How much Hobbying is too much?

[midnite312004]

Originally Posted by pipefitter73

Personally, for me it was when I lost the thrill of meeting new ladies. I'm by no means anything special, but when I found myself in the same room as a Super Model and wasn't giddy, I knew I had been hobbying too much. I've decided to cut back to once or twice a month, whereas it used to be 2-3 times a week.

+1. Thats funny.

[midnite312004]

Originally Posted by big boi terry

I would say that it's an individual thing. Now as for pipefitters response, I think your problem is not so much with to much hobbying, rather it's maturing in the hobby. When i first started this level of the hobby, I was like a child in a candy store, I wanted everything that appealed to me. Now, i'm more selective, most providers showcases are sexy and show them in their best possible light, but there has to be something else about them that captures me now, I can never put a finger on what that something is, but I know it when I see it. But I agree with statements made by others on this topic, I only spend money that does not take away from my RL, when you start to sacrifice things in your RL for the hobby, you've probably gone a little to far.

Yeah that sounds like me. Can't help it, I love women and the female physique.

@Outdoorsman- I may just take that advice.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Old-T

If you stop in long enough to say you are not joining the fray, have you joined the fray?

I think I resemble that remark! It’s NEVER enough! I take my hobbying like my marriages.... you know, till death do us part!

I like what George Burns use to say when they asked him if he thought being with two 20 something girls could be deadly at his age! His answer, "If they die, they die!" LOL

[alluringava]

I knowall about table 11, I know all about table 11...chanting to SL.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by alluringava

I knowall about table 11, I know all about table 11...chanting to SL.

White table cloth please! LOL

[Sonja]

If you are running up your credit cards on cash withdrawls, you are hobbying too much. If you are putting your Russian or Eastern Block fiance through college, you are hobbying too much. If you dont give a shit if your wife finds out, you are hobbying too much. If anything you are doing resembles cocaine addiction, you are hobbying too much. If you are suddenly taking incredible risks, like picking up girls in tunnels or on side streets, you are hobbying too much. You might be an addict and need to rethink risk vs ultimate outcome.
The little head really has a big problem being ignored, but the big head MUST overcome to stay safe and secure in life.

[the.namssa]

Originally Posted by big boi terry

.......but there has to be something else about them that captures me now, I can never put a finger on what that something is, but I know it when I see it. But I agree with statements made by others on this topic, I only spend money that does not take away from my RL, when you start to sacrifice things in your RL for the hobby, you've probably gone a little to far.

The huddled masses of SP's I find lacking and not terribly interesting in general. Most of the ladies I see now need to have that "intangible quality" that draws me in to see them. Something that you can't put into words, but when you find it, you absolutely know it and it is very attractive. I hobby only with extra funds only. My RL stuff (bills, food, family, work) comes before any play time, not difficult to arrange if you do your planning.

[wildwooly1]

If you have more than 1500 posts on an adult board, more reviews than you had birthdays, you own stock in trojan,youve used more rubber than nascar,more lube than nascar,and you get discounts at motel six ..you might be obsessed with the hobby.
lol...

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by wildwooly1

If you have more than 1500 posts on an adult board, more reviews than you had birthdays, you own stock in trojan,youve used more rubber than nascar,more lube than nascar,and you get discounts at motel six ..you might be obsessed with the hobby.
lol...

Bwahahahahahah!! so true. 7,000 posts is just ridiculous

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Bwahahahahahah!! so true. 7,000 posts is just ridiculous

But what happens if one day we reach that number of posts. Are we then 'providing' too much LOL.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by alluringava

But what happens if one day we reach that number of posts. Are we then 'providing' too much LOL.

Been there, done that -- not a good thing. LOL!

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Been there, done that -- not a good thing. LOL!

We should start a

How to know if you've been providing TOO MUCH!


1. You end the day wandering around with a walker or wheelchair.
2. You facial structure has changed due to all those damn BJs.
3. You begin to think your real name is really your working name LOL

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by alluringava

We should start a

How to know if you've been providing TOO MUCH!


1. You end the day wandering around with a walker or wheelchair.
2. You facial structure has changed due to all those damn BJs.
3. You begin to think your real name is really your working name LOL

Nah actually the excessive posts means you've been providing too little.
If you're spending all that time posting, you really can't be sucking enough dick . The day I need a walker after a day of work is the day I quit/same as the real name .

We need a thread "You know you've been in the business too long when..."

You feel naked without your phone.
You see the words cim on a license plate and automatically think of cum in mouth.
You know what every hotel in your city looks like on the inside.

LOL.

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Nah actually the excessive posts means you've been providing too little.
If you're spending all that time posting, you really can't be sucking enough dick . The day I need a walker after a day of work is the day I quit/same as the real name .

We need a thread "You know you've been in the business too long when..."

You feel naked without your phone.
You see the words cim on a license plate and automatically think of cum in mouth.
You know what every hotel in your city looks like on the inside.

LOL.

LOLOL!! Sadly I've actually done that...looking at abbreviations like CIM or mistaking a sign or whatever for other words :P

And yes I feel so naked without my phone. :P

[midnite312004]

Originally Posted by Sonja

If you are running up your credit cards on cash withdrawls, you are hobbying too much. If you are putting your Russian or Eastern Block fiance through college, you are hobbying too much. If you dont give a shit if your wife finds out, you are hobbying too much. If anything you are doing resembles cocaine addiction, you are hobbying too much. If you are suddenly taking incredible risks, like picking up girls in tunnels or on side streets, you are hobbying too much. You might be an addict and need to rethink risk vs ultimate outcome.
The little head really has a big problem being ignored, but the big head MUST overcome to stay safe and secure in life.

Funny. Not that far gone just yet.