LADIES do you really believe what you post in your ad or show case?

[Guest010115-3]

Originally Posted by Lustnotlove

There are many guys who luv this type of womanly body, but don't use those words that are sacred to get our attention, only to have us disappointed.

I should say, using the word "our" in this statement does not include me. On a more critical aspect of ur post, there r several women I don't find attractive but I don't insult them by asking them if they feel ugly just coz I don't find them attractive. I wanted to say more but I think u don't deserve to hear it.

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

If you exude sexy and truly feel it...someone, somewhere is going to find you sexy. ........

And this is the simple reason: mankind as we know it will never fail to reproduce.

Edit: someday I should learn more about Martinis. All I know today is the shape of the glass....and to empty it, you turn it upside down.

[Gbusey]

Originally Posted by Lustnotlove

Ladies, do you really believe your sexiness, when you weigh 180lbs? When your body is so big, you need 2 airline seats? I'm not really trying to be mean. But come on, you say sexy, like it's drinking water. If you have a muffin stomach, don't try to hide it, just say it. If you don't like to wear makeup, but your show case shows you nicely made up, then say something! Ahead of time!

There are many guys who luv this type of womanly body, but don't use those words that are sacred to get our attention, only to have us disappointed.

Do you really think you are petite when you wear a size 12? When your your tits are man made and each one is bigger than your head? If your tits are 44 and your waist is 35, your not shapely (IMHO) you still fat.

If you post fotos of yourself (and that's good) put a warning of possible PTSD , if viewed.

Serious question; how drunk were you, when you posted this?

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Maybe part if the problem is that you are implying people who are 180# are obese. I can tell by looking at Alexis, she fits easily into an airplane seat. Lol.

I, myself, get called sexy...in person... At least a couple times a day. And god forbid, I'm a size 12. And they aren't fake, but my boobs might be the size of my head. It's hard to tell because I have so much thick, lucious hair. Lol.

I get guys trying to fuck me based on my feet or nipples alone...I'm pretty sure I could weigh over 200lbs and that wouldn't change. I also get guys who would fuck me sight unseen.

Like I said, you are entitled to your view if what is sexy. But don't place your ideals in everyone. Sexy. It's subjective.

The thing that rubbed me wrong about your OP is that you imply a woman is lying when she says she's sexy and weighs 180#. That is
My only issue. I'm sure you would find me decidedly unsexy if we ever meet so your opinion on what is sexy to you is perfectly good with me.

xoxo
LMx

To be completely fair, your post revolves around the imbalance between men and women. You can thank society for the fact that men approach you, and that the idea of women approaching men (while there's nothing wrong with it) is considered foreign. I'm fortunate enough to have women approach me, but it's still somehow odd to me; mostly because in this society it takes a strong woman to do such a thing. Also, consider the impact that has; it means that men have a far broader range of acceptable lovers than women do, which leads to women having the ability to be far more picky than men.

I'm not trying to subtly put you down, I've never seen you, but even if I had, your point is completely valid; it wouldn't matter what I think! You can surely form an aggregate ideal to what "hot" is for a woman (or man) based on modern trends in society, but that's fairly irrelevant.

Just feels like there was a bit too much of a personal approach to your point of contention with the OP, is all. For what it's worth, my take is that the OP was drunk and your long-winded (because I know a thing or two about being such) "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" response was spot on and well justified.

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

It's 2:31 am and I just got home and I'm drunk on dirty Ketel one straight up Martinis...feeling oh so sexy...ijs

If not for me having some liquid courage in me, I wouldn't have been with some of the phenomenally fine civilian women I've been with; I'm man enough to admit that, lol. It was probably because I felt sexier than normal, which leads to confidence, and blah blah blah.

[tbone77494]

There is a reason height and weight are search criteria.

[Eccie Addict]

I don't concern myself with how a chick sees herself nor will I spend my time on here telling them how they should view themselves. It's also been quite some time since I've been disappointed in the manner the OP describes and when I was it wasn't due to any misleading pics, stated descriptions or reviews. It was simply a bad decision on my part.

[Wakeup]

There's a reason you never see a fat person in a television commercial, and rarely in a CEO job...society has an ideal body type, and fat ain't it...it's our own self loathing that even lets us tolerate the condition...

P.S.-The only reason fat chicks get paid to fuck is because hobbyists are fat, old, and disgusting themselves...they're ashamed to try and pick up women, or to go see the hot providers because of their self esteem issues, and they can't afford to go see the hot providers who they would prefer to fuck because their low self confidence has relegated them to a low paying job...

