GFE and provider orgasms

[TinMan]

Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

, but making the conscious choice not to when she otherwise might be able to do so? Is that common?

Might be just to Intimate for some providers ..

I was wondering if that was the explanation. Same reason as the “Pretty Woman” excuse for not kissing…just too intimate.

That is sad, if that is the case. Like you said earlier, the job has to be that much harder if you don’t allow yourself to enjoy it.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Originally Posted by TinMan

I was wondering if that was the explanation. Same reason as the “Pretty Woman” excuse for not kissing…just too intimate.

That is sad, if that is the case. Like you said earlier, the job has to be that much harder if you don’t allow yourself to enjoy it.

I can only speak for myself but I do enjoy myself ..
Not very guy is going to make us cum ,but as long as he does all the matters in the ending ..

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by secondHandNews

I'm getting back into the game after a long hiatus, surprised at how much the landscape has changed. I don't recognize most of the ladies anymore.. ha. Are there any providers who actually orgasm as part of the GFE? I realize she's providing a service for his pleasure, but it's an experience that I'd like to have.

I don't mean the fake climaxing that we see in porn. I'm talking about providers who enjoy their job, prepare for the opportunity, and share that aspect of themselves. What are your top providers who have genuine orgasms?

Providers fake it 95% of the time. The best providers who you would see regularly are the ones you cannot tell if she is faking it.

Now, there are several providers I have personally seen in the past who do not fake it. Those are the ladies who go through the motions, lay there like a corpse and open their eyes only to see how much time is left on the clock.

I have also seen and continue to see ladies who may or may not fake orgasms or say ego stroking affirmation words and phrases.

Remember tho, if you do let a provider know what you like in a session you pay for, you are considered a hard to please unreasonable potential client because you do not like to just go with the flow.

[beeman1000]

i have had a couple tell me they came but I am pretty sure they were just being nice

Now I was seeing a favorite the other day and while she was going down on me I started rubbing her pussy and she did indeed get very wet. I was mildly surprised but I think she is a relatively low volume provider and may not be as jaded as some of the studio girls that I see. (Sadly her oral action was so good that I could barely hold it when I started fucking her so there's no way she came from the sex)

[oldbutstillgoing]

Originally Posted by pmdelites

women can have orgasms, multiple ones back-to-back if her sex partner is above average.

i have experienced providers cumming on lil delites many times in my 20+ yrs in this sub-culture.
dragonfly was prolly the most orgasmic.
mandi minx, veronica rivers, urpixie, keri doll, janae love, are a few more.

DragonFly was indeed an outstanding provider and truly knew how to enjoy her time with you. I had many, many rewarding times with her and she with me.

[oldbutstillgoing]

All the women I saw had orgasms every time. Typically when I handed them the donations.

[TexomaCowboy]

A good companion can facially and vocally "fake" an orgasm, and that is a nice little touch to the session. (We watch action movies and, even though all of the stunts are fake, we still enjoy the thrill.)

What can't be faked is the orgasmic spasm of her pussy. Completely different than kegel exercises. And if your tongue is working well, and you've slowly raised her level of desire, then the pussy juice taste will change, as a different gland-fluid floods into your mouth. Can't fake that.

And if she's a squirter, that's as real as it gets.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Originally Posted by TexomaCowboy

A good companion can facially and vocally "fake" an orgasm, and that is a nice little touch to the session. (We watch action movies and, even though all of the stunts are fake, we still enjoy the thrill.)

What can't be faked is the orgasmic spasm of her pussy. Completely different than kegel exercises. And if your tongue is working well, and you've slowly raised her level of desire, then the pussy juice taste will change, as a different gland-fluid floods into your mouth. Can't fake that.

And if she's a squirter, that's as real as it gets.

And if your tongue is working well, and you've slowly raised her level of desire, then the pussy juice taste will change, as a different gland-fluid floods into your mouth. Can't fake that.

100% this

[yourdesire]

I can't fake it, I'm not that good of an actress. I enjoy my sessions, I can't imagine doing this if I didn't like it. There are several who can tell you about a soaked face.

[Go4it]

Had a friend who swore up and downhe was absolutely positive
that no woman had EVER faked an orgasm with him. When pressed for how he knew that to be true his response was "Because no one ever had an orgams with him"

[secondHandNews]

Originally Posted by TexomaCowboy

A good companion can facially and vocally "fake" an orgasm, and that is a nice little touch to the session.

I agree with Tex here but I would expand that sentiment a bit. This might be controversial but I believe the "girlfriend" part of GFE is a lost art. Think about how a GF behaves when you're young and you haven't seen her in a while. She can't wait to put her arms around you. She enthusiastically and passionately kisses you. She drops to her knees, getting her fingers caught in your belt as she tries to unbuckle it. She doesn't wait for you to pull her panties off; she's naked before you hit the bed. She grabs your hips and pulls you deep inside her. She explodes quickly and easily because she's been thinking about you all day.

When's the last time you had that kind of session?

I don't care if it's genuine, although that would be ideal. But if a provider is going to advertise GFE, I think she should at least pretend to be that. Maybe a better advertisement would be "SWE" where she doesn't even bother pretending; she just waits for it to be over with.

[Wile E Coyote]

Let me put it this way...if many of the providers of today did for their RL significant others what they do for clients BCD, those significant others would be long gone.

Just think if you could base your donation comparing her advertised level of service (ads she placed, what she told you to get you to set the appointment, ect.) upon the level of service actually received.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

Let me put it this way...if many of the providers of today did for their RL significant others what they do for clients BCD, those significant others would be long gone..

If any hooker has a SO that is okay with her doing this for a living, she's involved with someone lower than her, guy's always date down and women always date up! In that case case, that SO isn't going anywhere 😆

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by BLM69

If any hooker has a SO that is okay with her doing this for a living, she's involved with someone lower than her, guy's always date down and women always date up! In that case case, that SO isn't going anywhere ��

Of course the SO approves of what she does. After all, the provider is probably the breadwinner between the two. Plus, it could be that their SO told them to be distant for not be there mentally while in session. That has to be a reasoning for all the providers who just barely go through the motions and make you feel as if you are having BCD relations with a mannequin or corpse, Right?

[oldbutstillgoing]

Or maybe, just maybe, the common factor in so many sub-par sessions with one guy should be considered.