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Naomi4u · 09-06-2011, 02:57 PM

Is it really that surprising to you, Ea? You're on a hooker board where fake personas/fake handles are used for privacy reasons and it amazes you that one can be different from their board personas? Think about it. Guess what? A lot of ladies here ACT too - ya know like BCD with some of their clients. They also tell them everything they want to hear so they can come back. I can tell you stories and you wouldn't believe it

. Some of these tough guys you see around here? Are the same ones falling in love with providers and proposing marriage. You can be anyone you want to be here. It's fantasyland. It all makes sense in the end love.

jughead1171 · 09-06-2011, 03:08 PM

Personality I think for the most part is the same.

Eccie Addict · 09-06-2011, 03:18 PM

I never said it was surprising.... I am fully aware of how it is.

If we are all just handles on a hooker board and just nothing but a screen then I guess respect, posts, things we say really don't matter at all?

Naughty Destiny · 09-06-2011, 03:18 PM

I would say that my board persona is who I am. I don't like behaving as somebody that I'm not, as it seems fake to me. Obviously, there are some aspects that are not "me". Being that "Destiny" is not who I really am, my born identity so to say, which in that aspect is indeed a persona. But if we are considering "Destiny", my board persona is exactly who I am in that regard. I have definitely met people that were very different from their board persona. Some guys seem way cooler online with their board persona than they do in person…

Naomi4u · 09-06-2011, 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

If we are all just handles on a hooker board and just nothing but a screen then I guess respect, posts, things we say really don't matter at all?

Well you know what they say, nothing here is real. It couldn't possibly be. It's all fantasy. It's all in the mind

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Originally Posted by Naughty Destiny

I would say that my board persona is who I am. I don't like behaving as somebody that I'm not, as it seems fake to me. Obviously, there are some aspects that are not "me". Being that "Destiny" is not who I really am, my born identity so to say, which in that aspect is indeed a persona.

Do you see how you totally contradicted yourself? It doesn't matter if it's being nice or being a bitch - it's a still ALL fake persona. No offense and I don't know you/don't have a reason to single you out but I'm using what you said as an example. It's all fake. I, for one, have to be someone else to do what I do as a provider. Not that I don't love my job but it's easier to do so. Here on eccie, totally different from who I am BCD with my clients AND most definitely different from who I am when I'm home with my family. That girl wouldn't be here.

I believe that those that don't create some sort of persona separate from their true selves come out BAT SHIT crazy!

Eccie Addict · 09-06-2011, 03:31 PM

That's understandable for the ladies on here and I totally get what you are saying. I guess you could also understand that we as the guys or clients don't have to be someone different unless we just want to be. Naturally I can't relate to your side since I'm not a provider.

I think that this topic kind of ties into what I said not too long ago about this thing changing you as a person if you let it. I don't wanna change lol.

Naughty Destiny · 09-06-2011, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Do you see how you totally contradicted yourself? It doesn't matter if it's being nice or being a bitch - it's a still ALL fake persona. No offense and I don't know you/don't have a reason to single you out but I'm using what you said as an example. It's all fake.

Thank you for your opinion. It's appreciated. BUT I have to disagree. The board persona that I possess is the same persona that is going to open the door when I meet the client that has been reading my posts on the board, therefore making it not fake at all. "Destiny" is a persona backed by a REAL person...

London Rayne · 09-06-2011, 03:57 PM

London Rayne is a character plain and simple. I don't treat men I date in real life the same way I am with clients...it's not realistic. I can't "fake" true emotion or intimacy, but I can in fact fake many other things. I know when to keep my mouth shut in public, how to dress in every situation, etc. Just having common sense tells most people not to dress like a stripper in fk me pumps, when a married man is picking her up. It tells her showing her face all over the net while escorting in the same town she is a nurse in, is pretty damn stupid too. Or, that cursing all the time lacks ability to have a vocabulary filled with useful words.

Of course, I am not the same person I am here! Gimme a break. I freaking tithe, I volunteer at St. Jude, and I have never in my LIFE cheated on a partner. Everything I am in my personal life contradicts what I do as London Rayne. I don't bring home other women for the men I date, don't go out to bars without him, don't dress with my azz and boobs hanging out, and don't fly off the handle unless someone is literally in my face. It's a totally different person, but clients don't want to hear about that crap...as if. They don't want to hear about what church you go to, what problems you had at work or with your lover, etc. They pay for the fantasy, yet claim they want the real me. No they don't, because the very few times I got a bit too comfy and let some of my real life issues come through, it was done with.

