Gentleman PLEASE...

[guest042712-2]

I will try to work with anyone....but being forceful to the point of telling me to give you information of where I will be so you can come over and i don't know who you are??? not going to happen!.. some guys just don;t understand.

but there again it is always the "he is new at this" well he can do some research just like all the ladies about how to be a newbie

be safe girl!

[Diana Devereaux]

I screen as well, but, I don't want anyones's job info etc...that's putting that persons job in your hands. What happens to that info? What if someone gets into your computer, or phone? I dont want to know EXACTLY where u work or too much personal info, it's better for all parties involved to know as little as possible. But, most definetly, SCREEN.

[bigarg]

i saw cherry the other day .best time spent. cant wait to see her again.

[Guest091010-2]

If a guy has two provider references from girls I know of and those girls say he's good then I don't care if the guy calls himself papa smurf. In lieu of references from GIRLS I ACTUALLY KNOW OF AND TRUST ON SOME LEVEL then I need his REAL name and I'll need to see his driver's license and some other form of id that matches the info on it. Provider references are great but if "Papa Smurf" decides tonight is the night he wants to go buck wild and beat me half to death then I'm gonna have a hard time finding Papa Smurf and stopping him from going smurfing on other girls. lol.

This is meant to be a pretty intimate encounter between two people...if you can't even trust me with your real name then we probably aren't a good fit anyway since I'm trusting you with my actual life. If you are THAT serious about your privacy then just get a p411 account. P411 doesn't even save your info after they check it!

[Likinikki]

Cherry, I get the same thing many times...and when I politely ask for more information...I get an attitude from the hobbyist for asking for more info...or they simply don't give me the courtesy of returning a reply. I post my screening requirements in all my ads, so I don't understand they get upset.

Originally Posted by CeCe Sinclaire
1.) You are safe to see (no violent tendencies with other providers)
2.) You don't have a habit of NC/NS.

I require a bit more than this. How do you verify even this type of info...unless you know who the hobbyist "really" is? I require a detailed description and ask the references to specifically verify the information. Anyone can say he's hobbyist XYZ...we all know there are gents who "steal" handles even on P411.

I had this happen to me when I first came into the hobby...being very naive and green. It was a very spooky feeling realizing that I didn't know who was actually coming to my incall. I was lucky that the hobbyist didn't hurt me...he was just very anxious to get an appointment and used his office manager's info. This situation prompted me to get a whole lot more info before meeting someone.