Tipping

[phildo]

So did Ms. Rose replace Sarah Jane at that in call or the other way around? I'm confused.

Guys, we just figure if WE had a vagina that fucker'd be getting a serious pounding, thinking as we do that our hardware should be in use whenever possible.

But just looking at sheer numbers there probably aren't 1,400 plus guys looking to drop $$$ every day to keep these wimmin giving 2 horizontal hulu lessons everyday.

I wonder about the service industry-wide tipping analogies, though, because a restaurant or bar isn't Pizza Hut or Asian take away, or even the dry cleaners. I wonder, though, would waiters and bartenders ramp up the IOP if they knew what sort of tipper you were?

[pfmtony]

I almost always tip. Heck when I can afford it I tip more. Seriously what these ladies give of themselves is pretty close to priceless in some cases. I often feel I do not tip enough. The competition in Dallas is stiff too, so most volume income calculations are way off. These women probably spend more time wading through BS screening and dealing with deadbeats then they do seeing actual clients. Many of them also have kids, other jobs, and busy family lives too. But what would I know?

Thank all you wonderful Dallas women, I wish I could tip more. When I can, I will.

[NearHauteRed]

What I failed to mention in my earlier reply post to Honey Rose is I have no clue what her particular rate of seeing clients are and it is not to bash her in any way, but I feel very strongly about the bullshit provider put hobbyists through when all you have to do is look at the provider ads that state to call early as they book up quickly on a daily basis and the fact that when you go see a provider, it is rush rush rush and out the door before the hour is up more times than not on one hand, and then on the other hand, woe is me complaining about how broke they are because of having a very small number of clients that see them for a session. Now, as far as the OP post on tipping, here is a tip for those providers who play it both ways, as Master Yoda put it, if you walk on the left side of the road (you see less than three clients a week and want to bitch about making no money) you are safe, if you walk on the right side of the road ( you treat guys like they are numbers and are always booked, do not answer your phone or email in a timely matter if at all) you are safe, if you walk down the middle of road, you will and should get squashed, just like grape.

As far as the actual work a provider has to do to endure and wade through the parasitic members of this board as well as others that bombard them with BS with no actual intention of seeing them for a session, their screening processes, having to get ready (and with some providers, that is a lot of work in and of itself) and seeing our ugly mugs and having to show that IOP, I honestly commend providers, but you do get pretty handsomely paid for the actual time you see a hobbyist for a session and that you cannot deny.

[Spikebaby]

Originally Posted by ~Ze~

Guys get it in their head that tipping an "escort that makes 250 an hour" is an absurd idea. They assume most ladies are pulling in 5k and up a month and don't see any justification for it.

Reality is - a LOT of the providers are mothers, just trying to make ends meet, or single ladies just trying to get on their feet. Most ladies here don't see one guy a day, let alone 5 or more to fill up whatever delusions fellas have in their head that women here do.

This season is tough on some providers because they haven't prepared in advance for the holidays, with hobbyists having their own family obligations to focus on. Or are struggling themselves with the increased pressures even if they did prepare.

Not that tipping should be a sympathy move by any means, my point in saying the above is that many women here aren't in the position to give gifts to those that are special to them. They don't have the luxury of it even if they wanted to.

I tip well in most service situations I get into. Dinner, spa, salon, etc. Good service gets good tip. Why should this service be any different? If any of my providers exceed my expectations, they get my show of appreciation.

I personally don't think you should tip beforehand. Since there isn't much to be appreciative about. No matter what, it is a personal choice. Do what makes you feel happy.

We ladies pay attention to those that treat us well. We like to be reminded that we have done a good job and feel appreciated. 20-200- a memento from a conversation you remembered we had a while back- a silly 4$ greeting card out of the blue for no reason ...... We notice.

+1

Spikebaby

[Guest112814]

Originally Posted by NearHauteRed

...the fact that when you go see a provider, it is rush rush rush and out the door before the hour is up more times than not on one hand, and then on the other hand, woe is me complaining about how broke they are because of having a very small number of clients that see them for a session...if you walk on the left side of the road (you see less than three clients a week and want to bitch about making no money) you are safe, if you walk on the right side of the road ( you treat guys like they are numbers and are always booked, do not answer your phone or email in a timely matter if at all) you are safe, if you walk down the middle of road, you will and should get squashed, just like grape.

As far as the actual work a provider has to do to endure and wade through the parasitic members of this board as well as others that bombard them with BS with no actual intention of seeing them for a session, their screening processes, having to get ready (and with some providers, that is a lot of work in and of itself) and seeing our ugly mugs and having to show that IOP, I honestly commend providers, but you do get pretty handsomely paid for the actual time you see a hobbyist for a session and that you cannot deny.

In reference to the first paragraph I was going to say you need to see different girls - look at the ladies I've reviewed, none of them have attitude. THEN I read the second paragraph. You seem to have be hung up on how easy these ladies have it. My feeling is the exact opposite - thus the post. The dudes wanting to just chat, tire kickers, no shows, thinking this is match.com, etc has to take a LOT of unpaid time. I know if I see THN, EBG, Syeria, Sexy Heather, Mellanie, Amillia, Roxy, etc the LAST thing they make me feel is rushed. But I seriously respect these ladies and what they do for me and "I think", for what it's worth, they appreciate that respect and ensure WE have a great time. Paying for their time? Yes, but we're all people and treat those that treat us well better than others that treat someone like a 'cum dumpster". NHR - not saying you do that - seen that term and I'm ULTRA GFE so I find it offensive.

Thanks for all the replies, I'm going to be investing more in gift bags. If I don't have time though, still wondering how much is appropriate?