They want the real you but they want that you to be perfect, always happy, never bloated, and in heels ready to fk...that's not reality, and it's certainly NOT the real me.

shorty · 09-06-2011, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by London Rayne

London Rayne is a character plain and simple. I don't treat men I date in real life the same way I am with clients...it's not realistic. I can't "fake" true emotion or intimacy, but I can in fact fake many other things. I know when to keep my mouth shut in public, how to dress in every situation, etc. Just having common sense tells most people not to dress like a stripper in fk me pumps, when a married man is picking her up. It tells her showing her face all over the net while escorting in the same town she is a nurse in, is pretty damn stupid too. Or, that cursing all the time lacks ability to have a vocabulary filled with useful words.

Of course, I am not the same person I am here! Gimme a break. I freaking tithe, I volunteer at St. Jude, and I have never in my LIFE cheated on a partner. Everything I am in my personal life contradicts what I do as London Rayne. I don't bring home other women for the men I date, don't go out to bars without him, don't dress with my azz and boobs hanging out, and don't fly off the handle unless someone is literally in my face. It's a totally different person, but clients don't want to hear about that crap...as if. They don't want to hear about what church you go to, what problems you had at work or with your lover, etc. They pay for the fantasy, yet claim they want the real me. No they don't, because the very few times I got a bit too comfy and let some of my real life issues come through, it was done with.

They want the real you but they want that you to be perfect, always happy, never bloated, and in heels ready to fk...that's not reality, and it's certainly NOT the real me.

Finally a lady realistic view on providing, board persona, and real life!

anaximander · 09-06-2011, 05:09 PM

Nope it's me.
In person I'm more of dick because I can.

Here must mind my p's&q's,
there are ladies present.

In the Real, am always a gentleman to all women.

The guys are another story.
I don't let the fact that fighting in public is illegal
keep me from doing so. Though it's been awhile,
my work knows if I am in jail it isn't due to DUI
or possession.

It's what all tigers do,
fuck & fight

sixxbach · 09-06-2011, 05:09 PM

I am the prince of darkness!

sixx

burkalini · 09-06-2011, 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by London Rayne

London Rayne is a character plain and simple. I don't treat men I date in real life the same way I am with clients...it's not realistic. I can't "fake" true emotion or intimacy, but I can in fact fake many other things. I know when to keep my mouth shut in public, how to dress in every situation, etc. Just having common sense tells most people not to dress like a stripper in fk me pumps, when a married man is picking her up. It tells her showing her face all over the net while escorting in the same town she is a nurse in, is pretty damn stupid too. Or, that cursing all the time lacks ability to have a vocabulary filled with useful words.

Of course, I am not the same person I am here! Gimme a break. I freaking tithe, I volunteer at St. Jude, and I have never in my LIFE cheated on a partner. Everything I am in my personal life contradicts what I do as London Rayne. I don't bring home other women for the men I date, don't go out to bars without him, don't dress with my azz and boobs hanging out, and don't fly off the handle unless someone is literally in my face. It's a totally different person, but clients don't want to hear about that crap...as if. They don't want to hear about what church you go to, what problems you had at work or with your lover, etc. They pay for the fantasy, yet claim they want the real me. No they don't, because the very few times I got a bit too comfy and let some of my real life issues come through, it was done with.

They want the real you but they want that you to be perfect, always happy, never bloated, and in heels ready to fk...that's not reality, and it's certainly NOT the real me.

Have you met a person and they we great and then after awhile they changed a little. This is what I say is the majority of the online personalities. It may not be what they are in their personal life but it is their personality ability. After being completely comfortable with someone these online personalities are cabable of coming out. Not saying they have but they do have it in them. So when a guy comes out a little strong or a gal bitches all the time on Eccie its a gene they all possess

London Rayne · 09-06-2011, 05:20 PM

Oh for sure. I can agree with that, because I am high strung and hyper a lot ha ha. I am just saying, in real life all of us have the ability to tone that down because we know we have to. I always joke that providing is the best job for me because no one can be with me for long periods of time, but in some instance that's freakin true!

I have had maybe 10 overnights and a few weekenders, where some of the real me came out but nothing like you see here lol. If it did, it was both of us talking and laughing that way about someone else, not about each other.

Poor Shorty had to spend 24 hours with me lmao!

If we agree again, I may need to see a Doctor lol.

Shayla · 09-06-2011, 05:22 PM

Regardless, I think the way one conducts themselves on this board gives an impression of their character. Not saying it's entirely who they are, but little things account for a lot sometimes.
I think everyone has an alter ego of some sort.

London Rayne · 09-06-2011, 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Shayla

Regardless, I think the way one conducts themselves on this board gives an impression of their character. Not saying it's entirely who they are, but little things account for a lot sometimes.
I think everyone has an alter ego of some sort.

You should meet some of the HDH girls I have, and watch them scarf down a Big Mac then pee in the parking lot lol. You would be surprised just how fake some people can be for impression's sake.