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Old 11-25-2011, 08:49 PM   #31
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Rumor has it wrong. I only talk to two people on this site off the boars and I do not gossip with them. How about that?
London, Sixx, Ed & Burk how many is that? LOL
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Old 11-25-2011, 09:06 PM   #32
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Let me post before my 3rd Black Friday trip for the day.
(Then I'm wondering should I be using the term handicap or disabled? I'll google that later...)

Everyone keeps mentioning wheelchairs but that was not the situation I was presented with (or the provider who decided not to see the client).

*Lets say a client is looking for a provider who does outcalls and he informs you that he is not in a wheelchair, but has had a stroke. He can walk with the help of a cane and has no difficulty in getting in and out of bed but prefers to use his Hoveround to get around his home. He is not elderly, age 48. He has a live in caregiver and asks would you be comfortable knowing that another person was in the residence at the time of the session.*


The only question I asked was what color was his caregiver. All black caregivers/sitters/nurses who do homecare in my city know each other and gossip so I wanted to be sure discretion could be maintained.

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But back to wheelchairs and such. I only do outcalls anyway so I have no problem with seeing a disabled client. Most people who have lived with their disability for years know how to move in and out of bed. I've worked as a caregiver in the past so should they need assistance (and not weigh 300lbs) I would know how to manuver them without throwing out my back or dropping them on the floor.

I notice that the Ireland hobby site has an option for providers to check if they are disabled friendly. http://www.escort-ireland.com/
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Old 11-25-2011, 09:08 PM   #33
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Only the BLACK ones Gossip? Really?
You would have to have worked in this particular vocational pool to know.
Nothing is private. Every patient who I have worked for I have known the previous caregiver and everything piece of gossip concerning their home, doctors, and family before my first assignment.
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Old 11-25-2011, 09:15 PM   #34
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But you don't have to act like a cunt either. No sympathy for someone who is disabled? What the fuck is wrong with you? Let's see how you change your tone if you ever get into an accident or get sick. Ignorant bitch.

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Good god who cares? This hobby is all about preferences. I am not going to fuck a disabled man because it's the right thing to do. If I don't want to fuck a disabled man, I'm not going to fuck a disabled man. I wouldn't fuck one or date one in my personal life so why should I date one in this hobby? Please. This is not a regulated hobby. My feelings aren't hurt when a guy says he does not see black girls. That is how this is too. Personal/Individual preferences. No sympathy. Goodness gracious.
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Old 11-25-2011, 10:08 PM   #36
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Come on gang. This about preferences AGAIN like another thread that has gone on forever. No one can expect everyone to be the same way that they are. It's either a yes I would or no I wouldn't. I don't think it's about not feeling sorry for some one that's handicapped or not wishing them the best it's about fucking them and that is another story. Let's try to be real here.
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I don't see nothing wrong with seeing a guy in a wheelchair, as long as he has full function from the waste up. He maybe in a wheelchair but he can still kiss, caress, daty, and use toys on a provider to please him and help her O too!
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A yes or no would be fine. For someone to say who cares? That's fucked up. Being real is understanding that everyone is human. Burk, pretend for a moment that having a big dick was a handicap. You might change your tune, IJS!

No one is expected to see a client they aren't comfortable with. On the other hand, there is something to be said for having a little couth.

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Come on gang. This about preferences AGAIN like another thread that has gone on forever. No one can expect everyone to be the same way that they are. It's either a yes I would or no I wouldn't. I don't think it's about not feeling sorry for some one that's handicapped or not wishing them the best it's about fucking them and that is another story. Let's try to be real here.
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Hey their money is just as good as anybody else, but I see how some people would think it might not be worth the hassle to accommodate people who might need more help than the usual hobbyist. More for me lol.

But in my experience as long as preparations are made in advance, a disabled date can go as smoothly as a regular date and they usually leave awesome tips.
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Lets watch the personal name calling, points are going out.
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i personally wouldnt mind seeing a person who is disabled, i would look at it as a new experiance....Might be exciting. always open to try new things.
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But you don't have to act like a cunt either. No sympathy for someone who is disabled? What the fuck is wrong with you? Let's see how you change your tone if you ever get into an accident or get sick. Ignorant bitch.

Did I quote you? Is this your cry for attention?*I didn't mean I had no sympathy for the disabled.*I meant I have no sympathy for those I will not fuck*(black guys, disabled guys, obese guys..etc)*I am not going to say ok it's fine because one is disabled. I simply do not care. They're going to get pussy elsewhere.*That saying stemmed from London's "There is no sympathy when it comes to pussy"*That is what I meant. Maybe next time you should ask before ranting*like a 6 year old? As you can see, I'm not ignorant - just smart ...but I'll wear it. I rather be an*ignorant bitch and a "overweight and desperate" one. So Thanks.


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Come on gang. This about preferences AGAIN like another thread that has gone on forever. No one can expect everyone to be the same way that they are. It's either a yes I would or no I wouldn't. I don't think it's about not feeling sorry for some one that's handicapped or not wishing them the best it's about fucking them and that is another story. Let's try to be real here.
Burk , Exactly.
Thank you. Some people are just idiots and don't understand anything but bbbjs.
Some also feel that because we are hookers we should take any and everyone's money. '
Fuck that and fuck them. If they're not the ones fucking the person, their opinion on who
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Nice try, little girl. It's called compassion. Try it, it's painless.

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Did I quote you? Is this your cry for attention?
I didn't mean I had no sympathy for the disabled.
I meant I have no sympathy for those I will not fuck
(black guys, disabled guys, obese guys..etc)
I am not going to say ok it's fine because one is disabled. I simply do not care. They're going to get pussy elsewhere.
That saying stemmed from London's "There is no sympathy when it comes to pussy"
That is what I meant. Maybe next time you should ask before ranting
like a 6 year old? As you can see, I'm not ignorant - just smart ...but I'll wear it. I rather be an
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Burk , Exactly.
Thank you. Some people are just idiots and don't understand anything but bbbjs.
Some also feel that because we are hookers we should take any and everyone's money. '
Fuck that and fuck them. If they're not the ones fucking the person, their opinion on who
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Nice try, little girl. It's called compassion. Try it, it's painless.

First of all, Big girl, Do not go there with me. I do not sugarcoat anything on this site. I have an uncle that is disabled due to a car wreck so I will never say that I do not care for those that are disabled. I will never say that I have no sympathy for them because they will never get a chance to live a normal life. However, There is no such thing as compassion when it comes to pussy. If there was, you better believe there will be a crisis assistance for it. I'm not delusional about what goes on in this business. I prefer to make my own rules. That is why it's called being independent. Nice that you felt compelled to insult me for that. If anything, I am happy that I am successful enough to not have to fuck everyone and anyone that has $400 to spend. You see? There are different ways of looking at these things. Have a great day .
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