[lily blake]

tipping to me means your a generous person and since i am one as well, you will start to see the how generous i am.

[NearHauteRed]

Originally Posted by dallastxbaby

tipping to me means your a generous person and since i am one as well, you will start to see the how generous i am.

That is great, but what I would like to know is, how do you know a guy is going to leave a tip on the first session? Can you see in the future so you will be more generous as you say for those guys and the ones you cannot read then while you are good, just not as good?

[~Ze~]

NHR - your cynicism is showing. You might want to see to that.

You seem to have a very negative outlook on aspects of this lifestyle.

[NearHauteRed]

Ze, is there something that said that is not true? I think I have asked some legit questions

[melannie_star]

Originally Posted by EasyLover214

In reference to the first paragraph I was going to say you need to see different girls - look at the ladies I've reviewed, none of them have attitude. THEN I read the second paragraph. You seem to have be hung up on how easy these ladies have it. My feeling is the exact opposite - thus the post. The dudes wanting to just chat, tire kickers, no shows, thinking this is match.com, etc has to take a LOT of unpaid time. I know if I see THN, EBG, Syeria, Sexy Heather, Mellanie, Amillia, Roxy, etc the LAST thing they make me feel is rushed. But I seriously respect these ladies and what they do for me and "I think", for what it's worth, they appreciate that respect and ensure WE have a great time. Paying for their time? Yes, but we're all people and treat those that treat us well better than others that treat someone like a 'cum dumpster". NHR - not saying you do that - seen that term and I'm ULTRA GFE so I find it offensive.

Thanks for all the replies, I'm going to be investing more in gift bags. If I don't have time though, still wondering how much is appropriate?

Easylover214.. you are by far, hands down, the sweetest man! Just wanted to get that out there. I believe tipping is one's own decision..It is one way of showing appreciation and can be extra helpful for those of us who are raising a family and have mortgages,ect.,but does not mean one should feel bad if doesn't or feel any less of a client because they dont. Personally I will walk away with a bigger smile and satisfaction from someone who has same compassion as easylover214 and pfmtony,extra caring and supportive towards our lifestyle, but doesn't tip, VS one who tips just to show a big ego and feels superior to us. I am naturally a pleaser and submissive type so easy for me to look past a lot. Although IMO, I treat the online marketing,screening,and booking as a business, that is why I am able to relax and put all business aside when meeting BCD. It is all about passion and having a good time! Of course all of us ladies would say yes tip please.. but most of us will agree that after several years of experience we have accepted it is NOT a get rich quick industry..lol.We simply do it because we enjoy it and has it's benefits. If you feel like tipping please do, if not, no big deal We still will enjoy each others company just the same!

Easylover214 although I know you mean well with the topic of tipping.. I don't believe there will be a right answer to your question. There are too many personalities..lol.Some get it and some will not. All in all thank you for thinking of us though!!!

[SD2011]

Originally Posted by dallastxbaby

tipping to me means your a generous person and since i am one as well, you will start to see the how generous i am.

Seems fair enough to me.

[NearHauteRed]

Originally Posted by melannie_star

Easylover214.. you are by far, hands down, the sweetest man! Just wanted to get that out there. I believe tipping is one's own decision..It is one way of showing appreciation and can be extra helpful for those of us who are raising a family and have mortgages,ect.,but does not mean one should feel bad if doesn't or feel any less of a client because they dont. Personally I will walk away with a bigger smile and satisfaction from someone who has same compassion as easylover214 and pfmtony,extra caring and supportive towards our lifestyle, but doesn't tip, VS one who tips just to show a big ego and feels superior to us. I am naturally a pleaser and submissive type so easy for me to look past a lot. Although IMO, I treat the online marketing,screening,and booking as a business, that is why I am able to relax and put all business aside when meeting BCD. It is all about passion and having a good time! Of course all of us ladies would say yes tip please.. but most of us will agree that after several years of experience we have accepted it is NOT a get rich quick industry..lol.We simply do it because we enjoy it and has it's benefits. If you feel like tipping please do, if not, no big deal We still will enjoy each others company just the same!

Easylover214 although I know you mean well with the topic of tipping.. I don't believe there will be a right answer to your question. There are too many personalities..lol.Some get it and some will not. All in all thank you for thinking of us though!!!

Very well said.......And as I have said in my first post in this thread, not that tipping is wrong, I have done it a few times, but, IMO the biggest and best tip of all is a sooner than later repeat visit as that repeat visit with your donation rate will go further helping you with said expenses as opposed the extra $20-50 tip on the first visit, much less a gift card, flowers or any other gift other than money. If only we had more providers that look at the hobbyists like you as opposed to the ones that look at us like we are wallets, this would be a better hobby and it does show one way or the other.

[phildo]

Wait...following the logic of dallastxbaby we should tip early and big to be rewarded, yet ~ze~ postulates an early tip isn't a prerequisite since one doesn't know if the service is fabulous or the enchilada's are going to be cold. And is there a different mechanism for delivery of the post coital tip than for the donation? The raging question is, where does one PUT the tip, anyway? And whose advice should we take? This whole thread is going to make my head explode, I know it.

Perhaps the Phoenix risen from the ashes of PrettyFuckingMarvelous could be persuaded to write the definitive guide to both donation delivery AND tipping etiquette as a follow up to his minor tome on pre appointment genital and other extremities cleansing?

[phildo]

Originally Posted by ~Ze~

NHR - your cynicism is showing. You might want to see to that.

You seem to have a very negative outlook on aspects of this lifestyle.

gust lak hukt awn foniks, thu eggnore feetur werks fur mee

[pfmtony]

Melannie thanks for the kind words. A smile from you is worth more than any tip anyway. Have a great weekend everyone.