Pics Don't Match Actual

[Johnsson]

I like snapchat as a verification, I e had good luck with it...

[Zenovia]

Originally Posted by Baconman

Asking for a friend! Is it bad etiquette if I make a date with someone who posts pics but when you show up looks completely different. Is it ok to say thanks but no thanks?

Due to you wanting what you seen in a photo and not getting what you thought you were getting especially if that person didn’t come close to looking like the pics they post. Indeed it is okay to say thanks, but no thanks! It’s not only fucked up, it is sad to see so much of it going on these days
I’d be mad if I went to Smitty’s for a bison burger and they served me something that looks like a dollar burger. Not cool at all!!!

[CH Luke]

It’s the gentleman’s exclusive option at that point.

I’ve only had it done twice in my recollection. The first time, the woman was gorgeous in the pics and dog ugly once the door opened. As a result, I gave her the trip to Greece and only the trip to Greece, lol.

The second time, she was butt ugly as well and I wrote the review of an attempted shakedown. But for the shakedown attempt, she was headed to Greece as well. haha

So that’s my policy…she’s going to need to be the girl in the pics. Otherwise, a) I leave, or b) there’s some extra incentive to stay.

I never hear of a reverse catfish where the girl isn’t the girl in the pics and is CUTER in reality, so it’s really a situation of detrimental reliance, which puts the decision fairly in the customer’s hands. Historically, I’ve never seen a real argument to the contrary.

Another argument I have heard is one for renegotiation, which would also be fair.