paying for...she is only letting you do that because you are paying her money. No matter how good of a job you think you are doing or how much you think she likes it. She doesn't want you to do it unless you are giving her money.

I'm all for paying money to have her suck my dick and to fuck her. Those things are her services me. It just seems dumb to do something like DATY when she doesn't want it. If you have a fetish for it then I guess, but I think many guys doing reviews do it because they "think" she likes it, but she doesn't. She only is letting you do it for your sake because you are paying her.

Stupid says what stupid says

[Guest122922]

Originally Posted by Jeff3333

Man some of you guys just sound like animals, lol. No offense. Just using a whore to blow your load.

Yeah .... it's always funny to see these newbies pretend they know what they're talking about.
Altho... Jeff - not sure about your last comment. You've kinda contradicted yourself. Just sayin.

Originally Posted by Massagejunkyie69

So the provider could just lay there and let you nut, or she could also get a"O" out of it and enjoy herself too, making her day ....

Two thots:
* Talent's can be well appreciated. As in, giving a guy a "nut" sometimes takes a certain amount of talent. Same goes for DATY and achieving the big "O".

* Everyone can always practice until they've mastered the task...

Originally Posted by Jeff3333

Regardless of what guys might think or have a level of disrespect, the fact is, providers are people, she'll have feelings, thoughts, hopes, dreams....
just imagine what life would be like if NO ONE was a provider.

Originally Posted by aim2pleez

When you see that the provider enjoys herself, it makes meetings more enjoyable and fun..

And YOU my man .... know how to please! Don't I know it!

Originally Posted by aim2pleez

I am not by any means degrading anyone's decision how they handle their business.

You're much respectively nicer than me ... on this point ... LOL!

Cheers to all!
TT

[Prolongus]

And here I thought the title of this thread was going to be about how unhealthy DATY is.