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Originally Posted by Singleguy8467
I booked an appointment the other night with a provider that whom shall remain nameless. When I arrived at the location at the scheduled time, no one answered the phone. After about 30 mins I gave up and went home. After I got home the provider texted me stating she had fallen alseep. Now, I know I was feeling frisky kind of late at night and a provider needs her sleep, but come on! Am I wrong for asking for a make up rate if I want to book this provider again? Or is it even worth my effort?
PS - my plan B could not book an appointment so it was a lonely night
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1. she texted you about her falling asleep. + points to her for doing so, at least in my book.
2. if you asked her for a make-up rate, then some might consider you wrong. but you do what you think is best.
if she offered something [discount, addtl time, oatmeal chocolate chip cookes :^}, then great. if not, great. you decide whether or not you want to see her.
recently, i attempted to make an appt w/ a woman fairly new to this sub-culture.
first attempt - she couldnt cos her kid got sick. she emailed me the day before, so + points.
second attempt - she was so tired from watching kid the night before she couldnt make the date. she emailed me that morning prior to the afternoon appt. so + points. but 0 or 2 is not looking good.
third attempt - everything lined up and i met her at her nice incall. after all that, it was average, not special. not sure if i will visit her again.
she made attempts to meet, kept me aware of changes, and finally came thru.
like MAX said, roll w/ it, cos things are not always what they seem in this sub-culture. we all have different likes, dislikes, tolerances, limits, kinks [yeah, that means you PPE], and depths of our pocketbooks. so, learn that upfront, then go enjoy yourself, remembering to not get bent out of shape when something doesnt go the way you WANTED it to.
