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Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman
Great point, but even this is sometimes difficult to deal with. I have a client who has become close enough that we've been together off the clock. (with the caveat that it was only going to be the one time)
I consider him a close friend AND fav client, and could imagine a fuck buddy situation, but I think it would be awkward to try to determine when it's business and when it's not. Even if he said he'd be cool with however I wanted to play it, I'd feel a bit weird, you know? I wouldn't want either one of us to take advantage of the other.
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Well - if you were going off the thought of not being sure - just from what I posted...then you've got it twisted.
My statement was meant to be taken as it was said.
One state leads to another. If you go out as "drinkin buddies" - that does not involved being paid for your time. So if in fact it does lead to be "fuck buddies"....the very definition of "fuck buddy" is a "friend that you enjoy fucking" or "someone that comes around, just for a fuck....because ya'll like to fuck...no strings."
So, based off my post....there's no confusion to be had.
Hookers, ho's, prostitutes, escorts, street walkers, high dollar hotties, sugar babies....they are all women or men - who have had the ability to have clients.....and should they decide......pick one that they enjoy hanging out with, and just say, "listen, lets just hang out here and there...no strings."
You just did yourself in as far as the $$ part goes, cuz once he got it for nada....there's hardly a chance that he will book at your "retail" again. "agreement" or not.
Now, if you ask someone to come hang out - no strings..who is a client...and ya'll hook up and he unexpectedly leaves money for you. Well, he wants it to stay more "professional fuck buddy".
I don't want to go into more details - but I think you can get what I'm saying.
Every person has their "things" they like, or want or enjoy.
If you are a provider, the chances of a client doing those things for you are very slim. Plus, you aren't worrying about yourself.
When you are alone with a fuck buddy - they learn your quirks and crevices and they know that if you push at them a bit, then that may mean you want to be thrown to the bed and pinned down...which a client, even if he sorta had the idea that is what you may want....may not dare, for fear of you being threatened.
You can also use them to try out new toys on yourself or on them. (like I had this weird rig I didn't know what the hell to do with, and I sure as hell didn't want to waste a client's time trying to figure it out...so I called up my FB and we had a hell of a time trying to work it out, but once we did...woo hoo for us and all those after us that enjoyed it.)
