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big35hurt · 03-12-2013, 01:56 PM

As a guy who still gets nervous meeting a lovely lady, knowing who else is there is greatly appreciated as it would determine if I truly feel comfortable or not going through with session. When I schedule a session my expectation is one on one and knowone else their. Not saying it wouldn't be adventurous but would like to know.

FYI Hollywood. I will be your white knight anytime. And we haven't met yet. Ha

B35H

Hollywood101 · 03-12-2013, 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by foxyred73

If your boyfriend , or your persanally asst or another lady you working with for the day , or children or cant find a babysiter and you have to taken to work to incall for the day before your appt time .

Should our yall guys have the right to ask us question before there appt time

This is just my opinion from one provider to another: If there is going to be ANYBODY in that incall other than the provider and gent at the scheduled time then I feel they should be properly informed of that before the date. Now if you had friends, family or co-workers there BEFORE he shows up and he see's them leave, then no, it's none of his business as long as they are well good and gone by the time he arrives at the door for his date with you. He is paying for his time ALONE with you and shouldn't have to deal with other people being present in the incall at the same time as him.

I know I'd be super upset if I did an outcall, which I don't do outcalls, but if I did and I showed up then he had a kid or kids, buddies, etc. in the place, I wouldn't stay. If I had been informed that there would be other people there before hand then it leaves it up to me to decide if I'm comfortable with it. I think the men deserve the same respect to decide if they are ok with something like that. People like things to be discrete and I'm sorry but shutting a door doesn't block out the fact that there are people on the other side and they can hear things and vice versa.

dbeartx · 03-12-2013, 02:27 PM

Really unless the guy is being a dick about it, what does it really hurt if he is like "who's that?" There's actually really no harm in that at all, and is just kind of a natural human response... I would probably say something like "hey where are they going, the party is just about to get started"

I have to agree with Naughty_Jezabelle... If that is an issue for you, rethink your scheduling, don't have kids, siblings, parents, friends, etc there...

Again, it's your place of business. You screen your guys before they come see you so that you feel safe & secure, we expect the same sense of security and people flocking out the doors doesn't really provide that.

Hollywood101 · 03-12-2013, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Naughty_Jezabelle

children should NEVER be near this.... EVER

As a mother, I 100% whole heartedly agree with you. I know every bodies situation is different and everyone raises their children differently but it'd be a cold day in hell before I EVER subjected my child to any of the things that go on in this community of ours. I would quit on the spot if my child even suspected this lifestyle about me. Their innocence (innocence meaning: mommy is all great and powerful, the world is a safe place, Santa Clause, the tooth fairy, etc) is one of the few things left that we as parents can try and protect until they are older. I would never want to strip my child of that by having her smack in the middle of a date. I am by no means a saint but I still decide what I subject my child to and parading different men in front of her weekly is not the way I choose to raise my pride and joy. Plus, talk about super awkward for the gent, sheesh!

Hollywood101 · 03-12-2013, 02:34 PM

FYI Hollywood. I will be your white knight anytime. And we haven't met yet. Ha

B35H[/QUOTE]

Lol, why thank ya sir!

Guest042015 · 03-12-2013, 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Hollywood101

As a mother, I 100% whole heartedly agree with you. I know every bodies situation is different and everyone raises their children differently but it'd be a cold day in hell before I EVER subjected my child to any of the things that go on in this community of ours. I would quit on the spot if my child even suspected this lifestyle about me. Their innocence (innocence meaning: mommy is all great and powerful, the world is a safe place, Santa Clause, the tooth fairy, etc) is one of the few things left that we as parents can try and protect until they are older. I would never want to strip my child of that by having her smack in the middle of a date. I am by no means a saint but I still decide what I subject my child to and parading different men in front of her weekly is not the way I choose to raise my pride and joy. Plus, talk about super awkward for the gent, sheesh!

+1

I wholeheartedly agree with you Hollywood!

I do think guys have a right to know about the location a tiny bit before and during the date. Also if there are security issues that could effect them they need to know before hand, but the crazy stalkerish behavior of going to an incall more than 30 mins before the appointment to check the place out is just not cool- if we are well reviewed then there isint quite such an issue with us being a threat to you.

Foxy I applaud you for trying, but sometimes your posts are so hard to understand, I feel like your words get lost in translation and your actual point never makes it across.... I do not mean any of that as negative, just frustrated as far as not being able to relate.

Doglegg · 03-12-2013, 02:53 PM

On a similar note, I once went to visit a young lady and was early, so I drove around the neighborhood on a sanity check as it were.

I did get weirded out by a next door neighbor sitting in the front yard intently watching his yap-yap take a dump. I'm not sure if it was the guy or the dog's eyeballs seemingly pop out as it strained to get ten pounds out of its five pound body, but I continued on to a nearby parking lot and called the sweet thing.

She was able to allay my unease and I returned for my appointment.

Yes, we men can be a skittish bunch, sometimes well deserved considering the shit we find ourselves getting into or out of.

Doglegg · 03-12-2013, 02:55 PM

Sweet thing being the concerned provider, to my knowledge the dog did not have a phone.

foxyred73 · 03-12-2013, 03:33 PM

Dd mcee thank you and a lot ...I am very proud to when come to my spelling and a lot the guy here know about and some lady dont know here that I have a learning dis when comes to writing thing down.

foxyred73 · 03-12-2013, 04:51 PM

Ms hollywood101 you can be my knight night any time

Mister · 03-12-2013, 06:01 PM

Heather, do you normally speak in the dialect used in this post, or more often like your more eloquent ads?

big35hurt · 03-12-2013, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Hollywood101

FYI Hollywood. I will be your white knight anytime. And we haven't met yet. Ha

B35H

Lol, why thank ya sir!

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You are very welcome my lady. Ok I would be a Brown Knight cause I am Mexican.

foxyred73 · 03-12-2013, 06:26 PM

Mister, that part of my learning dis when comes to writing things down or typing things out. I have dealing with for years.

Hollywood101 · 03-12-2013, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Doglegg

Sweet thing being the concerned provider, to my knowledge the dog did not have a phone.

Bahahaaa!

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Originally Posted by foxyred73

Ms hollywood101 you can be my knight night any time

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Originally Posted by big35hurt

Lol, why thank ya sir!

You are very welcome my lady. Ok I would be a Brown Knight cause I am Mexican.

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That made me LOL!

big35hurt · 03-12-2013, 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Hollywood101

Bahahaaa!

You are very welcome my lady. Ok I would be a Brown Knight cause I am Mexican.

That made me LOL![/QUOTE]

YES!! I have to make you laugh cause if I ever get chance to meet you I am going to freeze like a Eskimo popsicle when I meet you from seeing your beauty and your smoking body.