Is the local hobby scene as bad as this board makes it seem?

[Dreamgurrl]

Originally Posted by pensfan123456

Bro, I tried to be kind and now you’re starting an argument with me. I generally found your posts here about how to handle SA on point and have agreed with you in the past. I don’t want to argue with you. Indys is gone and it isn’t coming back, so the Eccie review section is different in the fact that it exists, and Indys doesn’t.

But calling people “street girls” doesn’t help anyone.

I wouldn’t count on that. The company that made the most recent purchase of Indys owns several adult sites. More than one that you guys reference here regularly

[pensfan123456]

Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl

I wouldn’t count on that. The company that made the most recent purchase of Indys owns several adult sites. More than one that you guys reference here regularly

Post FOSTA I don’t think any site will exist like Indys did, with reviews, vouches, etc. I don’t think there’s enough money in it to justify the risk of running a site like that. Problem is you have an industry where everyone prefers to stay anonymous, so collecting payment for any type of service, whether it be charging providers for ads, or charging mongers for access, becomes difficult.

An offshore company might take the risk but having the site run like Indys was, being run and moderated by people involved in the hobby, that isn’t happening again.

If it does ever happen, please post the link, I would love to check it out!

[bkfantasy]

If it comes back anything like it was right before it shut down, it is better off dead.

[berryberry]

Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl

And thanks to the client who took me to lunch today for my full rate with screening and deposit based on this thread! My first time in a restaurant since March!

You do realize don't you that guys here have seen this same act before and are too smart to fall for it. Maybe you had some guys when you ran Indy's that bought into these stories, but you are just wasting your energy posting them here.

But hey, whatever makes you happy.

[thurman murmann]

Originally Posted by berryberry

You do realize don't you that guys here have seen this same act before and are too smart to fall for it. Maybe you had some guys when you ran Indy's that bought into these stories, but you are just wasting your energy posting them here.

But hey, whatever makes you happy.

She’s almost becoming a headache here like she was on indys... sort of annoying yet tolerable for now. Oh well.

[Dreamgurrl]

Originally Posted by pensfan123456

Post FOSTA I don’t think any site will exist like Indys did, with reviews, vouches, etc. I don’t think there’s enough money in it to justify the risk of running a site like that. Problem is you have an industry where everyone prefers to stay anonymous, so collecting payment for any type of service, whether it be charging providers for ads, or charging mongers for access, becomes difficult.

An offshore company might take the risk but having the site run like Indys was, being run and moderated by people involved in the hobby, that isn’t happening again.

If it does ever happen, please post the link, I would love to check it out!

Anything is possible Wishing you all good health and a Happy Saturday!

[berryberry]

Speaking of the state of the hobby, I saw one provider complaining on twitter today saying:

Please tell me I didn't come all the way to Pittsburgh for one booking. I advertised all month.

Now it couldn't be that she was selling $240 rub and tugs and charging $600 for FS could it? Nope, in her mind it is the guys fault for not paying those GPS rates.

Of course, on twitter you get all the other bitter HOs chiming in - like one response to a guy who posted:

She wants 250 for driving all the way to a different city then paying for a room for you to come to, you troglodyte and These scumbags can get their full body massage in their car I guess

Such a sweetheart - with remarks like these, it really makes you want to see her.

At least one perhaps recognized the real issue:

Yeah I feel like a lot of the guys have gone on strike against us for all of the screening and deposits that we ask for. Or for whatever “hoops” they feel we make them jump through. No proof of that but it is just a gut feeling.

It is pretty simple - charge a fair rate, with no deposits and hoops to jump through, no real life info required to book and you will get plenty business.

[bkfantasy]

$600 and my real life info? Where do I sign up?

[Charley3]

I hate bitching because I enjoy the benefits of this little hobby immensely but I did run across a girl on Twitter that said guys that make wardrobe requests are time wasters. Her rate was 650. So I asked if a simple lingerie request (nothing specific) was considered a “time waster”. She said yep.

[chizzy]

Originally Posted by Charley3

I hate bitching because I enjoy the benefits of this little hobby immensely but I did run across a girl on Twitter that said guys that make wardrobe requests are time wasters. Her rate was 650. So I asked if a simple lingerie request (nothing specific) was considered a “time waster”. She said yep.

And meanwhile, she taking and stuffing the 650 into a prada or Gucci purse,lol.... yes how dare u pay 650 and make a simple wardrobe request
GPS for sure

[bambino]

BTW, it appears Indys domain was “purchased”. Maybe for a dollar. That’s what it’s worth.

[bambino]

Originally Posted by bkfantasy

$600 and my real life info? Where do I sign up?

You shouldn’t do it for $300 an hour either. You get double fucked either way.

[Dreamgurrl]

Originally Posted by chizzy

And meanwhile, she taking and stuffing the 650 into a prada or Gucci purse,lol.... yes how dare u pay 650 and make a simple wardrobe request
GPS for sure

Bags are the worst investment. Cash is King!

[Dreamgurrl]

Originally Posted by bambino

You shouldn’t do it for $300 an hour either. You get double fucked either way.

People who can’t get laid for free really shouldn’t complain about also not being able to pay for it!

[bambino]

Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl

People who can’t get laid for free really shouldn’t complain about also not being able to pay for it!

I’ve been married for 35yrs. You? I get laid for “free” all the time. But hey, isn’t your phone ringing? At least you didn’t ruin my life. Like a few other guys.