For the ladies..How do you decide who to see?

[Guest011914-1]

well that is what makes this a great hobby...I have respect for the gentleman and I was honest with him and since I am very big on honesty and doing the right thing I respectfully explained my reasons and think highly of him and he knows that...but I also know what he likes and I didn't feel we were a good fit...I know he is safe and think he deserves the best and I didn't think I could give him my all to ensure his desires...

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by pyramider

You would thinck with my impressive resume may pm box would be overflowing.

Try this.... I had a prospective provider ask me how I was in the bedroom? I said I sucked! She said screening won't be necessary when would you like to meet?! LOL

Also try putting a large potato in your pants before taking a picture your about to email! And don’t do like I did the first time…. Put it in the front not the back! LOL

[Guest011914-1]

all great factors and just means multiple pops...wicked grin

Originally Posted by pyramider

I should be a lady's first choice.

I am polite.

I am punctual.

I am clean, or I quickly shower.

I am small.

I finish within nanoseconds.

An hour appointment over in less than five minutes . . .

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Shayla

The only time I say no is when they're trying to haggle or they're acting like a douche bag.
Otherwise I'll give everyone a chance.

Haggle? I never haggle.... I just say thank you! LOL

[DallasRain]

pyramider............

[classyteri]

For me it is mutual respect...safety 1st tho...screen, screen...that goes for both us Ladies and Gentlemen...I also do not go for the cock pics or vulgar talk..ect...I agree with Dallas...if you have done your research and he has done his research then both parties no what to expect....but each person is different in what he likes...I always do my best to cater to each Gentleman's specific wants and desires...of course, we are not always going to be happy...but, do the best you can and go from there...in the end hopefully you have made a new friend...

[john353]

Several years ago back on ASPD, there a mature provider that posted in the Houston forums rather frequently. I remember watching for her posts and I read everything I could find of hers, because I thought she was funny and incredibly witty. Well...I found myself attracted to her and sent her a friendly PM and soon after that, I made the decision that I would like to spend some time with her.

She very politely informed me that she didn't think that was a good idea.

Of course I was curious as to why and she simply said that she had been following my posts as well, and it was rather obvious to her that I was attracted to and sought out the younger ladies, and she didn't think that we would be a compatible match. After thinking about it...I'm sure she was probably right.

I accepted her decision and let her know that she had my deepest respect.

Refusing to see a client doesn't always have to be a bad thing. Compatibility is important, but when seeing a lady or a client for the first time, it's kind of hard to figure if an issue is going to develop. Thats why I always try to keep an open mind and never have any expectations when going to see a new lady. Just let things flow and see where it goes from there. You never know...

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Also try putting a large potato in your pants before taking a picture your about to email! And don’t do like I did the first time…. Put it in the front not the back! LOL

I am way ahead of you. A McDonald's french fry is a dramatic improvement.

[Eccie Addict]

Originally Posted by john353

Several years ago back on ASPD, there a mature provider that posted in the Houston forums rather frequently. I remember watching for her posts and I read everything I could find of hers, because I thought she was funny and incredibly witty. Well...I found myself attracted to her and sent her a friendly PM and soon after that, I made the decision that I would like to spend some time with her.

She very politely informed me that she didn't think that was a good idea.

Of course I was curious as to why and she simply said that she had been following my posts as well, and it was rather obvious to her that I was attracted to and sought out the younger ladies, and she didn't think that we would be a compatible match. After thinking about it...I'm sure she was probably right.

I accepted her decision and let her know that she had my deepest respect.

Refusing to see a client doesn't always have to be a bad thing. Compatibility is important, but when seeing a lady or a client for the first time, it's kind of hard to figure if an issue is going to develop. Thats why I always try to keep an open mind and never have any expectations when going to see a new lady. Just let things flow and see where it goes from there. You never know...

Though I haven't been refused yet that I know of lol, I couldn't have said it better.

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by john353

Several years ago back on ASPD, there a mature provider that posted in the Houston forums rather frequently. I remember watching for her posts and I read everything I could find of hers, because I thought she was funny and incredibly witty. Well...I found myself attracted to her and sent her a friendly PM and soon after that, I made the decision that I would like to spend some time with her.

She very politely informed me that she didn't think that was a good idea.

Of course I was curious as to why and she simply said that she had been following my posts as well, and it was rather obvious to her that I was attracted to and sought out the younger ladies, and she didn't think that we would be a compatible match. After thinking about it...I'm sure she was probably right.

I accepted her decision and let her know that she had my deepest respect.

Refusing to see a client doesn't always have to be a bad thing.

Recently something similar happened with me. Out of curiosity; would you have felt 'put down' if she had offered to meet for coffee or dinner off the clock?

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by classyteri

For me it is mutual respect...safety 1st tho...screen, screen...that goes for both us Ladies and Gentlemen...I also do not go for the cock pics or vulgar talk..ect...I agree with Dallas...if you have done your research and he has done his research then both parties no what to expect....but each person is different in what he likes...I always do my best to cater to each Gentleman's specific wants and desires...of course, we are not always going to be happy...but, do the best you can and go from there...in the end hopefully you have made a new friend...

Classy answer from a classy lady


There definitely for me has to be SOME chemistry going between myself and the client as well. If there is something amiss or we're just not clicking ( personality-wise, even if people think well, this isn't about personality, it actually has a great deal to do with whether or not I'm going to connect with a client even after all else is said and done, the references, etc, the hygiene, the respect).

[Chloe]

Contact me respectfully after reading my website and knowing what I require to meet up it is a quick easy screen and to my door.

Contact me haggling, talk rude towards me, do not comply with me screening, too many negative things said by your references, or a very misogynistic posting on any boards I respectfully decline.

Easy way to haggle without haggling: Ask if she is running any specials and if not when does she run them.

[john353]

Originally Posted by Ansley

Recently something similar happened with me. Out of curiosity; would you have felt 'put down' if she had offered to meet for coffee or dinner off the clock?

Absolutely not. I would've been honored and it would have been a chance for the two of us to meet and get a feel for each other. Who's to say...she may have enjoyed my company and felt that maybe I was worth taking a chance on.

On the flip side...I may have had a wonderful time just being in her company, but in the end, I may have found out that I wasn't sexually attracted to her after all...and she was right all along.

Regardless of the outcome. I got to have a pleasurable cup of coffee and/or dinner with a beautiful woman. I win anyway!

[Ansley]

@ John 353 Thanks for taking the time to answer my question.

[john353]

Ansley, you are very welcome. It was my pleasure.