[Wombat94]

Sad when you put it out there like that but 100% true.

[Gbusey]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

There's a reason you never see a fat person in a television commercial, and rarely in a CEO job...society has an ideal body type, and fat ain't it...it's our own self loathing that even lets us tolerate the condition...

P.S.-The only reason fat chicks get paid to fuck is because hobbyists are fat, old, and disgusting themselves...they're ashamed to try and pick up women, or to go see the hot providers because of their self esteem issues, and they can't afford to go see the hot providers who they would prefer to fuck because their low self confidence has relegated them to a low paying job...

On the broader spectrum, he's completely right. There's a completely logical gap between my small speech and the premise of this post. Cute people succeed far quicker than, well....non-cute people; and while the argument was it doesn't matter "what you think" it only holds up in the sphere of a relationship, be it sexual, friendly, or somewhere in-between.

I'm tall and have a deep voice, therefore statistically I'm more likely to get that promotion, that raise, or that job. In the same way, while it may only matter what the TWO (or three, you dirty dog) of you think about each other in that moment, it can't be carried over to the other aspects of life, even on the mundane side. Basically, it's more difficult being "big boned." Hard truth. No one said life was fair though.

[Lustnotlove]

Well I was not drinking when I wrote this thread and I'm not drinking now. Some people need to go back and read again what I wrote and take it for it's reading. I never said "fat ladies should not provide". I actually said some guys do like that type of lady. IMHO, people who want to see the a answer to a question have every possible answer, so that it would or would not include them, are seriously middle of the road, cause no problems, for the common sense they lack to fully understand the message and the consequences for not having a direct answer. This thread was not written to a particular provider, for those that think it was, well you should not be thinking. The thread wasn't about actuall weight numbers, that was N example! The thread was "ladies do you believe " in the aspect of, false or no mention of your true weight, tattoos, what ever that is or is not said in a provider ad, should be what your targeted client will think.
This thread was straight forward, if you were hurt annoyed,bothered, insulted or none of these then good. the thread struck a part of your mind that said, hey that's me or well not me, but ......
For every white knight out there, there is some other topic for which you will be disliked.

[boardman]

Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

And this is the simple reason: mankind as we know it will never fail to reproduce.

Edit: someday I should learn more about Martinis. All I know today is the shape of the glass....and to empty it, you turn it upside down.

A real Martini is made with gin not vodka.

[Guest062114-5]

Indeed...and as a purist, I feel a little wrong each time I drink it with vodka...but I simply can't have Gin.

I learned early...Gin will make me Sin. And not in a good way...

LnL...I got what you were saying, and again, I didn't take offense to what you said...but how you said it.

Trust me, I look at some showcases and think....hummmm, interesting career choice. But it only really bothers me when a supersize lady is complaining about guys not wanting to see her or that she can't get higher rates. They need to understand there's a limited market...

I also agree with Brian Bosworth in that fat+slutty doesn't = sexy.

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by boardman

A real Martini is made with gin not vodka.

Does the glass still empty when you turn it over?

No kitty pics with Martini glasses?

[SpiceItUp]

I'm pretty sure the vodka martini variant has been around for 40+ years, it's not like its some modern fusion creation. I do agree they should have just given it a different name back then but whatever, its been long enough that who cares.

Besides, I believe the first martinis at the turn of the century were made with sweet vermouth instead of dry and they had equal parts gin/sweet vermouth + bitters. Nasty but true! How many purists are drinking the "real" gin martini?

[Gbusey]

Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

I'm pretty sure the vodka martini variant has been around for 40+ years, it's not like its some modern fusion creation. I do agree they should have just given it a different name back then but whatever, its been long enough that who cares.

Besides, I believe the first martinis at the turn of the century were made with sweet vermouth instead of dry and they had equal parts gin/sweet vermouth + bitters. Nasty but true! How many purists are drinking the "real" gin martini?

That's what I've come to understand as well. It's not my style, but like the "big boned" it's not my place to say they shouldn't be a cocktail. Martinis can be odd; sometimes it's like trying to order an old fashion; christ that's an adventure.

[Guest062114-5]

Sometimes I drink a Sidecar but only if I know the bartender. My favorite "secret" place still makes a whiskey sour with eye white.

Back (sort of) on topic are there drinks that make a lady look sexier than other drinks?